Are we being too hard on American women?

[Good Gao]

I am an asian male from Canada who is currently in a relationship with an American girl (white if you are wondering) and I have had a great time with her. She doesn't ask for much and neither does she meet the stereotype of your typical American woman that gets hated on across the web. My girlfriend is in shape, I find her attractive, and things have been going great for us so far. The issue I keep coming across is how guys are promoting foreign women (especially asian women) as being nearly perfect when being an asian guy myself I have seen some of the worst qualities of asian girls.

Having been with a few nationalities of women I have found that the cliche saying of there being good and bad women in all nationalities is mostly true. That said, the one category of American women I have met who were terrible relationship material were typically the yuppies you find in areas which are mostly "liberal" (politics). When I have visited places like the Great Plains and more rural type areas, the American women from there tend to be more "real" and even look down on feminism.

Are we being too hard on American women?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I'm married to an American woman. I think one of the reasons many guys here hate on American women is because, for younger women anyway, the prevalence of social media exploding into all aspects of our life has really cranked up the narcissism to 11 (on a 10 scale). Attention wh@ring is so much easier for them now and being able to brag to their orbiters about how awesome they are feed those good betas little crumbs really inflates their egos to absolutely unrealistic proportions.

Now I try to be objective when I can, but from my recollection some guys do this too. Narcissism isn't sexist but most guys don't have female orbiters either and I would say attention wh@ring among guys is more the exception than the rule whereas for most younger girls it's the opposite.

Access to media information is very, very easy in the U.S. Watch free tv, listen to free radio, look up stuff (practically) free on the internet...all of it can feed girls' status of the pvssy remaining supreme. What's even worse is that there are so many girls out there that can't even realize it that they are being manipulated by the media. Why do you think in recent years there's been this explosion of talking points for middle aged women? Examples such as cougars ....god that one was so over-used and still is....MILFs, getting guys to "man up" and take responsibility for a divorced woman and her kids, media encouraging that "40 is the new 30, 50 the new 40" or whatever the hell, women around 40 complaining online they can't even find a guy at all to even respond to them on online dating sites. Manipulate would be a better word to use.

A lot of eastern european countries for example are much poorer than the U.S., which is to not say that's bad, but it removes so much of this access to all forms of media and people are forced into old fashioned in-person interactions with one another and seem more level-headed.

 

[Good Gao]

you would think that guys would be happy that there are so many sluts around right? we are a forum made for "don juans" who want to **** as many women as possible and what better place than the USA right?

 

[foreverace87]

I'm married to an American woman. I think one of the reasons many guys here hate on American women is because, for younger women anyway, the prevalence of social media exploding into all aspects of our life has really cranked up the narcissism to 11 (on a 10 scale). Attention wh@ring is so much easier for them now and being able to brag to their orbiters about how awesome they are feed those good betas little crumbs really inflates their egos to absolutely unrealistic proportions.

Now I try to be objective when I can, but from my recollection some guys do this too. Narcissism isn't sexist but most guys don't have female orbiters either and I would say attention wh@ring among guys is more the exception than the rule whereas for most younger girls it's the opposite.

Access to media information is very, very easy in the U.S. Watch free tv, listen to free radio, look up stuff (practically) free on the internet...all of it can feed girls' status of the pvssy remaining supreme. What's even worse is that there are so many girls out there that can't even realize it that they are being manipulated by the media. Why do you think in recent years there's been this explosion of talking points for middle aged women? Examples such as cougars ....god that one was so over-used and still is....MILFs, getting guys to "man up" and take responsibility for a divorced woman and her kids, media encouraging that "40 is the new 30, 50 the new 40" or whatever the hell, women around 40 complaining online they can't even find a guy at all to even respond to them on online dating sites. Manipulate would be a better word to use.

A lot of eastern european countries for example are much poorer than the U.S., which is to not say that's bad, but it removes so much of this access to all forms of media and people are forced into old fashioned in-person interactions with one another and seem more level-headed.

^ AMEN to this! MEDIA, overinflated EGOS, a huge sense of ENTITLEMENT, have led these women to believe that their pvssys have descended from the skies. I hate to put it this way but I don't think they realize that pvssy is just pvssy at the end of the day. There is a point where personality and lifestyle kicks into gear. I typically see at least one post a day on facebook of a chick posting a lame photo of herself and literally over a hundreds of orbiters liking and talking to her like lame dogs and then we ask ourselves why these girls act the way they do?

I met a woman through a mutual friend once that told me that women in America do not know what they want at least until they are into 30s. HELL, that's mostly ALL woman. Mostly though spend their 20s seeking attention on social media, trying every single piece of flavor they can find, and finally wanting to "settle down" when they realize their clock is ticking. Then they will literally go for anything!

But I ask my fellow DJs to stick together and stop giving these BIATCHES a boost in their EGO which they don't need. That means not tolerating their bull****, holding them to their word, and NEXTing them when necessary.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Women hate me, so I hate them

 

[Rirrf]

From My experience to dating the Modern woman, Yes hands on experience from various dating web sites. Meeting, Dating and Bedding them 101. There are a lot of seriously ****ed up women out there who were married and had a very bad time. Some were married to You guys including Myself. My Intuition says go with with Tyler Durden's Secret Society, Because if you don't understand it you have a very hard time succeeding with women, Period. I am in my mid fifties and been to dating boot camps,, the lot. Read everything under the sun regarding dating only to find that I'm a natural and lost my way through depression. Now I fully recovered I can whole heartedly verify Tyler is on the right wave length.
Why do I say this as I ignored him for a long time.
Because these ****ed up married women begot daughters and guess what they turn into there mothers and distrust men, Period.
If you don't qualify for the Secret Society prepare yourself for failure. These daughters and Mothers only want to meet one type of guy. Men like Me and Tyler. Go back and read it and reread it till it hurts. No pain no gain.
A woman has a life of abundance and wont settle for less. whether its a one night stand, **** buddy, Friends with benefits, Casual encounter or the proverbial lost cause called Marriage.
Understanding Secret Society leads to life of Abundance. There is little work involved. Just be there if she likes you and be yourself... How easier can it get. Don't fall for the you can have any woman you want.. YOU cant ,, she has to like you First. So Easy

 

[Zarky]

OP, you're forgetting that here on sosuave we're supposed to lump all women together and assign negative values that apply to all of them. How dare you find exceptions.