argh

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

dude. I have pulled girls in unconventional ways before. I can do this. if not, no big deal. how is it a train wreck. if I dont get any, I'm not gonna cry. I can just check other girls in the town. I was just gonna meet up with her. It seems easy.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

I am way better looking than my friend anyways. she would be an idiot to turn me down. plus, she never turned me down in the past. she just got with him prob. cause I had a gf at the time.

 

[splinterkb]

I am way better looking than my friend anyways. she would be an idiot to turn me down. plus, she never turned me down in the past. she just got with him prob. cause I had a gf at the time.

So what are you saying she's never turned you down.. you have slept with her? Honestly this looks like putting in so much effort for such a small chance of success it looks like a waste. If you say you're good looking.. why don't you just go find another girl?

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

I have not slept with her. I mean, I am good looking, she has seen my pimped out condo. my nice car. I guess I could find another girl, but I did want to pursue this. but whatever man. I appreciate your advice. but I don't know if this is the biggest train wreck like you think it HAS to be. it may be and if it is then whatever. I won't be crying.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

should I just tell her "I don't think we should hang out. It seems you are too hung on (friend)"???

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

should I tell her what I know she has been saying to said friend?

 

[splinterkb]

should I tell her what I know she has been saying to said friend?

Unless she knows you're pursueing her.. no. You will come across as a creep because then she'll think you've been like stalking her. I would just tell her that you're not gonna be able to visit her anymore like you said.. maybe you can gauge how interested she is off of her reaction.

All it comes down to.. you need to do what you want. If you REALLY REALLY want to try it, then go for it. Do what makes you happy man.. I'm just tryin to tell you I think this is a complete waste of your time.. time that could be spent finding another girl or girls even.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

yeah. I don't know. there was this girl from class I was talking to. she was kinoing me everyday. talking to me. she invited me to see a band last night but when I tried dancing on her she said "I like to dance alone." I left the club. I am not going to talk to out of town girl (the one this whole thread is about) for a least a week. I gotta clear my damn head.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

in the meantime. other viewpoints are requested.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

bump.