article: Is 25 The New ‘Invisible Age’?

[MatureDJ]

Chicks lament that starting at age 25, men stop paying attention to them:

https://sheerluxe.com/2018/05/16/25-new-‘invisible-age’

“No one tries to chat me up anymore,” Emma*, a 27-year-old Londoner tells me. “When I was 20, I’d go into a bar and have countless guys offer to buy me a drink, now they don’t even bother to say hello.”

“All my single friends say the same thing,” she continues. “Even the most beautiful girl I know is struggling with the hetero dating scene right now – it’s like we’ve become invisible to guys our age.”

 

[El Payaso]

Awww....boo hoo hoo.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Chicks lament that starting at age 25, men stop paying attention to them:

https://sheerluxe.com/2018/05/16/25-new-‘invisible-age’

It's not that... Many guys aren't buying free drinks these days.

 

[jacketrunner]

Lol I’m 28 and am repulsed by girls my age.

Luckily, younger girls still like me.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Their peak was at 23

 

[Alvafe]

funny is the title saying its unjust.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

funny is the title saying its unjust.

Men are supposed to submit and open their wallet

 

[zekko]

Chicks lament that starting at age 25, men stop paying attention to them:’

I don't believe that for a second, unless they've packed on a lot of weight.

 

[jacketrunner]

I don't believe that for a second, unless they've packed on a lot of weight.

I don't know... when I was 22 and I was in a relationship with an 18 year old and she was extremely cute. I fell in love with her at first sight, and she was one of the hottest girls I've ever dated.

Looking at her Facebook, she hasn't put on weight, but she's not nearly as attractive at 24. Her facial features are a lot less attractive for whatever reason. She's still in great shape, if not better shape, but it kinda looks like her cheeks are more saggy and she's just less youthful-looking overall.

I'd say she went from a 9.5 to a 7.8.

 

[zekko]

Looking at her Facebook, she hasn't put on weight, but she's not nearly as attractive at 24.

I'm not surprised. There's nothing like a girl in her late teens/early 20s. I've even seen some stunningly beautiful girls lose their looks by age 20. On the other hand, some girls stay attractive well into their 40s, although they're probably the exception. I'm not saying a girl can't be less attractive at 25 than at 20, they certainly can.

I was just saying that I didn't believe that 25 year old girls aren't getting any attention from men. Even if your girl went from a 9.5 to a 7.8, I still think a 7.8 is going to be getting a lot of attention.

 

[simongtown]

Their peak was at 23

Nope. 18.

 

[simongtown]

Chicks lament that starting at age 25, men stop paying attention to them:

https://sheerluxe.com/2018/05/16/25-new-‘invisible-age’

But men approaching women is sexual harassment and sexual objectification

But when men STOP approaching women it's because of patriarchal definitions of beauty and because of "ageism."

These dumb cvnts never run out of ways to try to gaslight us.

 

[jacketrunner]

Nope. 18.

Lol you sure you don’t mean a bit younger?

 

[simongtown]

She just got fat and now blames patriarchy and porn and ageism or whatever excuse floats her boat.

 

[sosousage]

yea now they r not buying her free drinks how could this happen

wh0re

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe unless they got fat (which is the base most of the times), its basically that their "attitude" increase while the tolerance in older guys decrease therefore guys simply skip it.

While late teen girls are a pain in the ass to deal with, the amount of attitude and nnoying behaviour you get from girls in their mid 20s is even more, they think that just because they manage to get a degree they are now some "professional" whatever the fvck they mean by that.

Plus now they still have the same laundry list when it comes of men plus they expect to be in charge and get unlimited commitment unless you are a top chad ofc.

Guys in bars want to have fun or sex, they sense that they cant get any from those girls most of the cases so they drop it.

Even girls in their late 20s or early 30s while even worse in terms of look usually have a better attitude toward dating, they got used to guys having standard and dropping the field with no explanation if annoyed.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's not that... Many guys aren't buying free drinks these days.

Guys are catching on. Unless you’re Chad/Tyrone, she’s going to get annoyed if you offer to buy her a drink. It’s typically not even worth offering unless you are already in a conversation and she seems interested.

 

[simongtown]

These dumb cvnts seemingly only think about two things: their next pair of shoes and how to weasel a free drink from the first man they see in a room. Even old b1tches are trying to weasel free drinks from me these days.

They sidle up next to me at the bar just as I'm ordering, hoping for a handout. Or, they'll ask me "what beer is good here?" These aren't even women I know, just random hors.

With each passing day, these cvnts are getting more and more brazen. Pretty soon they're just going to flat out start robbing men on the street.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Guys are catching on. Unless you’re Chad/Tyrone, she’s going to get annoyed if you offer to buy her a drink. It’s typically not even worth offering unless you are already in a conversation and she seems interested.

Guys also know it's dumb and a good waaste of $. Tyrone ain't buying female drinks. He's entitled he believes they should buy him drinks.

 

[jacketrunner]

Guys are catching on. Unless you’re Chad/Tyrone, she’s going to get annoyed if you offer to buy her a drink. It’s typically not even worth offering unless you are already in a conversation and she seems interested.

Buying a drink for a woman can be a good thing if you’ve already attracted her and established rapport.

If you buy a drink for yourself, you just nonchalantly ask her what she wants and get her one as well.

The thing is, you can’t be doing it if your attitude is “I’m buying her a drink so she’ll have sex with me in exchange”

Instead, your attitude is that you’re having a good time with her, and you’re providing value as the man in the relationship.