A private message I got a while back:
persuading and arguing help
Hey,
I've been wondering because I am often in arguements with women. But what i never seem to understand is what is the easiest way to argue. The only reason i am is because i actively put in these situations to learn the best way.
However I still don't seem to know the best method. I was wondering if you can give me some advice and guidance since you seem a bit wiser than me.
An example is: a girl is in same social circle as mine. She starts chatting to my mate. he backstabs me and asks her out. she says no because shes with me. however i had told her to stop speaking to him. i withdrew my contact from her. her interest level is high. but even im lost on this. the arguements over for this. but what should be the best method?
also for example at telling someone you dont like something about them? e.g *****iness?
I follow actions and not words. However communicating to women ideas and arguing. I just have lost it. Its costing me badly, i've been with 4 plates in the last 3 months and i keep getting it wrong. Please help.
Thanks
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So, what is the best way to argue with and persuade women?
It is very simple: don’t even waste your time trying!
If you feel the need to verbally argue with or persuade a woman, you’re either losing control of the relationship or never were in control. And logic means nothing to a woman: only feelings matter.
Arguing or persuading shows that you give a damn, and as we know, whoever cares least controls the relationship.
Would a guy who had 10 chicks on the go at once put up with b/s from one of them, or would he cut his losses and move on?
Exactly! And that is the mindset you must be willing to cultivate, willingness to walk away if it is in your best long-term interests.
Two key points:
1) If a woman is attracted to you, you can do (almost) anything and she will rationalise it to put you in a good light.
2) If a woman is NOT attracted to you, nothing you do, or no matter how good your argue about something, she will rationalise it to put you in a bad light.
So instead of wasting your time learning some BS Dr Phil rules for how to argue with women, forget it and focus on being the best and most attractive man you can be.
Examples:
If a girl talks to a friend of yours and hooks up with him, don’t waste your time arguing or trying to convince her to stay. Move on, and if she comes crawling back, bang her then leave her again.
If a girl starts getting fat or is a b!tch, don’t waste time trying to convince her to change. Show you have other options, and if she doesn’t get the hint, dump her and move on.
Actions not words are all that matter. And attraction will override all logic in a woman’s mind. Be that attractive man!
persuading and arguing help
Hey,
I've been wondering because I am often in arguements with women. But what i never seem to understand is what is the easiest way to argue. The only reason i am is because i actively put in these situations to learn the best way.
However I still don't seem to know the best method. I was wondering if you can give me some advice and guidance since you seem a bit wiser than me.
An example is: a girl is in same social circle as mine. She starts chatting to my mate. he backstabs me and asks her out. she says no because shes with me. however i had told her to stop speaking to him. i withdrew my contact from her. her interest level is high. but even im lost on this. the arguements over for this. but what should be the best method?
also for example at telling someone you dont like something about them? e.g *****iness?
I follow actions and not words. However communicating to women ideas and arguing. I just have lost it. Its costing me badly, i've been with 4 plates in the last 3 months and i keep getting it wrong. Please help.
Thanks
***
So, what is the best way to argue with and persuade women?
It is very simple: don’t even waste your time trying!
If you feel the need to verbally argue with or persuade a woman, you’re either losing control of the relationship or never were in control. And logic means nothing to a woman: only feelings matter.
Arguing or persuading shows that you give a damn, and as we know, whoever cares least controls the relationship.
Would a guy who had 10 chicks on the go at once put up with b/s from one of them, or would he cut his losses and move on?
Exactly! And that is the mindset you must be willing to cultivate, willingness to walk away if it is in your best long-term interests.
Two key points:
1) If a woman is attracted to you, you can do (almost) anything and she will rationalise it to put you in a good light.
2) If a woman is NOT attracted to you, nothing you do, or no matter how good your argue about something, she will rationalise it to put you in a bad light.
So instead of wasting your time learning some BS Dr Phil rules for how to argue with women, forget it and focus on being the best and most attractive man you can be.
Examples:
If a girl talks to a friend of yours and hooks up with him, don’t waste your time arguing or trying to convince her to stay. Move on, and if she comes crawling back, bang her then leave her again.
If a girl starts getting fat or is a b!tch, don’t waste time trying to convince her to change. Show you have other options, and if she doesn’t get the hint, dump her and move on.
Actions not words are all that matter. And attraction will override all logic in a woman’s mind. Be that attractive man!
