Originally posted by Gonzalo
Just to clarify, nobody owes anybody their respect or admiration, such things are earned over time. If well, you posted a few useful things here and there, apparently you haven't done it in a discrete or non-self righteous manner such there could have been a consensus that the stuff you post is useful or to be taken seriously.
Most of the stuff you write, and you write LOTS, at some point turns to how you were wronged by your ex-husband and how men are deluding themselves. Well, guess what, in all honestly and with no intention to an as*hole, Nobody Cares. This is a dating/relatinship site, built to a large extent on the premise that female advise is biased and mostly wishful thinking. If you think you can bypass that, you can give advise in a discrete manner and if it's sound you'll have our respect and deepest thanks (note: WE, the ones who are out there trying shyt on those of your gender, are the ones who will let you know whether your stuff is quality or not; I'm sick of that "my thread was pretty damn good" shyt).
If you are on a crusade to become a martyr, then good luck. Some guys have tried that in the past. They don't post anymore for some reason (hint).