Are you a Commitophobe?

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Are you afraid to keep going out with one woman because you think something better will come along or you are afraid of losing your independence?

I feel like this alot. More and more I think I am like George Constanza.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Being a Commitophobe is healthy. Being a commitophobe might keep you from making the 2 biggest mistakes a man can make in his life, getting married too early or having a child (married or not) too early.

If you're over 30 being a commitophobe might not be such a good thing. At that age it might be time to start looking for a wife so you don't die alone and can start a family before you get too old.
 

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No but prefering to date several women at once is a better option.

Commitophobe is another popular media type of a word (invented by women) to get men to feel a shamed of the lifestyle they prefer to live over LTR/marriage.

Why should men committ if they are happier being single and run their own lives according to their own rules (yes I have been visiting the Pook's blog :D)
 

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Hello, my name is The Bad Ass Canadian and I am a commitophobe.

haha I've never heard of this term but i am definitely one. Very rarely does one girl intrest me enough to remain exclusive to her for longer than a few weeks to a month. I usually get bored and enjoy sleeping with new girls ona regular basis.... plus it keeps my heart from getting stomped on. The old adage of once bitten twice shy rings true for me... I don't hate the couple girls who made me this way; rather i hate myself for letting it happen.
 

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i love being commited. i have been with the same girl for the last 5 years and she's a hoot. sometimes when i'm not feeling all positive, this girl makes me laugh and brings me out of the hole i dig myself into. she's not into herself, hell if anybody is the money spender, it's me. she's almost an accountant, so her salary is going to destroy mine. she's pretty as hell. she believes in my dreams and is willing to go wherever on this planet so i can achieve it.

i would be stupid not to commit. girls like her don't come around to often. i seen gold when she walked through the door.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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YES!

I am one. I only date girls or have ONS, rarely and relationsships. THe rare ones I do have are usually short lived. and sometimes I start to fall for a chick, and I try to snap my self out of it, becuase I so value my independence.
 

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Commitment-Phobic

Com~mit~ment~pho~bic
adj.
1. Media coined word to shame and or label men. Often used by women to lighten the often harsh reality men are not naturally monogamous. " Oh dont go there he's a commitmentphobe ".
To a lesser extent used as an easy excuse for men of lower status to cease monogamous relationships.
In short youve been duped, its a rubbish word.


Your literally "afraid" to stay with one chick because you got a NATURAL desire to fvck others?:rolleyes: Give me a break, you guys actually believe this crap?

Scrap that, come to think of it any guy who buys this crap SHOULD be afraid hes been duped into staying with one chick and one chick only.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Tits dictionary for the modern man.



In short youve been duped, its a rubbish word.


Your literally "afraid" to stay with one chick because you got a NATURAL desire to fvck others?:rolleyes: Give me a break, you guys actually believe this crap?

Scrap that, come to think of it any guy who buys this crap SHOULD be afraid hes been duped into staying with one chick and one chick only.

I have never been in a commited relationship before, just casual dating and randon hookups. I guess I have a fear of the unknown. I guess I really have to like the girl for that to happen. I went out with a chick last night...she is attractive and cool...but I think I just want to fool around with her. I feel bad, when they are into me more than vice versa.
 

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I AM a committphobe, but not just with women. I hate committing to anything. When I was in high school, I switched my class schedule over and over.

Its one of the reasons why I rarely take a formal leadership role (unless I get paid $$$), because I know somewhere down the line, I'm going to bail out.

One of my professors used to say if Satan ever signed a blood pact with me, he'd better get himself a damn good lawyer ;)
 

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( . )( . ) beat me too it, but I'll ask this; when a woman invaribly starts holding out on a guy after he's made the committment, does that make her a Sexphobe. How many books are sold or articles are written with the intent of getting committed women to have sex more than before they were committed? Get the fvck outta here!
 

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I prefer relationships...
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Hello, my name is The Bad Ass Canadian and I am a commitophobe.

haha I've never heard of this term but i am definitely one. Very rarely does one girl intrest me enough to remain exclusive to her for longer than a few weeks to a month. I usually get bored and enjoy sleeping with new girls ona regular basis.... plus it keeps my heart from getting stomped on. The old adage of once bitten twice shy rings true for me... I don't hate the couple girls who made me this way; rather i hate myself for letting it happen.

I am the same way!! Does that make us wierd?
 

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DJDamage said:
No but prefering to date several women at once is a better option.

Commitophobe is another popular media type of a word (invented by women) to get men to feel a shamed of the lifestyle they prefer to live over LTR/marriage...
Bravo! :up:
 
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