As an Israeli of African decent it's weird how girls don't know what they want

[Toast123]

Like I find it very strange how most girls, even smart ones, do not seem to get how their own attraction works or are not honest with themselves when they say what they like in a man.

How many times do you hear women say these things?

"I like a man who is not too available."
"I like a man who almost never says I love you."
"I am even more attracted to a man who seems adverse even towards the idea of love."
"I like a man who might possibly cheat on me and is so desired by other women that I constantly feel insecure about it."
"I like a man who shows me limited amounts of attention."
"I like it when I am not even sure if the man even cares about me. Why won't he care about me. What an *******. I love him so much."


Would the world be better off if women admitted how fvcked up they are?

 

[backseatjuan]

As an Israeli of African decent it's weird how girls don't know what they want



The subject line you chose is rather telling of your high self image. Though combined with the content of your post I'm compelled to question your intention with this post.

Tell me, if you were a Jamaican of Japanese descent would you still have the same findings?

Why couldn't you just title your post 'it's weird how girls don't know what they want'?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Hard to give you an answer if you dont provide any more relevant details, we know that you are black and jew but what about your religion belief and shoes size?

We cannot see your point of view if we dont know your bodyfat percentage or education, anyway regarding what women want it usually change according how often you masturbate under the shower, next time you feel the urge to share details about yourself go ahead and give us the bigger picture.
For example women attracted to unavailable men can be simply explained according to your car insurance rate or kill/datio ratio on halo.

 

[Fly By Night]

Well I'm going to ignore your background's perspective. (because we ALL have to put up with this) But we say things like this because it is what will KEEP a woman. As far as I know, there will be women who will genuinely like it if her man is very available to her. Same thing with a guy who says "I love you." a lot. The thing is, if you become this close-knit to her, she will start thinking "If this guy is THIS into me, can't I get someone better?"

The statements you listed is what improves your value in her eyes. If she is insecure about you leaving because other women want to eff you, of course she is going to stay because she is the envy of the town and she feels like a big shot since she has you. She will lose all that fame and jealousy if she leaves you.

Now check this out, even if you do all the right things: What if she finds a guy who makes more money than you, better looking in the face, a better body, and hits on her? Even if you did your part just right, she will STILL leave you for him because she has found better. Women all feel entitled to have a Brad Pitt or the likes, but hey, we all feel entitled to a HB10. The great part is that only about 10% of the male population actually hold themselves to this high standard so you don't have that much competition if you do your job right.

So remember, "you are the Great Catch".

 

[Toast123]

Fly By Night I must say that your reply was one of the best posts I have ever read. I think you really answered my question brilliantly.

Well I'm going to ignore your background's perspective. (because we ALL have to put up with this)

Ok fair enough, some people like a shade of white on their walls some pink curtains or a blue care with the windows tinted and the mirrors at an angle ext ext. Some are fine with any.Often life brings us more than one way of getting that and I know, as we all, you can't buy stuff like that. You really can't. (Though some people are able to scramble, dream and even write it but that's another story.) But it's perspective and all. Sone once again as an Israeli of African decent, much like it's shade, I am very appreciative of your reply. It sounds like an answer born of an intricate knowledge and deep understanding with a great foundation based on experience. So thanks for taking time to write it.