Phoenix of the ashes,
Are you Asian or non-Asian? If you're not Asian then I have to admit I'm VERY impressed by your insightfulness. You must have had a very deep relationship with an Asian girl, and have had time to analyze the relationship for a while, to be able to come up with that stuff. It's pure gold.
If any whiteboy wants to have a REAL relationship with an Asian woman they need to stop listening to propaganda from movies ("I ruv yoo rong time!") and mail order bride websites ("Asian women are loyal, will clean up after you, fetch your paper and slippers.... who needs a dog?") and pay attention to Phoenix of the Ashes. IMHO, Asian women are even more dangerous than Western women, in terms of their ability to use you and eventually clean you out and cut your down at the knees. This goes double if you're a non-Asian man with an Asian woman.
Once again, there is no 'utopia' to be found in the arms of an Asian woman. Most are out to use you, especially if she is a foreign national. The more destitute her homeland is, the more you should keep your guard up.