Are you a good looking guy who got dumped by a chick below your standards?

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You've gone out with super hot chicks but then there was this chick who wasnt a pretty rejected you. Ever happened to you?
 

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your bitter i can tell.. that's what you get for

1.) settleing
and
2.) not sargeing women that meet your standard

oh and no i haven't anytime i been dumped has been with a girl i wanted and was above or at my standard
 

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verysuave said:
You've gone out with super hot chicks but then there was this chick who wasnt a pretty rejected you. Ever happened to you?
you consider yourself good looking...and more so that as a mate value for women.

how old are you ?

p.s. nothing wrong with the question, just curious to know where your coming from
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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very suave the same **** happens to me!!!, i remember getting rejected by some 3s and 4s and then i got with the 8s that accept me, its fuked up
 

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Happens to me too. I get told I am good looking by women. (not bragging) I get rejected by 6's that are below me, but about 8's they seem to accept me. I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
 

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should u care? If you were AFC you should. The last thing on your mind is worrying abut a chick leaving you. LAST THING.
 

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ryannath said:
I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
This is true! I was out with a friend of mine and she's a "butter-face" (Everything about her is pretty but her face) We were having lunch and our waiter was a really cute guy!

He was being a little flirty with her, but still professional, she was very rude to him. I didn't see a problem with his behavior. Later she said that "Pretty boys like him are only after a fast fvck! They are worthless ass-holes!" I told her her self esteem was in need of improvement...she was *****y for the rest of the day.

I have seen guys do it as well. Some nasty little toad of a guy walks up to a HB9 and says something like: "You aren't my type, but I'll do you if you pay me enough." It's an AFC doing C&F brutally.
 

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mexican_player2 said:
very suave the same **** happens to me!!!, i remember getting rejected by some 3s and 4s and then i got with the 8s that accept me, its fuked up
Really.. whew, i thought it was just me. Just wanted to also point this out that this thread is pretty informative. Yeah, im talking about you Deus ex Pianoforte. Efing troll

ryannath said:
ppens to me too. I get told I am good looking by women. (not bragging) I get rejected by 6's that are below me, but about 8's they seem to accept me. I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
good analysis
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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happened to me

dunno wtf i was thinking at the time

sure as sh|t glad she rejected me now though

stupid fat ugly *****, never get another chance of having a bf in her life
 

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The girl can be butt ugly, but if you act like a desperate, AFC who worships the ground she walks on, then even she will start to think that she can do better.
 

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this type of thing happens to me. Not getting dumped really -- because I wouldn't date an ugly girl -- but being blown off at places. Dance parties and stuff

I think the ugly chicks aren't used to being around guys so they don't know how to handle them very well.
 

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WaterTiger said:
... I was out with a friend of mine and she's a "butter-face" (Everything about her is pretty but her face) ...
:crackup: :up: :crackup:

Oh that was salty....
 

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yeah, I think it happens 'cos they see you as too good for them so you could'nt possibly "really" be into them, you're probably just using them for a quick fuuk and then dump 'em, so they reject you to protect themselves. (If you think about it, can't really blame them either...)
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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This is just another stupid ass thread created by somebody looking for attention and affirmation. You're trying to create an excuse to brag by thinly veiling this thread as a vague, unimportant question. Then somebody calls them out on it (Duex) and the OP gets his panties in a bunch and resorts back to calling that person the oldest diss in the SoSuave book (troll or AFC). Its so predictable. :moon:
 

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I think less attractive women are less impressed by a guys appearance and more impressed by his substance. Those girls also get led on just to be teased by a lot of guys in high school. I had a neighbor growing up who really wasn't very attractive at all and the cuter guys who were mean would lead her on and let her think they liked her and then publicly crush and humiliate her. I would imagine that she would not trust good looking guys after those cruel experiences.

Then you have a lot of attractive women who only care about looks...and they can be brutal to the less attractive guys.

Smart and attractive women still like the hot guys...but look for substance as well.
 

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Same could go the other way. Although not to the same extent, but if I can't have a conversation with her and she annoys me, it will not last. A smart woman will find a million partners. A smart man looking for a smart woman is dangerously single
 

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Mabye you "good looking" guys aren't as good looking as u think u are...

There's a big difference between being a skinny good looking guy, and a muscular good looking guy.

Also, lest we forget, personality plays a large role.
 
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BluEyes said:
Mabye you "good looking" guys aren't as good looking as u think u are...

There's a big difference between being a skinny good looking guy, and a muscular good looking guy.

Also, lest we forget, personality plays a large role.

Maybe im not a 10 but my gf is an 8 and she finds me very attractive.

REALLY ugly girls have rejected me when i was younger ( had a lot of testosterone and wanted to bang everygirl) and now that i look at them i be like damn i wouldnt even touch that piece of chit

Comparations

she was a number 5

i remember one time i asked out a girl in my school and she was a bit chubby and a geek but kinda cute face ( wtf was i thinkin) she said yeah and i told her to meet at a certain place and i waited and she never arrived then when i saw her she made the most ridicuously excuse.

counterpart

She was a number 8.5

I was at the beach in the hotel's spa and this 2 hot chicks came to me and start talking then i started spittin some game and i chose the hottest one and closed the deal.


So maybe im not that hot, but i rather get accepted by fine fine ass girls rather than rejected by some ugly rats
 
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