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OJN_98

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The pool at our condo has a gate. If I open the gate and come in she'll know that I just wanted to talk to her, and I have a hard time hiding my horniness I don't want to keep looking at her ass as I talk to her.
Bro, you keep making up excuses every time someone gives you an idea.

Here's a basic ground rule about women: don't become infatuated with their looks. When you do that you'll start to supplicate, jump to her whim, choke up, etc. Just think of her as one of the guys and the conversation should run smoothly.
 

Phuck Yiu

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Bro, you keep making up excuses every time someone gives you an idea.

Here's a basic ground rule about women: don't become infatuated with their looks. When you do that you'll start to supplicate, jump to her whim, choke up, etc. Just think of her as one of the guys and the conversation should run smoothly.
I already talked to her.
 

Chamber36

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You're lacking the frame....

The frame should be "it's my territory. We are neighbours. Who are you? Nice seeing you tan here all the time. How about some lemonade after the tanning because I'm sure you're dehydrated".

I'd play it something like that. It's playful and not too forward. But she will get the idea and be able to either give you more openings or just laugh it off and say you're too young.

And even if she does say you're too young, or something similar, it doesn't matter. You might well be too young or inexperienced for her taste. It's nothing to be taken personally. It's just her preference what she wants.

You might as well try. Give it that approach, if that's what you want to do. You might run into a similar situation in 2 years time when you're a bit older, and you'll just have that tiny but more experience under your belt.

Just remember to be playful and friendly like neighbours. That doesn't make it any less flirtatious. Neighbours flirt all the time.
 

Phuck Yiu

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You're lacking the frame....

The frame should be "it's my territory. We are neighbours. Who are you? Nice seeing you tan here all the time. How about some lemonade after the tanning because I'm sure you're dehydrated".

I'd play it something like that. It's playful and not too forward. But she will get the idea and be able to either give you more openings or just laugh it off and say you're too young.

And even if she does say you're too young, or something similar, it doesn't matter. You might well be too young or inexperienced for her taste. It's nothing to be taken personally. It's just her preference what she wants.

You might as well try. Give it that approach, if that's what you want to do. You might run into a similar situation in 2 years time when you're a bit older, and you'll just have that tiny but more experience under your belt.

Just remember to be playful and friendly like neighbours. That doesn't make it any less flirtatious. Neighbours flirt all the time.
Ok I'll try
 
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