soulforge
Master Don Juan
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Ok its been 3 weeks no contact, since ended a 4 month relationship..
Now that the fog is clearing somewhat, some of the things she said to me, are ringing alarm bells..
Are these shvt tests or manipulation?
Ok so we had this little argument and she stopped communicating with me.. I decided to apologise to her, even tho it was not all my fault.
I asked her to come over to mine for a drink..
Later that night, while i was fuking her from behind lol.. she said to me "You Need This puzzy don't you"
Did she say this because i apologised to her, and asked her to come over.. in her mind she has interpreted that, as me NEEDING her puzzy? Is this a control thing, power thing?
She also said to me on a few occasions, how lucky i am, that she gives me lots of blow jobs.. she said some woman dont do that.. is this her expecting me to be grateful to her? Treat her like a princess in exchange of blow jobs
why the fuk would you even say that in first place
Also she once said.. i,m gona have to give you less sex, don't want you getting too much of it whenever you want it.. then once or twice she tried to reject me sex
Using sex for a manipulation and control?
Also.. she pointed out that i am quite bossy and like to be in control... then she said, that will all change in the future?
I just said to her, you wish and laughed it off...
She also said.. the nicer i am to her.. the more naughtier the sex will be..
I get the feeling this girl wanted control and was quite the manipulater!!
Or is this typical female shvt test behaviour!
Now that the fog is clearing somewhat, some of the things she said to me, are ringing alarm bells..
Are these shvt tests or manipulation?
Ok so we had this little argument and she stopped communicating with me.. I decided to apologise to her, even tho it was not all my fault.
I asked her to come over to mine for a drink..
Later that night, while i was fuking her from behind lol.. she said to me "You Need This puzzy don't you"
Did she say this because i apologised to her, and asked her to come over.. in her mind she has interpreted that, as me NEEDING her puzzy? Is this a control thing, power thing?
She also said to me on a few occasions, how lucky i am, that she gives me lots of blow jobs.. she said some woman dont do that.. is this her expecting me to be grateful to her? Treat her like a princess in exchange of blow jobs
why the fuk would you even say that in first place
Also she once said.. i,m gona have to give you less sex, don't want you getting too much of it whenever you want it.. then once or twice she tried to reject me sex
Using sex for a manipulation and control?
Also.. she pointed out that i am quite bossy and like to be in control... then she said, that will all change in the future?
I just said to her, you wish and laughed it off...
She also said.. the nicer i am to her.. the more naughtier the sex will be..
I get the feeling this girl wanted control and was quite the manipulater!!
Or is this typical female shvt test behaviour!