article: ... recipe for a lasting union: “Just be nice, cook, and have sex!”

[MatureDJ]

http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/...hoose_a_husband_reviewed.html?wpisrc=obinsite

The best way to bag a husband is to detox from feminism, “return to femininity,” tune out your mom and friends, stay away from pop culture, don’t shack up without a ring, “marry the accountant, not the artist.” And once you do find a man: Be sweet, give him lots of sex, and don’t talk too much.

Any wife of mine acting on that advice would sure as hell keep me desirous of staying married!

But of course, the feminist author of the book review has to add her assessment:

Truly, if that’s what makes a good marriage, then I concur with Venker: Marriage is doomed.

My opinion of her assessment: :crackup:

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MDJ,
Thanks for finding these little gems... “Just be nice, cook, and have sex!”...Simplistic and trite as it seems,it really is that easy....This comes as no surprise to the Asian Woman and is the major reason why so many Western Men Contract Yellow Fever!

 

[Burroughs]

A woman laughing at this is par for the course....women have a vested interest in perpetuating the slavery of men which is in their best interest

But why have men yet to catch on to this obvious farce?

women are essentially saying its a joke that women will ever *be nice, cook, and have sex*....so why are men on board for anything less than this??

men are truly morons and are ultimately their own worst enemies, they are addicted to women both for sexual release and the perpetuation of a fanciful non-existent *mother figure*....until this addiction ends and men act according to their own self interest the slavery will continue

 

[glass half full]

Quote:
The best way to bag a husband is to detox from feminism, “return to femininity,” tune out your mom and friends, stay away from pop culture, don’t shack up without a ring, “marry the accountant, not the artist.” And once you do find a man: Be sweet, give him lots of sex, and don’t talk too much.



:box: best thing i've heard all day. This should be in the marriage vows.

 

[Greasy Pig]

This is so true. Feminism is harming women far more than they realise or will ever admit.
If women would just act like women, everyone's lives would be easier. There is nothing wrong with a woman trying to please her man by cooking for him, dressing nicely for him and jumping on his c0ck regularly.
But the feminists have labelled this as being subservient and shameful. As a result, we have all these misinformed women acting like men, with no idea how to cook or sew on a button and refusing to believe that maybe men prefer ladylike females.
And Burroughs is right, unfeminine, ball busting cuunt women in the post-feminism era wouldn't last five minutes if men grew a set of balls and refused to touch them.
Instead, we've got all these pvssified men out there grovelling for a sniff of some well ploughed poon from a man with tits. This only empowers the feminists to perpetuate their flawed agenda.

EDIT: I've been looking for a woman with old-fashioned values for years and my current GF fits the bill. She's still very assertive and can be aggressive at times but she is so thoughtful. I asked her about feminism and she said she thought it was good for some women but she believed there was nothing wrong with trying to please her man by dressing nicely, being polite to his friends, cooking up a storm and satisfying him sexually.
The other morning I was running late for golf (because I decided to throw her a quick one instead of getting ready). I jumped in my car and as I was about to drive off, she ran out with three bits of toast and my favourite coffee in a travel mug because she knew I didn't have time to have breakfast. No big deal but her gesture showed me that I'm dealing with a woman who likes being a traditional female.
My last girlfriend many moons ago would've not spoken to me for two days if I dared play golf on a weekend instead of spending every minute with her and most definitely wouldn't have thought: "Oh no! Greasy Pig has to play golf for four hours on an empty stomach? Not on my watch."

Feminists who criticise women for not joining `The Sisterhood' should be shot with a ball of their own shyt and thrown to the sodomites.

 

[zekko]

My opinion of her assessment: :crackup:

I agree with the OP. What's so terrible about being nice, cooking, and having sex? Seems like that is just a baseline minimum for what they could do.

 

[Jitterbug]

What's so terrible about being nice, cooking, and having sex? Seems like that is just a baseline minimum for what they could do.

Yet those bare minimum feminine requirements are so hard to find... and most young women are raised to actively oppose them.

This comes as no surprise to the Asian Woman and is the major reason why so many Western Men Contract Yellow Fever!

Not the young ones, not any more. Even if you go to Asia. They have been westernised at a crazy fast rate. No longer nice, most can't cook at all (can't even boil eggs) and have... let's say very weird sexuality. There are still gems here & there but they are about as rare as finding a white girl who is the same. Just about the only major advantage they have is that generally they aren't fat and are terrified of getting fat, although even this is rapidly changing, I'm afraid. Have a quick look at the international Asian student population in Australia if you want visual proofs...

 

[zekko]

Yet those bare minimum feminine requirements are so hard to find... and most young women are raised to actively oppose them.

Don't be nice, be a b!tch.
Cooking = Oppression.
Sex = a tool to manipulate him with.

Just about the only major advantage they have is that generally they aren't fat and are terrified of getting fat, although even this is rapidly changing, I'm afraid.

One of the things I like about Asian women is that they seem to remain slim throughout their life. Must be the diet. Also, they stay youthful looking in appearance far longer than white women. Part of this is that they stay slim, and part is the darker skin has more oil, thus less wrinkles and more elasticity. I even find the older and less attractive asian women hot.

That said, if they are quickly becoming westernized, I wouldn't at all be surprised to see them start having weight problems. Especially if their diet gets more westernized.

 

[Nutz]

I'm very glad to see the "detox from feminism" message is gaining traction. Climbing the socioeconomic ladder is the WORST thing a woman can do if having kids and a long-term relationship is her ultimate goal, and for 2 reasons:

1. The higher up the ladder a woman climbs, the fewer available men will be above her. This is direct contradiction to her hypergamous nature as women generally only date men with status above their own.

2. Chasing a degree, and then a career, only to try and pencil a man in once she's older again limits her available pool of men as men's status climbs as we age. That means we're more attractive and have more options with women much younger than her. On the other hand as she ages her SMV decreases. By mid 30s the entire dating paradigm flip-flops from what she was used to in her late teens & early 20s.