Yep, if things are meant to be, they will flow in that direction.
Exactly! If she is NOT giving you the attention you deserve, WALK AWAY. Don't give your time and attention for nothing. If you really like her, you can put her into your "refrigerator zone", and ping her rarely, here and there. But if you do not obtain nice interest responses, mantain the distance. Go invest your time and resources where you can get some satisfaction.
It depends what kind of friend zone we are talking about....I've known plenty of people were friends and then dated....sometimes two people can like each other but because of a variety of reasons it just can't happen at that moment......and then you have the other friendzone and I think this is the friendzone people are referring to where the woman wouldn't even want to see you to be ****ing honest. You get put into this category because you ****ed up or she simply just doesn't like you. Sorry, that's a fact of life not every woman will like you despite your best intentions. The solution to this is easy you have to move the **** on. There is NOTHING to gain and you only keep yourself stuck - if you want one thing and she wants another it is a waste of your time and energy to try to convince otherwise. You could be chasing after other chicks or doing something that will benefit you like learning some new skill or something ---- down the line perhaps those women that did the friendzone would regret it when you are no longer valueless but valuable in her eyes. I think a lot of people tend to put the cart before the horse - you have to put together the best package you can before you go out there, and especially if you are targeting what society terms "desirable" women.
There may be a couple reasons why you're there:
I am not interested in female logic.
Is this where you purse your lips too much? I could see where maybe that might turn some women off.
Truth. The fourth one is hopeless but there is hope if it's one of the three. That suggests that at one time there was some attraction but things had gone south. The way to go about is basically dissapear and reinvent yourself. You have to basically change to such a degree that makes her question if her assumption was wrong - now this is where guys screw up because the possibility exists they can revert back to their old ways. You have to be strong and secure in yourself to pull it off which is why it is suggested you probably should honestly just forget about it and move on.
I think THE ZONE being a problem or not comes down to whether the man is the pursuer or the pursued in the "friendship". I think THE ZONE is like the relationship "practice squad"; if no other team wants to sign you, it's better than nothing (i.e., social proof, connections on meeting her acquaintances, etc.) and by being around, you can hone your skill to either get past THE ZONE with this chick, or get with another chick.
Wake up babeums, men don’t call their c0cks ‘weenies’…
It's actually not better than nothing . If this is one of your primary forms of female attention, it fvcks you into a c0ckless frame. This means you might as well not have a dyck. Best thing to do with friends zone if you want to fvck her is to leave her along, get along with your life and have sex with someone else.
I said that the man could pursue others, even when hanging around with THE ZONE chick. Oh, and I didn't say that the man had to want to fvck her (aside from the generic wanting to fvck any woman of decent attractiveness). And I said that if the man had anything better to do, he should go do that.
True, it's not just impossible to go from friends to lover like so many black and white posts make it sound. It's not black and white. It's just that for a relative beginner with not that many 'skills,' it's best to just not try. Or if you are trying, don't make it obvious.
