Are women capable of loving?

[djthiago1]

Can a woman love the same way as a man can?
This video is veeery interesting guys, check it out and share your opinions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-psXvt7MF0&list=UUeCV-XNeZIoHiCGfNYCLh9Q

 

[Skyline]

Haven't watched the video yet but in response to the title: the answer is no.

"Women love value while men value love." - DJ bible.

The second you stop being attractive in her eyes, via your actions etc., that's when her "love" for you will disappear. This is also why marriage is a "trap" to most people, all the power literally rests on her happiness.

 

[LiveYourDream]

Can a woman love the same way as a man can?
This video is veeery interesting guys, check it out and share your opinions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-psXvt7MF0&list=UUeCV-XNeZIoHiCGfNYCLh9Q

The author of the video begins by defining the male perspective of love as: "the chemically induced altruism triggering irrational behavior towards women in the minds of men."

I hope for all men that, at least at some point in their life, their experience of love is far more than that.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I think men and women both yearn to receive unconditional love. I think at their core both yearn for relationships where unconditional love is the basis. I think both desire to know and feel they are always loved, in every moment, regardless.

Very few men and women seem to consciously know and live the kind of love, that is unconditional, that is regardless. Maybe some know it for a bit, as a parent to their child. I believe most men and women never consciously evolve beyond conditional love.

So, agreements are made, usually unspoken, of I'll love and accept you, if you love and accept me, or please me in this way. It can become a trap of trying to please others, to try and satisfy emptiness inside oneself. It will never work.

Ultimately, loving oneself, and entering a relationship from overflow, vs emptiness is the key.

Do men and women "love" differently? I think they barter conditional love differently. Both what they give, as well as what they want, in return for their "love," varies individually, by gender and even culture.

As far as unconditional love, for the men and women that are aware enough to consciously live and love from that place, I think it is a gender neutral capacity.

I believe unconditional love is what we all most deeply wish to experience and wish our lives to be filled with.

 

[astrn]

And they say all women are fragile creatures!

LMAO...

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe they can but in a number much lower than men, In 30 yrs of my life I dealt with many dozens of women and found just 3 able to love that way.

Interesting thing is that all of them came from a stable family, were feminine and completely alien to the sex&the city life style that most girls after 16 join.

They keep busting our balls saying that violent videogames kills our emphaty yet they dont mind offering a c0ck&c0cocktail to girls.

So yeah I believe there are but it must exists a personal attitude to that and a surrounding environment which doesnt shut it down.

 

[djthiago1]

I believe they can but in a number much lower than men, In 30 yrs of my life I dealt with many dozens of women and found just 3 able to love that way.

Interesting thing is that all of them came from a stable family, were feminine and completely alien to the sex&the city life style that most girls after 16 join.

They keep busting our balls saying that violent videogames kills our emphaty yet they dont mind offering a c0ck&c0cocktail to girls.

So yeah I believe there are but it must exists a personal attitude to that and a surrounding environment which doesnt shut it down.

This i believe exists because today's society values women too much, they are a put at a very high pedestal for just having a vag1na, that and the huge amount of orbiters nowadays makes unecessary to love one man.

 

[astrn]

I believe they can but in a number much lower than men, In 30 yrs of my life I dealt with many dozens of women and found just 3 able to love that way.

Interesting thing is that all of them came from a stable family, were feminine and completely alien to the sex&the city life style that most girls after 16 join.

They keep busting our balls saying that violent videogames kills our emphaty yet they dont mind offering a c0ck&c0cocktail to girls.

So yeah I believe there are but it must exists a personal attitude to that and a surrounding environment which doesnt shut it down.

Actually I had one kind of woman that you described... Perfect, HB10 body! (No I'm not exagerrating) 10!, Smart, kind, educated and take care of everything, very stable family. VERY! No flaws!

The last thing that I remembered about her, when she said to me after I made the car crash -a serious one- (I am not blaming her because of this, it was completely my fault but I was in a very emotional state because of her answer about my feelings afterI told her before...) she said "My father is worried about you"...

I was going to say something else after she said that and she continued "When you're coming back, I am worried about you!." But in that moment I realized I am just a random person to her after she said that...

I told her before that accident "I liked you". She just said to me "Youre my best friend but I don't feel the same way". Then the accident happens... On the 2011 Christmas night!

A random person that I know her almost "10" years....

The next thing I told her was "It is over. Don't call me anymore..."

That was 4 years ago...

Now she is my friend. Sometimes we contact (Once in a year maybe).

So... It depends of what term of stability we are talking about... Women all the same to me from that moment!

 

[astrn]

This i believe exists because today's society values women too much, they are a put at a very high pedestal for just having a vag1na, that and the huge amount of orbiters nowadays makes unecessary to love one man.

^ This also!