make no mistake, there are issues and then there are ISSUES.
the girl asking why I won't basically rape her while she's shivering from alcohol poisoning as I stated, is not in the same ball park with the girl I was talking about in AA who basically was somewhat clingy and would get defensive when my plans, did not include her, even though I lived with another woman. While, it's somewaht of a putt off, it's in the realm of being a normal ****ing human being, just one who has obviously caught feelings.
there is nothing normal about a woman asking why you didn't force yourself on her. that's when you run. i had a girl one day pull up bestiality on my laptop, that's not normal ****. get the **** out. or, a woman the first thing she tells you about every guy she dated, is the car the drove (had one of those before). you be in the game long enough you pick up on certain things that are normal and are not normal or you can just bump your head enough times like I did.
i remmeber when i first met my girl and i caught her sniffing coke in my bathroom, even posted about it here. got alot of flack for not kicking her. but the way i see it, doing coke, is not a caracter defect. it happens, some people lke to party. no more so than someone having a drink. i am a recovering addict and i told her that if we are to keep seeing each ohter, this can't be in my house becuase this.. does things to me lol. and you know what, never had a problem since. people make the mistake, of thinking someone who uses drugs has a problem or has a character defect and could not be more wrong. a person has a problem when they are forced to stop and can't. people drink, people smoke weed, but if you know you have a drug test coming up in 1 month and you can't stop smoking to pass the drug test, you know what then you might have an issue.
