article: How Tinder “Feedback Loop” Forces Men and Women into Extreme Strategies

[Hamurabimbi]

It never really began for a male in the 10th percentile. A male in the 10th percentile is likely overweight/obese, acne-ridden, a neckbeard, and a man without a good paying job.

Tinder isn't worth doing unless you are 90th percentile or higher. You need to 6'0"+ with six pack abs and/or big arm muscles. Shirtless pics of the abs are highly recommended. If 30+, then a higher earner too in addition to the physical requirements.

Nope. Just have a good face. Anything else is just a cherry on top.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This does not get talked about enough, the actual pool of dateable women on Old is extremely low, compared to the Hordes of men on these apps.

However men are able to get slays out of these apps.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They are all hookup apps. And remember women control sex - when to engage, with whom, etc. Therefore women control the apps and men do not.

Other than looks, apps do not show the other qualities of a man - persistent, diligence, fore thought, rational thinking, etc..

Apps are built for failure for all genders. Nobody is happy with them.

If it's just for hookups use professional photographs and a good "template" of a working bio to snag the fishies.

 

[SW15]

Nope. Just have a good face. Anything else is just a cherry on top.

Wrong. Plenty of men that have good facial aesthetics are not getting laid on swipe apps.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Wrong. Plenty of men that have good facial aesthetics are not getting laid on swipe apps.

Of course plenty of GL (or men in general) are not succeeding on OLD.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SwipeHelper/comments/io5qhj

 

[Bigpapa]

OP. Could it be that women are only turned on by a tiny proportion of men?

If so, then alpha fux/beta bux appears to be true (it’s certainly been true in my experience).

Women, unless they are an outlier, are highly selective about who they bang. Even fat, ugly women are picky (especially in 2022).

Guys like @Pandora, who dream that women love lots of c0ck from multiple men, will just have to deal with it.

The myth of hypersexual, horny women who are not selective is a matrix myth to keep you simping and to keep you wanking into your sock

usually the uglier a woman is , the more likely it is to use sex for validation

basically the more selective a woman is with the top tier guys , the better

if you want to aim for low count girls , you have to go for the quality ones and above ,otherwise you are a raccoon scavenging in the dumpster

 

[Pandora]

It's OVER for NonFeedbackLoopCels

dead lolol

 

[Pandora]

OP. Could it be that women are only turned on by a tiny proportion of men?

If so, then alpha fux/beta bux appears to be true (it’s certainly been true in my experience).

Women, unless they are an outlier, are highly selective about who they bang. Even fat, ugly women are picky (especially in 2022).

Guys like @Pandora, who dream that women love lots of c0ck from multiple men, will just have to deal with it.

The myth of hypersexual, horny women who are not selective is a matrix myth to keep you simping and to keep you wanking into your sock

The average girl that is on these dating apps has a double and sometimes triple digit body count you autistic Ritz cracker eating neckbeard fu8k.

Women dont have to be "hypersexual" to rack up body counts. Much of it is validation sex with the top hottest guys. They have sex with the hot guys on this app to feel good about themselves. They also can get horny and have sex with these guys.

In your world women are sitting at home only giving sex to a very small select man or two every year. You idiot, a girl can easily sleep with 5 guys in a year and these are rookie numbers. Just because you are not getting sex does not mean its not happening. Still didnt show your picture. Stop mentioning me with silly nonsense =)

 

[Zimbabwe]

In your world women are sitting at home only giving sex to a very small select man or two every year. You idiot, a girl can easily sleep with 5 guys in a year and these are rookie numbers. Just because you are not getting sex does not mean its not happening. Still didnt show your picture. Stop mentioning me with silly nonsense =)

Young people are having less casual sex and spending more time scrolling on social media

A new study adds to evidence that financial uncertainty and social media are changing the sexual landscape for young adults.

www.google.com

Why Young Adults, Especially Men, Are Having Sex Less Frequently

One-third of men between the ages of 18 and 24 report they had no sexual activity in the past year.

www.healthline.com

Young people are having less and less sex as women become more and more picky. Not sure what world you live in but what Pan says is true and it's backed up by statistics and studies.

 

[Pandora]

Young people are having less casual sex and spending more time scrolling on social media

A new study adds to evidence that financial uncertainty and social media are changing the sexual landscape for young adults.

www.google.com

Why Young Adults, Especially Men, Are Having Sex Less Frequently

One-third of men between the ages of 18 and 24 report they had no sexual activity in the past year.

www.healthline.com

Young people are having less and less sex as women become more and more picky. Not sure what world you live in but what Pan says is true and it's backed up by statistics and studies.

The average attractive American woman ( 18-40 yo) has a double digit sexual partner count due to dating sites. Why you think they are so pissed about abortion laws? Its because they definitely engage in risky casual sex.

Secondly, the second article is about males. Males like your boyfriend Pan87. Yes he is getting less and less sex. FEMALES are cleaning up. I am referring to attractive females who routinely use dating sites. STD rates among women are on the rise.

https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/doh/downloads/pdf/han/alert/2022/gonorrhea-syphilis-females.pdf

" Increases in Gonorrhea and Syphilis among females in New York City".

Women are not as chaste as you and Pan87 want to assert. I am not saying they are ca*k hungry *****s. But they are definitely sexually liberated. But what does this have to do with the OP?? Why did you and your boyfriend drag me into this?

 

[Plinco]

From what I've gathered is that there is a big proportion of women who don't go outside their bubble who spend time on these dating apps. They are only banging the top handful of dudes who are most cases sweet talking them. These women are not promiscuous in the sense of dating or banging guys that they perceive as lower than them.

 

[Pandora]

From what I've gathered is that there is a big proportion of women who don't go outside their bubble who spend time on these dating apps. They are only banging the top handful of dudes who are most cases sweet talking them. These women are not promiscuous in the sense of dating or banging guys that they perceive as lower than them.

Exactly. I dont know why these two dudes cant understand this. I am not saying these girls are banging EVERY DUDE. They have one partner every few months or so from the hottest men on these sites. After 4 yrs of banging only 1 guy every 4 months you can easily get a body count of 12. This is not factoring high school or even college. So like I said, the average girl on these sites has a double digit body count.

Females go through ***** phases then they chill for a few months ( maybe a relationship), then they are back to the street. Like many others have said "relationships are break from the cak carosel".

I also agree that they are staying in their social bubble.

 

[Plinco]

Females go through ***** phases then they chill for a few months ( maybe a relationship), then they are back to the street. Like many others have said "relationships are break from the cak carosel".

It's important to point out that women don't have the same sex drive as men do. Men and women experience sex very differently.

 

[Pandora]

It's important to point out that women don't have the same sex drive as men do. Men and women experience sex very differently.

I 100% agree. I never said they did. Ever ever ever. Of course they are less horny than we are. Yes they take sex more seriously. You can have casual sex and you still not enjoy everything about it.

Casual sex to women is like masturbation for men. Its addictive and feels good in the short term but in the long term you feel like crap.
We don't like the guilty feeling after masturbation but we still do it. Same with women and casuals sex. They are impulsive in the moment and guilty after.

This is how women experience sex these days. They go on like 10 dates during the month. They let one guy smash. He breaks her heart. She swears off men for 3 months, then she is back at it. After a few years of doing this you can easily hit double digits. This is not even counting the one guy at her workplace who she will definitely smash.

This is generally what the caw* carousel is like. These 2 clowns are denying the existence of the ca*k carousel because they never got the advantages of it. I used to have a LOT of female friends that lived in the city. Trust me they get down.

 

[SW15]

It's not difficult to a woman to put up a high body count. The only thing that slows a woman's body count are extended relationships in which she is monogamous. It's quite easy for a 30 year old woman who attends a major public university and lives in a Top 25 USA metro area by population to put up a 10-15 body count, even with some 1 year + relationships.

The average attractive American woman ( 18-40 yo) has a double digit sexual partner count due to dating sites. Why you think they are so pissed about abortion laws? Its because they definitely engage in risky casual sex.

What's so wild about that is that these women have access to multiple birth control methods and plenty of men use condoms. It's possible to have regular sex for 2 decades with 20+ men and never get pregnant if diligent about birth control.

 

[Zimbabwe]

The average attractive American woman ( 18-40 yo) has a double digit sexual partner count due to dating sites. Why you think they are so pissed about abortion laws? Its because they definitely engage in risky casual sex.

Secondly, the second article is about males. Males like your boyfriend Pan87. Yes he is getting less and less sex. FEMALES are cleaning up. I am referring to attractive females who routinely use dating sites. STD rates among women are on the rise.

https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/doh/downloads/pdf/han/alert/2022/gonorrhea-syphilis-females.pdf

" Increases in Gonorrhea and Syphilis among females in New York City".

Women are not as chaste as you and Pan87 want to assert. I am not saying they are ca*k hungry *****s. But they are definitely sexually liberated. But what does this have to do with the OP?? Why did you and your boyfriend drag me into this?

You base everything you say off personal anecdotes even though I have proved tou wrong with studies and statistics each and every time. Instead of going on an unrelated tangent/throwing around non sequitors tou can try reading what I sent you.

If you try to meet women outside of clubs,bars and tinder you will find that good women do in fact exist. You have convinced yourself that the overwhelming majority of women are promiscuous Slvts and you constantly try to reinforce your belief with internet articles that support your viewpoint.

You do not have a healthy attitude towards women, you will never find a good relationship if you keep going down this path.

 

[Bigpapa]

You base everything you say off personal anecdotes even though I have proved tou wrong with studies and statistics each and every time. Instead of going on an unrelated tangent/throwing around non sequitors tou can try reading what I sent you.

If you try to meet women outside of clubs,bars and tinder you will find that good women do in fact exist. You have convinced yourself that the overwhelming majority of women are promiscuous Slvts and you constantly try to reinforce your belief with internet articles that support your viewpoint.

You do not have a healthy attitude towards women, you will never find a good relationship if you keep going down this path.

this view that women are sl8tty is mainly because most guys find the top % of sl8ts , as the other girls are out of their reach

if you have no game and neither the genes , you will mainly deal with the sl8ts , as the other ones will be out of your league

 

[Pandora]

You base everything you say off personal anecdotes even though I have proved tou wrong with studies and statistics each and every time. Instead of going on an unrelated tangent/throwing around non sequitors tou can try reading what I sent you.

If you try to meet women outside of clubs,bars and tinder you will find that good women do in fact exist. You have convinced yourself that the overwhelming majority of women are promiscuous Slvts and you constantly try to reinforce your belief with internet articles that support your viewpoint.

You do not have a healthy attitude towards women, you will never find a good relationship if you keep going down this path.

Bro i am in a relationship and have been in good relationships with non slut. Also if these mythical good girls are so common how come you have not found one yet? How come this site exists if these women are so common?

The point is that an attractive girl that went to college who does not have double digit numbers is difficult to find. I know only a handful.

In more conservative cultures they are more plentiful. I hung around upper middle class girls. Again I am not talking about older women. I am referring to Gen Z and Millienial women.

 

[Pandora]

this view that women are sl8tty is mainly because most guys find the top % of sl8ts , as the other girls are out of their reach

if you have no game and neither the genes , you will mainly deal with the sl8ts , as the other ones will be out of your league

But I did have game and looks. This is why i know that they are slutty. Not all but the relatively chaste ones get snatched up quick in early college.

If a hot girl has made it through college, and lived the post college city life chances are that she is getting damaged.

Anyway i respect your opinion I will stop beating a dead horse. Maybe I just live in a different reality than most of you guys.

I just find it odd that most guys here have not found this mythical chaste good girl, yet i get attacked for saying they dont exist ( or are very rare). Thats cognitive dissonance.

 

[Bigpapa]

But I did have game and looks. This is why i know that they are slutty. Not all but the relatively chaste ones get snatched up quick in early college.

If a hot girl has made it through college, and lived the post college city life chances are that she is getting damaged.

Anyway i respect your opinion I will stop beating a dead horse. Maybe I just live in a different reality than most of you guys.

I just find it odd that most guys here have not found this mythical chaste good girl, yet i get attacked for saying they dont exist ( or are very rare). Thats cognitive dissonance.

mAkes sense that the good ones are in relationships for most of the time

this means that what most of what we encounter is part of the ones that are not that great as a partner , so makes sense to have a biased view

the key is to actually meet women as young as possible , ideally during college or immediately after

like I keep saying , girls during night game & 28+ are usually terrible partners . There is a reason on why you could pick them up in the first place