Are Older Women Better?

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've always dated older. Particularly in my late teens and twenties. When I was 19 my gf at the time was 25. That lasted 2 years. Then when I was 21 I dated a 26 year old and that lasted 2 years as well. That one I still look back on as having something legit but I had to move cities. Something about a woman with experience (life, sexual) that attracts me. I've never been the type to enjoy "teaching" my girl things. Now I'm in my early 30s and I've been dating girls in their late 20s. However I have yet to meet one who really does it for me. I've come to the conclusion that I still have the same mindset as when I was younger in that I prefer more experienced women. I have yet to date a women in her mid to late thirties (thats about where I think the line is drawn) and am curious from those who have dated women in this age range what your experience has been with them?

Older are jaded, high body count, and looking to rope in a man who is too stupid to see his value.

 

[Romanemp22]

Yup and if you're good in bed, they will do certain things for you like cook or take you out too. LOL

if you're 23 and going out with a 50 yr old id say shes only in it to get laid, recapture some of her youth and feel good about herself.
If theres an attraction id escalate quickly and see if i could get her into bed. I doubt shes viewing you as potentially anything long term

I'm also only into it to sleep with her. From talking I could tell she have a lot of baggage from the past, so not getting serious with her.

 

[Romanemp22]

Is that you Big goal? Lol

Seriously though, at your age this is part of experimenting and can be a good fun memory. As for older women who go for younger guys (LTR), it's not normal and something is always seriously wrong with them, no exceptions. Women want a guy who's better than them, which usually means more experienced, richer, better career, more educated and so on which naturally makes them turn to older guys relative to them.
What they look for in a younger guy comes down to only 2 things - control and the feeling she still got it.
My 50+ cousin has been in a LTR with a 20 something dude for maybe 8 years now. Her daughter is like 4 years younger than him and my cousin is seriously fvcked in the head i tell you, a controlling nightmare who can't handle the fact that she's aging. I remember how she openly disrespected the father of her child towards the end and cheated on him with a relative of his. I remember him as a cool, really really good looking dude. She completely humiliated and destroyed him.

I don't plan to stick around very long, will propose to come to her place to hang out, as I wouldn't like her to know where I live, and move towards sex. Tbh it's embarrassing for me to be seen with a lot older woman in public, so I will take it only secretly.

 

[Romanemp22]

Just to make an update. So I eventually ditched this woman who is 50yrs old. On date I noticed she have a lot of emotional baggage /garbage as some of you noted before.

Also she had some crazy stare moments that freaked me out. When I got home she started texting me like crazy, bursting out where I have been, why I'm not texting her etc.

I told her to fvck off and blocked her. Also I had a gut feeling telling me this wasn't right so I cut it off.

 

[RickTheToad]

Fourth is if you're into raw dogging, there's a good chance you can with her and blast inside her without too much worrying(never assume anything though)

As a medical professional, DO NOT DO THIS. Now, if she's 50+, tubes tided (no way to really verify though), on BC (same as prior), or you're clipped, then fine. However, this doesn't protect you from STIs/STDs.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I think op means busted.

 

[TMK]

Younger = fairytale conditioning + hormonal fluctuations + hypergamy + biological clock.
Older = fairytale conditioning + hormonal fluctuations + hypergamy + biological clock (ticking louder than ever) + many failed relationships + impending arrival of the wall.

If anything, I'd say women my age (late thirties) are the most entitled group, clinging on to maternal instinct, the notion that they are still as attractive as 20years prior, and their eat pray love ideology all at once. This group has probably been the most affected by feminisation of society.

If you want a bit of fun, go for a 20 year old. If you want loyalty go for 45. If you want an empty shell pretence of both, go for 25-40.

 

[SW15]

Fourth is if you're into raw dogging, there's a good chance you can with her and blast inside her without too much worrying(never assume anything though)

I greatly prefer to blast inside women. I use condoms though.

It's still pretty dangerous to blast inside a 35-39 year old woman without protection. Although their fertility is diminished if not using birth control, they are still fertile enough to get pregnant.

40+ is a safer bet to blast inside without a condom and without worrying about pregnancy but you're still really not off the hook on that until around 45.

If anything, I'd say women my age (late thirties) are the most entitled group, clinging on to maternal instinct, the notion that they are still as attractive as 20years prior, and their eat pray love ideology all at once. This group has probably been the most affected by feminisation of society.

If you want a bit of fun, go for a 20 year old. If you want loyalty go for 45. If you want an empty shell pretence of both, go for 25-40.

30 something childless women who want kids are a difficult group to encounter. I agree that they are entitled. While 30-32 can be ok, 33-39 is much more difficult. 30 something women often having raging bio clocks.

Agree that 25-40 year old women are often pretentious. I have spent my post college year in 2 of the most pretentious U.S. metro areas. I know a thing or two about pretentious behavior.

 

[Lookatu]

I greatly prefer to blast inside women. I use condoms though.

It's still pretty dangerous to blast inside a 35-39 year old woman without protection. Although their fertility is diminished if not using birth control, they are still fertile enough to get pregnant.

40+ is a safer bet to blast inside without a condom and without worrying about pregnancy but you're still really not off the hook on that until around 45.

Just to be clear, I would only think about blasting inside a woman that has been fixed or if you use the time method, or if she's 50+(as in RomanEmp22's case) and knows if she can't get pregnant.

Blasting inside any woman under 50 is pretty stupid during her fertile period.

 

[Lookatu]

As a medical professional, DO NOT DO THIS. Now, if she's 50+, tubes tided (no way to really verify though), on BC (same as prior), or you're clipped, then fine. However, this doesn't protect you from STIs/STDs.

LOL. Rick has his preference - No marriage, no rawdogging(STD fear). We all got that. That's your choice dude if you wanna live that way. Don't expect everyone to conform to you.

 

[RickTheToad]

LOL. Rick has his preference - No marriage, no rawdogging(STD fear). We all got that. That's your choice dude if you wanna live that way. Don't expect everyone to conform to you.

Okay dude. You be the next this.

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[Sneaky Pete]

I think they tend to be much easier to get into bed than younger ones. Cougars are c0ck hungry always.

Oh yes they are! The last one I banged was amazing

 

[Sneaky Pete]

Opinion on 50yo woman? I have a meeting with one tonight.

I bet she was good! How did it go? LR?

 

[Romanemp22]

I bet she was good! How did it go? LR?

As I said above, I ditched her. She was a nutcase. Even tho she was hot, her actions and energy during and afterwards the date made me realize it would be not worth it to stick my d1ck in crazy, again.

She would have some really crazy stare moments at you that you think to yourself what the fvck is going on.

And when I got home, she would constantly blow up my phone, if I'm in the shower why am I not texting her etc. And next morning I didn't text her she was already blowing up my phone why there is no good morning text.

After that I blocked her and that's it. Also I forgot to mention she lied about her age, telling me she's 36 lol when you can see on her face that she's 50+. She even have a 27y/o daughter.
I just laugh on it as I realize she's full of sh1t and a lot of baggage I guess.

So that expedition didn't go as I planned but to be honest my gut feeling was telling my something is off so I listen to it.

 

[Sneaky Pete]

As I said above, I ditched her. She was a nutcase. Even tho she was hot, her actions and energy during and afterwards the date made me realize it would be not worth it to stick my d1ck in crazy, again.

She would have some really crazy stare moments at you that you think to yourself what the fvck is going on.

And when I got home, she would constantly blow up my phone, if I'm in the shower why am I not texting her etc. And next morning I didn't text her she was already blowing up my phone why there is no good morning text.

After that I blocked her and that's it. Also I forgot to mention she lied about her age, telling me she's 36 lol when you can see on her face that she's 50+. She even have a 27y/o daughter.
I just laugh on it as I realize she's full of sh1t and a lot of baggage I guess.

So that expedition didn't go as I planned but to be honest my gut feeling was telling my something is off so I listen to it.

Got to go w your gut, for sure.