are these questions too direct?

[napoleon]

If you ask girl questions like-
What is my hottest feature.
What excites you in a man.
Where do you usually go out with men.
Are they too direct?

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by napoleon
If you ask girl questions like-
What is my hottest feature.
What excites you in a man.
Where do you usually go out with men.
Are they too direct?

It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.

 

[satyriasis]

please don't ask a women any of those questions.

 

[napoleon]

Re: Re: are these questions too direct?

Originally posted by \O/
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.

Why do you think these questions are me trying to qualify myself.
I wouldn't ask Do you find me hot, which is qualifying, I'd ask whats hottest about be-saying I know you think I'm hot but what do you like the most.
Any opinions?

 

[satyriasis]

asking a women questions about yourself is just a no-no entirely, it will still boil down to approval seeking. its saying... am not confident about myself so i need your approval to see if you will accept me.

where do you usually go out with men? - this is saying... i dont know the meaning of a fun time, where to go, or what to do, so you pick somewhere we can go and we'll go.

 

[napoleon]

You see one side I see the other. For instance -Where do you go out with men. I'm trying to subtly find out if she's a slut or something else.

What should I talk about the weater or what she did that day, cause everything I say and ask can be translated into insecurity and neediness. For instance even if I ask, better yet tell her- Lets fu.ck, it can be translated- he's insecure, he wants to find out if she wants to fak, he should assume she does, not talk about it.

Anybody other, opinions?

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

They all just seem pretty insecure with half an eye (that's what really matters)