Ask for their numbers, or no?

[TheLadiesMan]

Some women give you their numbers.... some want you to ask them. wtf?

Best to ask, or wait till they give it to you?

I'd rather have them give it to me, as those are viewed as the lucky winners of the night.

 

[squirrels]

If she doesn't offer it, then ask for it. But don't say, "may I have your number?" Say, "gimme your number so I can talk to you later" or something along those lines. If you haven't established enough rapport to request it in that manner, then you need to work more on establishing rapport.

 

[STR8UP]

If she doesn't offer it, then ask for it. But don't say, "may I have your number?" Say, "gimme your number so I can talk to you later" or something along those lines. If you haven't established enough rapport to request it in that manner, then you need to work more on establishing rapport.

If the chick doesn't offer it I just hand them my phone and tell them to put their number in it. Usually they give me a bewildered "I can't believe you just did that" look, but it never fails, I always get the number.

 

[edger]

Some women give you their numbers.... some want you to ask them. wtf?

Best to ask, or wait till they give it to you?

I'd rather have them give it to me, as those are viewed as the lucky winners of the night.

The thing I always do: "we'll exchange numbers", or "we'll have to exchange numbers", OR, "we'll hang out", or "we'll have to hang out". The "we'll hang out" and "we'll have to hang out" usually results in a number exchange. Out of all though, I prefer the "we'll exchange numbers" and "we'll hang out".

 

[lookyoung]

I always ask for a girls number. If a girl refuses to give me her number, I next her right away. I went out with a friend of mine to a club and girls refused to give him there numbers. He was actually giving them his. To me that is a BIG NO NO. We are man we shall get the numbers.


The most FAMOUS EXCUSES GIRLS USE
I never give out my number. Which is BS.


If any of you encounter this bs excuse than WALK AWAY. You have a 2% chance of hooking up with her.

 

[grinder]

My personal experience is most women don’t offer up their numbers first even if they are actually very interested in you. It just does not seem “right” to them.

Think about what you are missing if you don’t ask…..

BTW, your actual question is a good one to work into an approach.

 

[STR8UP]

Never ASK for the number. ALWAYS assume the sale.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Ok... I waited for this gorgeous babe to give me her number, and last night, she gave it to me. After a month of getting to know her, last night, I got those freakn digits without ever asking for it. Duuuuuuuuuudes! Just a matter of time now.

She told me she wanted to see me tonight.

 

[danielzxc]

The most FAMOUS EXCUSES GIRLS USE
I never give out my number. Which is BS.

Maybe some girls really are scared of giving their numbers to strangers, but this group would only be about 1% or 2% of real girls. However, this excuse is given about by WAY more than 2% of chicks, so most of the time it is total BS. They just use it 'cos it seems like a polite way of telling you they're not interested.

Another famous BS line is one waitresses and bartender chicks use: "sorry, I don't date customers". This one is totally fkkn lame. Like some guy being in the restaurant or club where you work actually means anything. Again, it's just an easy way for them to turn you down without hurting your feelings too much.