Ask her if she's single or just ask her out?
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Asked her out already. Fingers crossed
2Rocky
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You need to build enough comfort where you don't have to ask. Assess her INTEREST, and go from there. If she is returning your kino, eye contact, laughing at your innuendo's and contributing her own, she is interested. Why would you ask a woman to go do something with you if she is not comfortable holding your hand, hugging you with her breasts tight against you, and initiating touch?
You asking her out on a date in person is just calling her actions to the forefront and if she doesn't match her actions then and there to going somewhere alone with you , then bail. Let your actions show her it is ok for her to show you she is interested.
You asking her out on a date in person is just calling her actions to the forefront and if she doesn't match her actions then and there to going somewhere alone with you , then bail. Let your actions show her it is ok for her to show you she is interested.
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Asking a girl if shes single isnt mandatory.. Just dont get finessed and become a free meal and a free date multipe times before she says "well thanks for the meals! you're really cool you should meet my boyfriend sometime" lol
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Really? Calm down