Arrrgh

[piri]

ok! where should I start?

Im SO frustrated with this!

there's this popular chick (wich I don't know nor know her name, just know she's popular in her highschool) who whenever she looks at me I, of course, look her in the eyes.
Today I just passed by her and that happened again! And you know what? I DID NOT SMILE!!! why can't I make a stupid smile to the girls that lock their eyes in mines?
She started to smile a little. a little nervous smile while we were staring at each other's eyes for a long moment. And even so, I did not smile. WHY?

WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?

no really! I need help with that smile thing. I really need to get my smiles down.

I've became the person I wanted to be. Popular, attractive, full of hot chicks, I even have a band that's starting to become known (sorry for not being modest! I just wanted to make my point)
And I owe it all to this site and the player black book.
damn...
And I can't smile to the girls that lock their eyes in mines.
please help me out! I'm getting so frustrated with this.
I want to, next time I see that girl (or any other girl), be able to smile. That full of confidence and passionate smile that we all know of.

It's about 2 months I'm tring to get this thing down, so I really need help.
It's so frustrating...
thanx a lot

 

[blinkwatt]

I would not say smile so much, but a smirk. A smirk that visually says "You wish toots". Trust me the first time you do this all of the times after will become more and more easy. You are letting her looks get to you! Dont get stuck on those.

 

[organizedconfusion]

i know what you mean, on days that i am not trying to do pick up, i unconciously look down or away when i should've smiled.
it's odd how much strangers have an effect on our well-being...

i think i am gonna force myself to smile from now on until it's
sub-concious and if feel comfortable smililing. i don't care how psyhcotic or stupid i look..i have to start somewhere right?

 

[rascal]

contrary to popular belief, its not 100% essential to smile/smirk, next time you find yourself in that situation instead of smiling try this.

beckon her over with your index finger, and bend it toward you (once or twice, don't do it like 500 times). If she does'nt come over do it again.

I don't know why but this is really powerful. Plus, she says hi first. It establishes DHV.

 

[organizedconfusion]

it may not be essential but finding myself wanting to but not because of whatever insecurity i may have ,makes it an issue for me.
dude, i am gonna try that finger one.

 

[Ace of Flames]

i use both the finger and the smirk. that sounds slightly dirty, but im willing to overlook it.

if its someone you know, the finger is a good idea. if its just an aquaintance, the smirk is probably best. i dunno, i guess beckoning a stranger over to me seems like a little much.

 

[piri]

yay
that finger thing seems pretty cool

I'll try that one too

still, I need help for that smiling thing. I need to find a way to get myself smiling automaticaly (withou getting nervous, or better, withou even thinking) in this situations.

this was helpfull:
"i don't care how psyhcotic or stupid i look..i have to start somewhere right?"
no really! that's a great way to think

still, I'd like some more help plz

ty

 

[Tomatoes]

I think you are putting FAR FAR to much attention on the "smile" in your game. Just go over and talk to her. Or beckon her over like the others said. She prob knows you threw your reputation and that when at school is a big +.

 

[zerocelcius]

why smile...???

What do you want to sale her somthing?

Take the ***** off of the Pedastool

Why smile... did she make you smile... do you want to laugh when you see her/


Smile....please just a premptive form of *****!!!!!!!!!

Why not just go up to her and say HI I love you!!

Smile... KNock it off..

WHy smile for her????

She is a girl like all the rest make her smile don't do her any favores.....


Ahhhhhh!!!!! (title play on words...)

 

[piri]

...

we all know that smile is one of the most important things in seduction.

I dont want to laught and stuff

just want to be able to smile to the girls that lock their eyes on mines.

 

[zerocelcius]

Smile only when you can't help it

 

[mroriginal2]

yay! lol!

not that it matters but piri how old are you? and what country are you from?

 

[Ace of Flames]

look at the girl, and imagine how see'll be in bed. if that doesnt make you smile, i dunno what will. lol.

but seriously, is it that hard to pull out a smile? i understand if your teeth arent that great, but if you have a normal smile, whats wrong with showing it?

dont listen to these afcs. smiling is a great way of showing confidence, and it makes you more comfortable to be around. you dont want the girl to be freakin out while you try to get the number.

if you need to smile more, practice. get in front of a mirror, and just smile. smile, smile, and then smile again. it sounds stupid, but if you do it enough, it'll become more natural. everytime you come across a mirror, smile a few times. imagine something that makes you happy or makes you laugh, and smile! next time you lock eyes with a girl in the hallway, smile your best smile. you'll be glad you did.

 

[piri]

well, I don't have problems smiling to my friends. So my problem isn't with my theet.

But that "imagine how she'll be in bed" thing is a good idea. I'll try that.

thanx

any more ideas?

by the way, I'm 18