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Are all hot girls between 18 -29 sleeping around

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I often think men try to convince themselves all hot women between 18 - 29 are sleeping with a different guy every other day to feel better about themselves. But then I personally know some hot girls who lost their virginity at 14 and runaway models who got pregnant at 19.

I met a decent looking 27 year old and asked her out, got the the silent treatment. Apparently she has 10 younger hotter guys chasing her. I don’t think she is sleeping with them all because her parents are doctors and she lives with them, and the country she was born in is fairly conservative. Yet I could be just rationalizing because I didn’t turn her on enough. Could be an age difference too, I’m several years older than her.

Are fertile, hot, young girls between 18 - 29 sleeping with everything they can while they can? Or are men rationalizing their behaviour to make themselves feel good?

Thoughts?
 

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I often think men try to convince themselves all hot women between 18 - 29 are sleeping with a different guy every other day to feel better about themselves. But then I personally know some hot girls who lost their virginity at 14 and runaway models who got pregnant at 19.

I met a decent looking 27 year old and asked her out, got the the silent treatment. Apparently she has 10 younger hotter guys chasing her. I don’t think she is sleeping with them all because her parents are doctors and she lives with them, and the country she was born in is fairly conservative. Yet I could be just rationalizing because I didn’t turn her on enough. Could be an age difference too, I’m several years older than her.

Are fertile, hot, young girls between 18 - 29 sleeping with everything they can while they can? Or are men rationalizing their behaviour to make themselves feel good?

Thoughts?
1. Only a very small percentage of 18-29 are hot if you live in the USA. Most are fat drug addicts with purple hair.

2. They're not. It's an exaggeration. I'm not saying they're celibate, but to say they're getting new d1ck every day is a ridiculous exaggeration.
 

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Usually girls have sekc with men in order to have a relationship with them, girls having sekc only for sekc rarely happens. Do

So in conclusion, I think that no, girls don't fvck new guys all the time, most girls have a low lay counts (under 10), for "willing" girls - 10-30, above 30 lay counts, there is a mental disease hiding somewhere (nymphomania, affective issues, prostitution..)

My thoughts, maybe I'm completely wrong but I think it's accurate.
I agree but I think 30 is conservative though. A willing girl under 25 living in a city on her own could easily be clutching 10 - 50 as a notch count. Above that is mental health territory.
 

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In my experience some girls have "sleeping around" period that can last from months to years, eventually they understand that it's a dead end and look around for the one.

Some girls have very high sex drive, like they need to have sex 5 times a day and more. Some girls go without sex for years and don't really care.
 

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Some yes, some no. Insecure ones are more likely to use sex as validation. The planer janes I know sleep around more often than the genuinely hot girls I know. Of course, they all have options, but some are aware of what c0ck miles do to them.
 

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The hotter she is, the less likely she's sleeping around. At least that is my experience. They can usually get attention and other things they want without sex... most dudes will fall all over themselves just to have her touch their arm.

Hot women usually have something like a 'boyfriend' that she sleeping with regularly... he usually sees himself as the BF: she sees him as a placeholder/FWB. He spends money on her, gives her things: she sleeps with him. You can usually tell this is going on because she isn't posting photos of them on social media, and she doesn't bring him around friends and families.... UNLESS he is in the top 1%. I have a few 'superhot female friends' and if you are her friend, and you ask her what's up with whatever dude she is fvcking, she'll say "Oh, well it's kind of hard to define it." or "Well... it's all pretty new, not sure what I would call it."

If he ever pushes for more from her... he's gone... then picks which one of several orbiter she has floating around, and loads him up.
 
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I believe most women do want relationships and do not want to be sleeping around with 5 guys according to the bitter black/red pill junkies. However, a lot of girls fall victim to the external boyfriend. These guys will never fully commit to her, but they won’t leave the relationship because they cannot get anything better atm. Or, they end up chasing Mr. fun or the guy above her league that got horny on a slow Tuesday for her lol. Also, they could be focused on other things and just be talking to a guy that they see occasionally as a placeholder type boyfriend.
 
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The hotter she is, the less likely she's sleeping around. At least that is my experience. They can usually get attention and other things they want without sex... most dudes will fall all over themselves just to have her touch their arm.

Hot women usually have something like a 'boyfriend' that she sleeping with regularly... he usually sees himself as the BF: she sees him as a placeholder/FWB. He spends money on her, gives her things: she sleeps with him. You can usually tell this is going on because she isn't posting photos of them on social media, and she doesn't bring him around friends and families.... UNLESS he is in the top 1%. I have a few 'superhot female friends' and if you are her friend, and you ask her what's up with whatever dude she is fvcking, she'll say "Oh, well it's kind of hard to define it." or "Well... it's all pretty new, not sure what I would call it."

If he ever pushes for more from her... he's gone... then picks which one of several orbiter she has floating around, and loads him up.
Im in one of these relationships currently because she’s too focused on school to emotionally be that available. I know not to push more, so I got another girl to fill in the gaps lol.
 

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The typical 18-29 year old woman is in some LTR at any given point in those 11 years of her life. This may be a sequence of 2-3 year long relationships with a few months here and there between things.

The majority of 18-29 year old women are not looking for a new thing at any time. They are not actively entertaining DMs on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, etc. They are not on swipe apps.
 

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To say in a very "redpill" way, women don't get their value through sex, but through the expectancy of sex. If you have sex with a hot girl, it's not, you already reached the high spot and she technically has nothing else to offer to you after that. Women are naturally smarter than that, they play games and don't give you what you want for a reason.

So if I could say, frustrated women are the ones who has more sex, because they need it to get out of the emotional black hole that their lives are. Now if we're talking about normal women, even the hot ones, they don't need sex at all. These girls will usually keep the normal men expecting for sex with them (while getting everything they want) while giving themselves to the few high value men that they can find. If you agree with this logic, and you know that there are little to no high value men in the world, you can suppose that hot women aren't having that much sex.
 
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1. Only a very small percentage of 18-29 are hot if you live in the USA. Most are fat drug addicts with purple hair.

2. They're not. It's an exaggeration. I'm not saying they're celibate, but to say they're getting new d1ck every day is a ridiculous exaggeration.
That depends where. Most women in urban areas or close to urban areas are fit and hot.
 

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Most “hot” women are in LTRs. However, most of them have lots of orbiters and get huge amounts of validation from multiple sources even though they’re in those LTRs. I think a lot of men think because they get a lot of attention they’re sleeping around. This generally isn’t the case though.
 

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No> women mentioned above, young hot etc feminine, slightly insecure.

Yes > Most Single moms are desensitized and lost all feminine narrative, they will literally whip their P*ssy out for c*ck without hesitation. Most(not all) single moms Ive been with with have swallowed etc on the first meet,
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Most “hot” women are in LTRs. However, most of them have lots of orbiters and get huge amounts of validation from multiple sources even though they’re in those LTRs. I think a lot of men think because they get a lot of attention they’re sleeping around. This generally isn’t the case though.
You ever wonder why you are single, but these other guys whose SMV is no better than yours and worse managed to land a hot girl and have a LTR? Is it all about timing?

I just don't get it and it pisses me off
 

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You ever wonder why you are single, but these other guys whose SMV is no better than yours and worse managed to land a hot girl and have a LTR? Is it all about timing?

I just don't get it and it pisses me off
I’ve been in LTRs with hot women and it generally is a headache dealing with the constant attention they receive. But as far as your question goes - a lot of it does come down to being in the right place at the right time.
 

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I’ve been in LTRs with hot women and it generally is a headache dealing with the constant attention they receive. But as far as your question goes - a lot of it does come down to being in the right place at the right time.
I bet it was tough dealing with the haters.
 

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The hotter she is, the less likely she's sleeping around. At least that is my experience. They can usually get attention and other things they want without sex... most dudes will fall all over themselves just to have her touch their arm.

Hot women usually have something like a 'boyfriend' that she sleeping with regularly... he usually sees himself as the BF: she sees him as a placeholder/FWB. He spends money on her, gives her things: she sleeps with him. You can usually tell this is going on because she isn't posting photos of them on social media, and she doesn't bring him around friends and families.... UNLESS he is in the top 1%. I have a few 'superhot female friends' and if you are her friend, and you ask her what's up with whatever dude she is fvcking, she'll say "Oh, well it's kind of hard to define it." or "Well... it's all pretty new, not sure what I would call it."

If he ever pushes for more from her... he's gone... then picks which one of several orbiter she has floating around, and loads him up.
Absolutely nailed it.

The are quite selective about who they are sleeping with and are completely fine to go for a few months without sex if they haven't found someone they are into enough.
 

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