re: ego flex
I find it peculiar that seemingly so many (young?) men focus on what other men want and base their desires and actions on it. Frankly, if I find a 5'3" 45-year-old ex-gymnast or athletic build chick with abs and broad shoulders, with brown hair, a nice big firm arse, thighs and legs of steel, and b cups attractive - that's for me, not you - I hope every other mfer out there think shes grotesque—more for me.
Threads titled: "Is this chick a 9?" crack me up; why does it matter? I'd postulate this is more common in age groups that grew up with social media; they seem to have this gnawing need to be validated in everything - "this is me buying a donut, this is me eating a donut, this is me crapping out a donut," "me me me, pick me, pay attention to me!" "omergawd she unfriended me! what do I do?!"
I don't choose women because they meet someone else's aesthetic needs; I choose them because they meet mine.