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The point is I became 100% serious about getting good at getting women to like/love me and keeping them in love.

You can do the same. Start following the knowledgeable people on this forum.
I’ve done that. I’ve been 100% serious about getting good with women.

Then women take one look at my height and say “go to hell”. At least I have decent hair.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The $500k Normie can shell out some of that loot and just buy aesthetics that make him a Chad. If he doesn't, he's either to be exploited or invisible. Hope he buys himself a poppin' IG with a Blue Check.
This makes sense, to get social proof and pre-screening.

But you have to have a plan, what are you going to do on this social network?
Also, being a famous person now, what kind of people are you going to attract?
I had an IG with 15k followers in 2015, but I deleted it because all the girls in the city saw me as someone I wasn't and it made me feel insecure.
They just wanted to be there with you in the spotlight, but not genuinely **** you.
Instead, I noticed that being without social media, but being a good catch, takes a whole other focus
What's yours?
 

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This makes sense, to get social proof and pre-screening.

But you have to have a plan, what are you going to do on this social network?
Also, being a famous person now, what kind of people are you going to attract?
I had an IG with 15k followers in 2015, but I deleted it because all the girls in the city saw me as someone I wasn't and it made me feel insecure.
They just wanted to be there with you in the spotlight, but not genuinely **** you.
Instead, I noticed that being without social media, but being a good catch, takes a whole other focus

What's yours?
Based off my experience dealing with girls on OLD and SM, only frauds and washed-up post athletes were on those platforms trying to get women. A person like Leo or my rich surgeon friend are not the on apps or Instagram mass spam approaching random women lol.
 

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For People who subscribe to Blackpill/Incel Idelogy this is what happens when a INcel Levels ups with Money but has no discernment, personality and hangs out with a 40 year old ran-through Bimbo
-Guy is son of a rich tech guy (Daddy owns a $45 Million dollar mansion)
- 41 year old INCEL has MS and is also socially awkward (no game, no charisma, full on sperger)
-Daddy Gives INCel millions for allownace
-Incel likes to trick his money of on E-Thots was donating $1000s of dollars to a 40 year old Elisa Jordana
-Incel Has a huge crush on Elisa Jordana former writer and guest for Howard Stern turned IRL streamer on Youtube
-At some Points, he would donate up to $25,000 at a time
-After donating roughly $2 mIllion dollars to Elisa in roughly 6 months, he finally got to meet his "Stacey" (Elisa)
-They hang out for a few streams, and it goes as you expect (Nothing but Simpish Cringe)

-She ends up getting arrested for putting her hands on him while driving and got a year of probation

Imagine paying $2 Million dollars to meet up with a verified ran-throguh bimbo, who doesn't give you no box, no bjs nothing. The only thing you can do is cuss her out and hang with her "On stream". There is nothing more Blackpill than this
 
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There is nothing more Blackpill than this
Like some members in here who think X amount of money is a requirement to get girls. Truly pathetic.
 

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For People who subscribe to Blackpill/Incel Idelogy this is what happens when a INcel Levels ups with Money but has no discernment, personality and hangs out with a 40 year old ran-through Bimbo
-Guy is son of a rich tech guy (Daddy owns a $45 Million dollar mansion)
- 41 year old INCEL has MS and is also socially awkward (no game, no charisma, full on sperger)
-Daddy Gives INCel millions for allownace
-Incel likes to trick his money of on E-Thots was donating $1000s of dollars to a 40 year old Elisa Jordana
-Incel Has a huge crush on Elisa Jordana former writer and guest for Howard Stern turned IRL streamer on Youtube
-At some Points, he would donate up to $25,000 at a time
-After donating roughly $2 mIllion dollars to Elisa in roughly 6 months, he finally got to meet his "Stacey" (Elisa)
-They hang out for a few streams, and it goes as you expect (Nothing but Simpish Cringe)

-She ends up getting arrested for putting her hands on him while driving and got a year of probation

Imagine paying $2 Million dollars to meet up with a verified ran-throguh bimbo, who doesn't give you no box, no bjs nothing. The only thing you can do is cuss her out and hang with her "On stream". There is nothing more Blackpill than this
I have a bad feeling about this

Maybe it’s just me being more aware but I have a feeling the simp behavior we’ve seen over the last few years is going to look like child’s play compared to what’s going to happen in the next few years.

2 mill over 6 months and the man’s 41?! This guy in his prime and tricking like there’s no tomorrow. These men are lost! Their self esteem is non existent. All hope is lost.

if your married keep you girl far away from these stories! Especially if your no where near a millionaire.
 
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Like some members in here who think X amount of money is a requirement to get girls. Truly pathetic.
not required, but it doesn't hurt. the good news its one of the most straight forward and dumb simple things to fix. only a silly guy can not do it. being tall or good looking is much more difficult. so if your ugly and short, learn game and get money.
 

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not required, but it doesn't hurt. the good news its one of the most straight forward and dumb simple things to fix. only a silly guy can not do it. being tall or good looking is much more difficult. so if your ugly and short, learn game and get money.
Incomplete advice. One day you'll get it, keep trying
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I’ve done that. I’ve been 100% serious about getting good with women.

Then women take one look at my height and say “go to hell”. At least I have decent hair.
You should check out some of my videos on how to ameliorate the height problem. I am sure I am not the first person to say this, but if you get serious about diet and bodybuilding you can make up for a lot. It will take 2-3 years of hard work and discipline.

If you get serious about developing your game, you can make up for a lot. Similarly, this does not happen overnight.
 

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You all have noticed.. as soon as you focus and improve something in your life, women will come.
Now, it doesn't mean that you will actively date them, but you will notice it on a passive level.
Women you don't know, actually, sense that you have something.
The cool fact is, you're not doing this for them, but for You and your life
I dance with my friends at bars and random women will approach me. I walk around in public and women are receptive to me waving and smiling. They passively check me out. I sometimes get free drinks at venues from bartenders regardless of gender.

Women, even in relationships, know when a high value person is in the same room as them. Women understand value significantly better than men do which is why they tend to check out of relationships much earlier than the man does.

If you focus on yourself they really do seek you out.
 

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I dance with my friends at bars and random women will approach me. I walk around in public and women are receptive to me waving and smiling. They passively check me out. I sometimes get free drinks at venues from bartenders regardless of gender.

Women, even in relationships, know when a high value person is in the same room as them. Women understand value significantly better than men do which is why they tend to check out of relationships much earlier than the man does.

If you focus on yourself they really do seek you out.
Are you the misterious quiet or the happy charismating guy?
 

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You don’t have to be tall. You just have to be taller than her.

I’m tall and it helps attract women but I think the best match is when she is around 5-7 inches shorter than me. I’ve met women substantially shorter than me give me head when we are both standing up and that’s fun times for sure but the height difference is not practical as a long term match. Women learn to select a guy with a practical height differential.
 

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You don’t have to be tall. You just have to be taller than her.

I’m tall and it helps attract women but I think the best match is when she is around 5-7 inches shorter than me. I’ve met women substantially shorter than me give me head when we are both standing up and that’s fun times for sure but the height difference is not practical as a long term match. Women learn to select a guy with a practical height differential.
Height for women is the same as having a "big d!ck", they tap into your ego and men can be easily manipulated with those "traits" What men fail to understand, is that relaying on those things alone to get and maintain women is a trap. Attraction is necessary, so its respect and a positive mindset.

When women get used to your chad height, and your big d!ck, it gets old very fast, and if anything else in your life is $hit, you're not gonna make it. She will leave and you'll be thinking "damn, I wasn't tall enough and my d!ck wasn't big enough to keep her". Then comes depression and the thought of you not being sufficient even with those "great attributes" that women love to say they want.

Lesson: Women don't know what they want, because in reality, they cannot logically know.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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What would you like to hear from a 165cm tall man?
I have a river of words to tell you..

What my experience has made me notice is that a woman is always different from another, and they don't really know what they want. I know women who like tall men, yet they get very excited/desire in my presence. There is a physical part, for sure, and it ends when she just gaze at you.
But once you met that woman and go talk her, another world of opportunities actually opens up.
This happened to me with many women. No interested at first glance. Highest Interest after 10 or 20 hours of exposure togheter
 

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I’ve never in my life heard a female tell me I’m not tall enough or my penis is small. Never ever. And it doesn’t matter being tall. Women just want a guy that is taller than she is.

The women that tend to match with me long term are as tall as my chin and skinny with long straight hair. Women understand what frame and stature fits them best.

I know a couple who are planning to get married and she is up to my chin, skinny and long hair. She mismatched with some dude who is 1.5 feet shorter than her. He’s a little guy who puffs his chest out and acts tough and won’t make eye contact with me. My guess is she won’t marry him. Anytime she stands near a guy like me she knows the guys she’s with is a mismatch.
 

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Recipe for 'getting better internally'- God Consciousness-have a faith in a higher source and find pleasure in the spiritual rather than depending on your senses for material matters. Then after that, you gotta have a sense of purpose or goals and ambition in life and emotional high over women or any sentimental relationships. Then the rest will come in play.
 

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In most cases I am 3cm shorter than the girls here, or just the same
Yeah but like I’ve tried to describe, I think the height thing has been blown out of proportion. I’m tall but I’ve had dry spells just like any other guy. Being tall is not everything.

Like I noted, I’ve met a good number of women who I was too tall for. I’ve been with women my penis was too big for. I’ve met women who told me they just want a guy taller than they are and that’s the truth.

They’re out there.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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