Are class approaches useless after the first week?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I think there is only one realway to hookup with a chick that is in your(college) class. That is Mention studying, get comfortable, meet outside of class, meet outside of school. Now you cant come on too hard in a class, it just aint gonna work. But then I was thinking, since women decide upon a certain man within minutes of seeing him, doesnt that ruin like all chances of hooking up with a chick after like the first week, unless of course the class is like 300 people and you dont really see each other. After the first week the chick will think either 2 things:"you are not attracted to her" or you were attracted to her but never made the move so she just wont bother.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... After the first week the chick will think either 2 things:"you are not attracted to her" or you were attracted to her but never made the move so she just wont bother.

Just approach her be it in class, after class, whenever. Just have a conversation with her, who cares about what. And this whole bit about women knowing whether she's going to hook up with you may or may not be true but you will definitely lower your chances by acting like a AFC and not give her a reason to be interested in you.

 

[bob2007]

I'm in the same situation right now. Most classes are too big and boring to talk about anything related to class. You can chat with a chick anytime beyond the first week I'd say.

I saw something quite interesting. I think women and men are quite similar in classroom pickups.
The other day I saw a girl start a convo with a guy. The girl was probably a 5, she was like, I missed a couple classes etc, gimme info. The guy just politely answered her questions and ignored her the rest of the class. Now if she were a 9 he'd probably have kept the conversation going.

I think getting near them to have the opportunity to start a convo is most important. For me the opportunity is probably just my Spanish class with like 30 students. Practice a lil Spanish and a lil macking at the same time.

 

[d182]

ahh i can relate. classroom pickups arent really my thing mainly because everyone knows everyone in my program. however, i dont think that pickups are useless after the first week. most ppl that i've met in class are generally really friendly and open. its not that difficult to strike up a convo with someone random

 

[Nausicaa]

This is ideal if you go to a university with small class sizes that is on the trimester system (shorter semesters), like me :

Walk into class a little late or right before it's supposed to start. Scan the room quick - use your instincts and spot the smartest looking girl there. Sit next to her. Do your thing.

Hopefully, you become good enough "friends" with her that she won't mind sharing her homework, among other things.

Anyway, to really answer the question - class room pick ups can be tricky if you don't sit right next to the person you're interested in.

I'd try and make eye-contact and smile during the class, but nothing else. Then, if you're the type to hang around campus - look for her. Seriously, you're BOUND to see her eventually. And if you've made it obvious during class, you should be able to go up to her and strike up some conversation pretty easily. I think, as the original poster said, it's best to avoid trying to make serious moves in the classroom.

Obviously, if you're sitting next to a girl in a class, it's much easier to strike up conversation, so you might be able to get away with it in that situation.

 

[tryin 2 play]

class pickups

I personally do not like to pick up while INSIDE the class room. I think it is akward. If you ask the girl out and she says no, other chics will hear and it will basically ruin your chances with them, because they think your a player, or loser or whatever. It also may embarass her a little, which you don't want. Chat up the girls, yes, but don't ask them out in class.

I met my last girlfriend from class at school. It is a commuter school so a little tough to pic up chics, but its cool. Basically, while walking out, i broke the ice by asking her "so what do you think about that class?" Anyway, the convo went from there, over the next week just walking out and getting little bits of info from her (name, where she from, how was your weekend, etc...)

I then said hey i think that we should go out sometime, bla bla bla. She gave me her number and a few weeks later we went out. Lasted for a few months, but i ofund out she was emotionally messed up from her ex boyfreind, so i ended it.

Anyway, i think that is a good openeing line because you have something in common to start the convo off with. However, don't always talk about class, because that is boring. Talk about other stuff, throw a small compliment in there, and ASK HER OUT.

SINK or SWIM!