are women entitled to our money?

[librito]

there have being many instances in my life that women have asked to "borrow" money from me even before we have had sex... I always refuse to give it to them. many times, my refusal has ended the "chemistry" we had going on.
another thing is that they dont ask for 30 or 50 dollars to take care of whatever... the amount they always ask for is always in the hundreds...when I refuse, they act surprise as if am not allowed to disobey an order to give them money... some of those girls are not even hot and they still ask for money before we have sex.... what the hell is going on?
what makes them believe that they are entitled to our money?

 

[backbreaker]

that has alot to say about the quality of woman today than it does with you. you are doing nothing wrong. nothing wrong at all.

she feels that because she has a Virginia she is entitled to have you be her personal cash loan cash advance store and that's just not right
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my old oneitis would ask me for big boy stuff.... she wasn't about the pair of shoes or the new shirt. one time she had me, and I never told this here for fear of being humiliated.... half a damn funeral for a kid who "couldn't afford it". another time I paid a semister's tutition for her to go to school which she gave me a faint "OH you know i will (never) pay you back"...then one day she asked me for a COMPUTER.. and of course I did it.

I think when you give someone steak so long they come to expect it. the problem isn't with you it's with their expecations.

 

[Colossus]

I have NEVER had a woman ask or expect to borrow my money. Really. If she did I'd probably say no.

The short answer is NO they are not entitled to our money, but the legal system does not see it that way. Even if SHE initiated the divorce on grounds she 'just isn't happy anymore'.

 

[Warrior74]

Entitled? No. They are asking because the think you will be a symp (sucker) enough to give it to her. They are dangling the bait of sex to get your money. The sex isn't garunteed. At least with a callgirl you know what you are paying for.

Are these girls on your same social-economic level? I get this from girls who are poorer than me. Girls who make the same amount of money or more never ask. Time to date on your same level.

Right now I have a 24 year old who has asked for me to pay for her books for college, asked to move in, asked to drive my second car, and when I looked at her like she was insane she would counter back with "just kidding". Sure, but if I would have agreed, trust me, this leech would have took all she could get. Because this shows me her character, I treat her accordingly.

One 24 year old told me about 3 guys who wanted to pay to get her car fixed. But since she was "spending time" with me, I should pay for it. I said "let me get this straight? Since we are having sex, I should pay for your car to get fixed?" She said yes...so I told her to go have sex with all three of those guys, collect money from each one and then we both will go to Vegas for a weekend and party. She accused me of calling her a hoe, and I accused her of acting like one. I told her to respect my pimp game as she left out the car. LOL.

 

[Bloke]

Women see sex as a medium of exchange.

 

[STR8UP]

The last woman who asked me for money was an ex (who I could barely even have considered a g/f) did so on the phone. After she asked me, all she got was "hello....hello.....you're breaking up......." ..............CLICK.

 

[penkitten]

why don't you just go ahead and send all your money to me?
at least i won't lie to you in the process.

 

[MagikDude]

I never lend a gal money unless I know full and well she will pay me back....in cold hard cash! And she'd better pay back or pfffffft (slides finger across throat) figuratively. What you will find is with most women who pull that bull**** is that when they actually find out or gain some self-empowerment do do it themselves, they won't need you anymore, and good thing, I have no use for a gal who's basically 2 steps from a cheap ho, only the poontang is not a guarantee.

The best thing you can ever do with these chicks is have the balls to say NO, ever since I did to my now LJBF'd brat girl, she's finally turned herself around for the better, and at least deigned to better herself and leave us guys alone for that ****.

 

[( . )( . )]

I have NEVER had a woman ask or expect to borrow my money.

x2

Never had a chick ask me for money, however I'm getting fvcked over through child support, does that count?

I've borrowed quite a bit of money off chicks though, but unlike Colossus if she was more than just a puzzy to me I'd probably lend her money if asked.

 

[NewMan]

Never had one ask for cold hard cash

I offered to pay for an ex's surgery one time. she was involved in a car accident and tore her ACL/MCL. She refused and put it on her CC. She didn't have medical insurance and was working at a part time job. My respect level for her went through the roof - and I actually tried to help her out afterwards because of it.

 

[Colossus]

I've borrowed quite a bit of money off chicks though, but unlike Colossus if she was more than just a puzzy to me I'd probably lend her money if asked.

If she was a cool chick and found herself in a bind I would, provided I had the money to lend. Same as a friend. This is a strange phenomenon though...I have some buddies who have paid for sooo much of their gf's stuff; they just cant get off his teat. Then guys like me and titguy never even get asked. Not that I'm complaining.

 

[Warrior74]

Peep game in this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwUO_NHAjQA

 

[romangod]

The only women that are entitled to your money are prostitutes after they have performed their service.


Cheers!

 

[Phyzzle]

Never happened to me. In fact, I read here about women who walk up to guys and say "buy me a drink." I've never seen that happen either.

 

[Warrior74]

Never happened to me. In fact, I read here about women who walk up to guys and say "buy me a drink." I've never seen that happen either.

I never seen an earthquake, genocide, or a man die of a heart attack, but believe me....they all happen.

 

[sodbuster]

Had it happen once, woman told me I couldn't talk to her unless I bought her a drink. she went home alone and sober that night

 

[ketostix]

Had it happen once, woman told me I couldn't talk to her unless I bought her a drink. she went home alone and sober that night

I've been asked a few times before and declined too. Most of the time women don't have to ask, guys are offering even the bartender sometimes gives them free drinks.

 

[Vulpine]

I've been asked a few times before and declined too. Most of the time women don't have to ask, guys are offering even the bartender sometimes gives them free drinks.

LoL... there are AFC bartenders?

I've been tending bar part-time for over a year now, and I have fielded numerous "gimme" scenarios. But, it never quite results in freebies. Here's a few that made me giggle...

HB5: "You should give us free drinks." (gesturing to other two fuglies sitting with her)
V: "You should go to a psychiatrist."
____
HB7: "How's about you get me a round for free?"
V: "Looks like you get around for free just fine without me."
____
HB8: "I want you to make me something yummy that I don't have to pay for."
V: "No problem, but you'll have to do the shaking."
HB8: "OKAY!!"
V: "Great! Come to the end of the bar here..." *walks off to end, girl meets me*

V: *pulls down zipper* "Here you go, just a few shakes and you're all set."
HB8: "OH MY GOD!"
V: "I've heard it's SUPER yummy."
HB8: "GROSS!"
V: "You need a chaser?"
HB8: "No WAY!"
V: "Salt & lime? Oh.. I understand. I'll do the shaking..." *reaches in as if to whip it out*
HB8: *runs off*

^^^^The funniest part: she stood there for a while staring at my crotch... as if she was waiting to see my d¡ck!

:crackup:

 

[squirrels]

I told her to respect my pimp game as she left out the car. LOL.

LOL...this got a chuckle out of me. Good on ya.

 

[Young Juan]

.... I read here about women who walk up to guys and say "buy me a drink." ....

I'd tell that biotch, "I'm Sorry, I don't date cheap women" LOL