jafyk
Master Don Juan
I don't come in here that often these days. I guess it is part because I'm busy,or maybe almost jaded. Even now I'm starting to feel like coming back here is as a result of some failure on my part. Please, I'm not writing because I want sympathy, more like trying to get some things off my chest and maybe get some answers. The irony with the latter is that the solutions aren't always in the answer.
In my last 5 dating encounters I've had what some on here would consider a measure of success (at least in male/female relationship context not in the overall Don Juan attainment sense) considering that during my dates with these girls they all said they had a good time and the interaction was pleasant. They've all been back to my place and I've extended kissing with 2 of them and some level of kino with the others. Still I've struck out with them all. The latest which was as recent as Friday night had to leave because her female friend at whom's house she was supposed to spend the night kept calling her because she needed her comfort over some issue. Anyway, on her way out she told me this was the first time she had been on an actual date in her last previous encounters with guys. She thanked me for what she called a great evening and even kissed me some more by her truck. I called her the next day and she was in the middle of something and said I could call her back later that night I didn't call. I just think it's strange that with all that initial high interest level I haven't heard back from her.
Maybe, this is wrong to assume on my part. I feel like maybe the reason I haven't progressed further with all these women who obviously liked me is that I did something wrong. Whatever it is that I did is that unforgivable? Are women that unforgiving? I thought I had a better chance with this latest girl because one she sought me out, two in our conversations we flirted and it even got sexual...I'm just tired and I don't know what to do anymore. One of the girls I had tried to escalate with resisted and I didn't want to be too pushy I stopped now she's deleted me off her facebook, doesn't return my texts (I deleted her # later) and when I did run into her in a public place we made small conversation. Yet if I hadn't made any moves on her some here would say I was being too nice. Now I made some moves and I get ditched. Aaagh!
In my last 5 dating encounters I've had what some on here would consider a measure of success (at least in male/female relationship context not in the overall Don Juan attainment sense) considering that during my dates with these girls they all said they had a good time and the interaction was pleasant. They've all been back to my place and I've extended kissing with 2 of them and some level of kino with the others. Still I've struck out with them all. The latest which was as recent as Friday night had to leave because her female friend at whom's house she was supposed to spend the night kept calling her because she needed her comfort over some issue. Anyway, on her way out she told me this was the first time she had been on an actual date in her last previous encounters with guys. She thanked me for what she called a great evening and even kissed me some more by her truck. I called her the next day and she was in the middle of something and said I could call her back later that night I didn't call. I just think it's strange that with all that initial high interest level I haven't heard back from her.
Maybe, this is wrong to assume on my part. I feel like maybe the reason I haven't progressed further with all these women who obviously liked me is that I did something wrong. Whatever it is that I did is that unforgivable? Are women that unforgiving? I thought I had a better chance with this latest girl because one she sought me out, two in our conversations we flirted and it even got sexual...I'm just tired and I don't know what to do anymore. One of the girls I had tried to escalate with resisted and I didn't want to be too pushy I stopped now she's deleted me off her facebook, doesn't return my texts (I deleted her # later) and when I did run into her in a public place we made small conversation. Yet if I hadn't made any moves on her some here would say I was being too nice. Now I made some moves and I get ditched. Aaagh!