Are all of the girls you meet online low quality?

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Have any of you met a quality girl online? Or do they all have some sort of problem? I am setting up a couple of dates but I can't tell if they are low quality because they use a dating site.

I personally see myself as a catch, yet I just starting using OKcupid to add a couple plates. I'm kind of skeptical that these girls are normal and not bat**** insane. Thoughts?
 
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Are all of the girls you meet online low quality?
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Yes, decent looking chicks who aren't fvckups don't need to create online accounts to find suitors. Never have, never will. Don't take my word on it though, ask yourself do you personally know any fellas who have met hot, traditional type chicks online? Neither do I.
 
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I honestly think that they're just normal girls tbh. Most of them don't set up the accounts with the same intentions that we have. They just like the extra attention and are curious/friend made them create an account etc whatever. Yeah there are some ugly/fat/desperate ones on there and they fit the stereotype but there are so many run of the mill girls on there. There's no stigma with POF that there is with match.com etc, it's just becoming part of what people do.
 
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Every single one I have ever dealt with has turned out to have severe emotional issues at best and batsh!t crazy at worst.

Refer to titty man's post above.
 

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I've been doing online dating for almost 11 years now and have boned about 45 women so far from it. And I'd have to say that they're all pretty f*cked up chicks.

If you want "quality" from online dating, look for girls who have recently moved to your area. Those are your best bets. They're online not because they're so crazy that they can't find normal ways to meet guys, but because they simply don't know anybody in the area.

But the normal ones, like the pretty ones, are online no more than a couple of weeks before somebody snaps them up.
 
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Sofomore said:
Have any of you met a quality girl online? Or do they all have some sort of problem? I am setting up a couple of dates but I can't tell if they are low quality because they use a dating site.

I personally see myself as a catch, yet I just starting using OKcupid to add a couple plates. I'm kind of skeptical that these girls are normal and not bat**** insane. Thoughts?
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You should use internet dating only as a supplement to real world sarging, and always always ALWAYS take internet dating with a pinch of salt. You may find some decent women there, who have it together, but they are in the minority.

The best case scenario is you get laid a lot, but it can be a lot of effort, and I would not suggest dating any of them. You seldom get to date them anyway, because most are validation junkies or/and looking for one-night stands, or are in no way serious about finding a boyfriend; so try to pursue one and you'll be "rejected" by a single mom on Prozac with 5 kids and a violent ex-partner.
 
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I've met some crazy ones online, but two pretty high quality girls. One from a super-rich family that owns a chain store...she wasn't up to my standard of looks to date seriously but I could have. Another girl I have been going out with, in graduate school, pretty, has her shyt together, chill. You have to be very selective and try to sift through the crazy ones. There are always signs, sometimes they can cover them at first though. Some high quality girls go on there because THEY can't find the standard they are looking for either and decide to try another avenue.
 

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Instead of repeating exactly what I said in another thread. I'll post it here again:

I've been over this verbatim.

Women on POF are damaged (if not already) the minute they start to notice that they can have constant attention and hundreds of men offering to take her out daily. This same woman can go out to a bar and only get hit on 3-4 times the whole night...

I've warned about the future effects that On-line dating is going to have on society and monogamous relationship's.

Ugly women can pull an average looking guy who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Average women can pull the hot jock looking guy who ignored her in high school.

Hot women (even "slightly" hot) can pull... Whoever they want; whenever they want.

Women get into it eager to find a soulmate, but walk away (or wobble away) with a whole lot of new c@cks in them....

Once a woman embraces the online dating lifestyle... It's best to not count on anything past 1 date with them.

And on that 1 date - you should do everything in your power to fvck them. In fact, I like to already have it assumed we are fvcking.


Expecting to ever see her again - is a dumb expectation.
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Is OKC much different than POF? Not really.... Women do get about half as many messages on OKC (mainly because it's not as well known). But a lot of them are ON BOTH SITES!



Your best bet is what Zarky said... Or to search for "new members".

But even then - it's doubtful that she'll end up being girlfriend material...

But I'm not expert in girlfriend material.... I dropped "dating" from my immediate vocabulary years ago...



And as a lesson.... One of the hottest girls I've ever met from online was over my house last Saturday (she came over to my house (me = a stranger) at 3am!) I got blinded by her beauty a little, and ended up only fingering and spanking her... Did not fvck her (because i was listening to her LMR instead of pushing through it)...

And i haven't heard from her since...


Which is the way it goes...



Bars/clubs are no better...


Social circle, or activity clubs are your best bet... Unless you're just looking to fvck...

THEN Online is king...
 
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I second what other posters have said here, you need to try and bang them on the first date. No "dating" mentality.

I have been on MANY, MANY, MANY internet dates, and I thought I had struck gold once or twice. Date was great, girl seemed to be together, make-out session at the end, talking about a second-date...

... and what happens?

All subsequent texts and calls are ignored.

Pump and dump only.
 
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I met one hottie online, we dated for two years, the thing that I hated about her is she smoked ciggs and weed. I told her to stop, because she is too beautiful to do that, I said make your choice, me or the weed. She choose the weed and never talked to her again. LOL chicks are fu*cked up on the internet. It's not worth it.
 
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in general I have been less than impressed with women who I have actually gone to meet online. I have had a few random sexual encounters, but beyond that their personalities are extremely boring. As a women around where I live, they will have plenty of options and adding online dating to the mix only adds to their plates. Its not to say a guy can't do the same, but its a futile exercise to try and game hot women ( at least for me) and expect good results.
 
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Zarky said:
If you want "quality" from online dating, look for girls who have recently moved to your area. Those are your best bets. They're online not because they're so crazy that they can't find normal ways to meet guys, but because they simply don't know anybody in the area.

But the normal ones, like the pretty ones, are online no more than a couple of weeks before somebody snaps them up.
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THIS^^

My current GF had only been on okc for a week and I snatched her up quick.
 

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Be pleasantly surprised by whom you meet in real life. Really. As soon as I walked away from the keyboard, I started meeting high quality women. Take up salsa lessons. Go out dancing. You will see what I mean.

Now here's not to say that online doesn't have it's place. It's an easy way to empty the sac into some damaged weirdo. Overall, it's basically a mental institution for mentally unstable women. Yeah there's a few good one's. But there are MUCH better places to look.
 
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^^^^^ Pretty sad when I can't tell the difference between the automated spam bots and the regular posters here.
 
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I have had slept with 6 girls on CL and all of them either had an ugly face with a nice body or decent face but were a bit too chubby, etc.etc.

This was the same for CouchSurfing. I had slept with 3 girls that I hosted so far but weren't that great looking. Although one girl was really cool and had an awesome personality!

I have yet slept with a girl from OKC.
 
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