Are most people in the world really evil

[gtownjuan]

I mean are they really so lazy and fvcked up that they wont pursuer change plus expect everyone else be eqally a looser as them?. I feel that these people are out to get me, recently even my bestest of friends and my family at times. Its like the world is in a mold and I’m constantly seeking to break free making them feel ofended n jealous. Every time I pursue something out of my 'limited personality'(how the categorise me), like approach a chick or significantly change something in my life, they seek to discourage me They see me doing something I actually enjoy and find some way to get me distracted. I haven’t let them break my spirit but is this really what my life going to be like?

Talking about negatives isn’t my thing but if understanding the things that cause them, will help to avoid them, then I’m fully involved.

So basically what I’m asking is how do you block out the discouragement of society and pursue a goal of being a true Master Don Juan? Even if it seams that everyone in proximity to you is against you.

 

[TheHumanist]

I'm going to say this for I suspect many will come in and support you. Yes and no. The mission of the Don Juan is about taking the flag, following your own path, and block out the forces against you.

However, in defense of humanity, there are many who would cheer you on (at least not go out of their way to get in your way). Think of the 48 Laws of Power, the power to recreate yourself. Do not forget it, be a person that is constantly evolving instead of fitting some kind of static character.

People doubt sadly, we are raise to doubt everything, especially the uncommon, it not they want to just see you down (sometimes they do, but not always), but many do lack the ironic element of faith and hope.

In terms of blocking out society, birds of a feather flock together. Surruond yourself with people who want to see themselves grow and of course, want to see others grow. Cultivate a self that is formless, instead of a mold that keeps breaking out, be the mold of the always molding (form an image of a person who never stop changing).

Edit: crap, this counts as advice, take it with salt. The main thing I was going for is not everyone is against you...

 

[KontrollerX]

Not evil as that is a religious concept but rather viscious, selfish, hateful and filled with resentment.

Yeah I'd agree most people in the world are like this even if they project a rosy image to the rest of society.

In anycase know that the people that try to drag you down when they see you making progress and positive change in your life are doing so to remain feeling comfortable in their own inadequacy.

Also they may get comfort of having you being lower than them in the sense that they can look at you as being someone they are better than in a certain way but once you improve you destroy this image and they either have to improve more than you to retain that image shaking them out of their complacency or feel the weight of their own horrible state of being as you surpass them and show them where they should be or really want to be in life.

So to answer your question I would say you don't need to block out people's discouragement of your dream's but rise against their negativity and doubts and use all of their negative energy to fuel your change and prove those bastards wrong and when you get high enough and where you want to be leave them all behind in the dust where they belong and where they are all too satisfied to be.

 

[gtownjuan]

Edit: crap, this counts as advice, take it with salt. The main thing I was going for is not everyone is against you...

We got something in common, when we start on a point we can't just leave it at that.

I'm trying to find more people like myself where i am (cause i dont think there are any real "DJs"(or people who know of sosuave) where i live.

I know we are in a "martix" society and in it is a great resistance. People are breaking out everywhere n unleasing themseles just like i am. People like this are hard to find but i will continue my journey and as they appear i'll remember to "flock" with them.

As for now, im saying fvck society and those who hold me back. I'm rising n learing to ignore people trying to limited my success.

 

[gtownjuan]

So to answer your question I would say you don't need to block out people's discouragement of your dream's but rise against their negativity and doubts and use all of their negative energy to fuel your change and prove those bastards wrong and when you get high enough and where you want to be leave them all behind in the dust where they belong and where they are all too satisfied to be.

Yo man, that really motivational. 'How to use their hater energy to my advantage" I remember a similar technique in "the book of shuma gora" where basically you look at all the frustration in the AFCs to give you a confidence boost to approach knowing that you have what it takes.

Good stuff good stuff

 

[Quiksilver]

Most people aren't evil, unless you consider human nature itself evil.

I've thought about this a lot and come to a conclusion that this 'evil' is a byproduct of society and civilization. If you examine cultures that aren't so advanced, like tribes in the amazon or papua new guinea, they have almost no incidence of murder or our benchmarks of 'evil' because their struggle just to survive each day is enough to keep them occupied. It brings people together.

People now have everything so easy that they go in search of that feeling, and its hard to get that feeling of 'struggle' by doing something good.

modern western society lacks a common enemy and struggle, which has been a part of human existance for millions of years(for those of you who believe in evolution), so to suddenly take away that struggle leaves a big gap in the human psyche.

For another example, do you think allied soldiers in WWII murdered eachother at the same rate as in civilian society? Not at all, because they had a common enemy and something that brought them together and created a struggle that they had to work together to survive in.

Just some thoughts.

 

[Mad Manic]

What are the two human instincts? Survive and reproduce. That lends itself to being 'evil' or generally having bad traits, whatever you want to call it (see above posters). That's why they don't want you to succeed, more prone to giving negative comments than positive ones, rarely help you in getting women or improving in some way. Most people just use other people to get what they want and to not be alone.

MM

 

[LostAndConfused]

This is exactly how I feel at times. I like this thread.

 

[gtownjuan]

You see, we were all born the same way, and will all die the same way. Thus we are all equal.

The struggle and challenges we face between these two concepts (birth and death) differ in many ways from person to person. So what we must do is accept what you are given and work it the fullest.

In a way society has thought us to avoid these challenges, and in doing so, we tend to think that no one else should do what we can't. Because that would mean that we aren't as great as we think of ourselves. We close our minds to what a fulfilling life can be then we cry of "how much this is now fair".

This brainwashing is but another challenge of our life. It is an idea that we humans use to convince ourselves to see what we want to see and hide the truth that life is really something undefinable, something we actually have to work, on to make it great.

So we must rise above this and learn to grow taking risks and making mistakes, accept that we wont always win sometimes, no matter what skills we posses. We just live it in its stages, really we have no control over what will happen to us, we only can develop that ability to adapt to the future's many unknowns.

WAIT how is this related to how others influence you?? It doesn't cause you are responsible for you, and nothing really that others do to you should really affect how you live your life no matter how 'close' they may be to you.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Interesting question. To me when I hear someone say it, the voice in my head always asks, "What makes you so important that you think the world is against you?"

In terms of the world trying to hold you back, people are against change or have failed in their livers and assume that you will fail too, so they try to hold you back sometimes. Thats why you see lots of poor parents forcing their children to do take up business or high paying jobs in hopes that it will ensure happiness.

To me, these people are just in a different mindset, not 'evil' as you put it. Before reading the site, if someone told you they were going to neg a girl who was being b!tchy, you would call him an idiot and think that he was going to C&B

 

[Gubby]

So basically what I’m asking is how do you block out the discouragement of society and pursue a goal of being a true Master Don Juan? Even if it seams that everyone in proximity to you is against you.

It's tough that your family is like this, but what I've thought recently is that however you change there will always be someone who is willing to accept you as you are. You just have to find those people. It's the bit while you're still looking that's the hardest, the period of adaptation when it's neither as good as before or as good as it will be when it's how you want it to be... which is why change is so tough. But perserverence will do it.

 

[Gubby]

I wanted ot edit that post, but it won't let me for some obscured reason. But I just wanted to clarify:

Finding someone who will accept you HOWEVER you are is very hard (still possible, and a worthy goal, but yes, hard)... but finding someone who will accept whatever new identity you make for yourself isn't so. It depends what identity of course, but think of.. satanism, for instance. There are SATANISTS with friends.

 

[ItsOnNow]

No. I don't think that. I really do think in the reality of things,that people are generally and want to be good and do the right thing and now let all the petty jealousy,negativity,feelings of revenge,unless for a good reason,i.e someone kills a family member,rapes your wife/children,steals from you,lies to you,cheats you over when you helped them out,acts two face toward you,talks behind your back,which I now realize is less than we realize
I do think alot more people out there are good,honest,don't hold grudges too easily,aren't that vengeful,I am going through an enlightenment,I am trying to become more positive,and hope to inspire others.