are all girls from POF sluts?

[pyros]

I've had my acccount for a year now.
Ive met two girls. Girl number 1 HB6.5 was very outgoing and funy, but I quickly found out she was bisexual and a slut who had sex with dozens of guys. But hey, she was really funy and had big boobs.

Girl number 2 HB6.7, I've just met her. We've been on four dates, I banged her on date #3...because she suggested it. Now, she just told me that she did a threesome with two guys in the past. Great...
Besides she's crazy about sex, which is good, but on our last date (#4) she asked me if I'd like to have sex outdoors, if I'd like to play some dominance sex game, she wanted me to really bite her boobs... etc.
It is just a turn off to know she's such a w-hore who banged dozens of guys prior to me.
AND, both girls are just 22!

What have been your experiences?

P.S.
Funy thing is that both girls have some things in common:
- 22
- really outgoing and fun.
- crave sex.
- bang dozens of guys.

 

[skinnyguy]

What are your reasons for going on POF?

Do you want a girlfriend or sex?

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

What are your reasons for going on POF?

Do you want a girlfriend or sex?

I want a girlfriend. Do you have any advice on where I can find one, skinnyguy? You seem to be an expert.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yes, I do.

Not on POF.

Girls on POF are mostly there for attention wh0ring and sex. If you want a girlfriend, you're going to need to meet people in real life.

Match.com is not terrible, but not great either. It's better than POF at least, because the women have to pay so they're more interested in actually finding a connection. But still, I recommend meeting people in real life.

I'm still working on this myself, but a lot of times you just meet people in the moment. What has worked for me is being around my bros and meeting people that way. I don't think there is really any substitute for social circle. I was in Vegas with my friends (I know, not a great place to meet a gf) and we met 8 chicks there from Nebraska doing a bachelorette party. We hung out with them the whole night. So being with friends who are also looking can really help your chances. Just lower your expectations and go out with the mindset of having fun with your friends, not meeting a girl.

 

[Solomon]

Yup

I've have banged girls that I wanted to pursue and never heard from them again also girls who will send nudes and never having met you. The girls that aren't sluts on POF are girls that are either not attractive or homely looking.

 

[Stort_Brød]

99% of the girls that you have a remote chance of a relationship with that are on POF are single mums... and they are only good for the good ole' pump 'n' dump. As Skinnyguy said go out looking for fun with your mates and having a good time not looking for a girl. The ladies will be attracted to the guy who is fun and outgoing rather than desperate and a sleaze... the sleazing can come after you get to know her haha.

Funy thing is that both girls have some things in common:
- 22
- really outgoing and fun.
- crave sex.
- bang dozens of guys.

the other funny thing is that most guys are
-22
-outgoing and fun
-crave sex
-bang dozens of girls

.... so what's your point? you want a virgin then go to church to pick up, but these days you would be lucky to find one even there. Everyone has a past bro you can't just turn them down because they have banged a bunch of guys before you because pretty much all chicks have unless you pop their cherry. She had a 3some with 2 guys? I had a 3some with 2 girls... it is all double standards. At the end of the day who really cares, as long as her sweet dripping pvssy is riding your c0ck and she is clean then what's the problem.

 

[Robert28]

I've been on both and can tell you this. There are some fvcking whack jobs on pof! I would say 9 out of 10 girls on pof aren't worth 2 sh!ts....dating, banging, anything. I'd rather use my hand then to mess around with 95% of the girls on that site. The secret is to look for the "new" ones to pof. What's funny is you can be on there for awhile, delete your profile for months, go back and you'll see most of the same hoebags that were on there before. I call them pof lifers.lol A lot of the pof lifers will also delete their profile, only to "make a new one" within a day or so. I've never figured this out as to why they do it but LOTS of them do. When you begin chatting the ones in the "new users section", you'll quickly be able to tell who TRULY is new and who is a pof lifer who just made a new profile. trust me, you'll know.

as for match.com. Yeah its better and the quality of girls are better. if there's one bad thing I can say for it is this. Girls will drop off the face of the fvcking earth with no warning and won't talk to you ever again for some unkown reason. I sh!t you not. It's like the littlest thing scares some of them off. so watch what you say, you basically have to walk on fvcking pins and needles around them before you go on a date with them or else they'll go to ignoring you. Don't try to be different then other guys either, you'll get called "random" and they'll stop talking to you. they hate random for whatever reason, they want to talk to a cookie cutter guy who asks the same boring @$$ questions over and over.

 

[Solomon]

I've been on both and can tell you this. There are some fvcking whack jobs on pof! I would say 9 out of 10 girls on pof aren't worth 2 sh!ts....dating, banging, anything. I'd rather use my hand then to mess around with 95% of the girls on that site. The secret is to look for the "new" ones to pof. What's funny is you can be on there for awhile, delete your profile for months, go back and you'll see most of the same hoebags that were on there before. I call them pof lifers.lol A lot of the pof lifers will also delete their profile, only to "make a new one" within a day or so. I've never figured this out as to why they do it but LOTS of them do. When you begin chatting the ones in the "new users section", you'll quickly be able to tell who TRULY is new and who is a pof lifer who just made a new profile. trust me, you'll know.

It always baffled my mind how some chicks can spend literally years on POF or a website and not meet anyone that meets their criteria. I mean for a guy I can understand but women get faaaaaaaaaaaar more messages which means they have more opportunities to go on dates etc. If a woman gets an average of 20 messages more then man, you seriously telling me not one guy fits her standard for a boyfriend?

I have a theory

1. C*ck Carousel--These women who have been on for years are looking for a "mythological man" and they won't find him but they will phuck a guy who they deem alpha. I knew a girl like this who was hottie (7-8) and smart but she would be super picky and then started dating/phucking bad boys, your classic hypergamy wh0re

2. Attention--I really believe some women aren't on there to even date but just validation and attention. These women don't get attention in real life and when they do it's not from the men they want. They probably have some booty call and such but the guy probably is stringing her along etc

In the end you can't compare POF to the field. I'm focusing my game on that and social circle again after having gone out I agree with Robert after you bone a POF chick you think to yourself "I was better of rubbing one out"

 

[skinnyguy]

I've been on both and can tell you this. There are some fvcking whack jobs on pof! I would say 9 out of 10 girls on pof aren't worth 2 sh!ts....dating, banging, anything. I'd rather use my hand then to mess around with 95% of the girls on that site. The secret is to look for the "new" ones to pof. What's funny is you can be on there for awhile, delete your profile for months, go back and you'll see most of the same hoebags that were on there before. I call them pof lifers.lol A lot of the pof lifers will also delete their profile, only to "make a new one" within a day or so. I've never figured this out as to why they do it but LOTS of them do. When you begin chatting the ones in the "new users section", you'll quickly be able to tell who TRULY is new and who is a pof lifer who just made a new profile. trust me, you'll know.

as for match.com. Yeah its better and the quality of girls are better. if there's one bad thing I can say for it is this. Girls will drop off the face of the fvcking earth with no warning and won't talk to you ever again for some unkown reason. I sh!t you not. It's like the littlest thing scares some of them off. so watch what you say, you basically have to walk on fvcking pins and needles around them before you go on a date with them or else they'll go to ignoring you. Don't try to be different then other guys either, you'll get called "random" and they'll stop talking to you. they hate random for whatever reason, they want to talk to a cookie cutter guy who asks the same boring @$$ questions over and over.

Excellent post.

It is true that 95% of POF women are trash. If you have all the time in the world to browse through the site, then by all means do so. But if you don't have time, you need to focus on other avenues.

What Robert28 says about Match is true is well. There's just something about meeting a girl online that makes them have their "guard" up against you. If you had met them at a coffee house, instead of on the internet, they wouldn't do that crazy stuff like stop calling and texting you for no reason. I've had this experience off match so I know.

At the end of the day, your best odds are meeting a girl at a venue in which you have a reason to be there. With bars, you're fighting an uphill battle unless you're Brad Pitt, because you're just another penis to them. But let's say you're speaking at a conference, that elevates your status and the woman is more likely to engage in conversation with you because she knows why you're there. If you're young, I would recommend starting your own business. You can put on your business card that you're a CEO and once you start making business connections, you'll have access to lots of women. And those women will not have their guard up around you because they know about your profession and your background.

 

[GS750]

as for match.com. Yeah its better and the quality of girls are better. if there's one bad thing I can say for it is this. Girls will drop off the face of the fvcking earth with no warning and won't talk to you ever again for some unkown reason. I sh!t you not. It's like the littlest thing scares some of them off. so watch what you say, you basically have to walk on fvcking pins and needles around them before you go on a date with them or else they'll go to ignoring you. Don't try to be different then other guys either, you'll get called "random" and they'll stop talking to you. they hate random for whatever reason, they want to talk to a cookie cutter guy who asks the same boring @$$ questions over and over.

I've had this experience on match too. Sometimes they exchange a few messages with you, seem interested, then just stop replying. Sometimes after the first meet they disappear even if the date went well. Its frustrating but its all part of online dating IMO.

 

[D Wolfgang]

it is all double standards.

"Double standards" is feminist propaganda. There are no "double standards," there are different standards for two vastly different groups. The reason we feel that it is not right for women to sleep around is a deep genetic instinct that shouldn't have to be explained. Women carry the tribe in their womb, as an old saying goes. The women in a family, or a tribe, can have only a few children, and so who they sleep with has always been very important, especially for families that are always on the brink of starvation, as things were for most of human history. Those who did not have strong behavior genes to shape their thoughts about this quickly died out.

As someone put it: if there is a key that opened every lock, you would think that's a damn good key. But if there is a lock that opens for every key, then that's a pretty crappy lock.

However, today with birth control, if both the man and the woman are mature people who know what they are doing, then I don't think there is anything wrong with them having sex. While I still don't think there is anything wrong with people feeling that women should not be loose-footed.

But alas, it is not always this easy. Women are not made psychologically for having many sex partners. It damages a woman's psyche. There are exceptions, and I certainly enjoy spending time with those exceptions, but for most women it is damaging. Indeed, it even damages a man's psyche, though he will have to have a whole lot more partners to arrive at the same negative state.

 

[JoeMarron]

It always baffled my mind how some chicks can spend literally years on POF or a website and not meet anyone that meets their criteria. I mean for a guy I can understand but women get faaaaaaaaaaaar more messages which means they have more opportunities to go on dates etc. If a woman gets an average of 20 messages more then man, you seriously telling me not one guy fits her standard for a boyfriend?

I'd say it's the equivalent of a dude going on there and getting hundreds of messages from fatties; the messages that he gets from hot women are women who sleep around with everyone so he only uses her for sex. The men that these woman hook up with pump and dump them and all the other ones are too repulsive for them to settle down with. Add in the fact that these women are probably damaged and its perfectly understandable why they spend their lives on dating websites.

 

[Duracell_Bunny]

Nope, you just have to get very lucky!

But yes, most member's vaginas have got more users than Facebook.

My friend is in a 3 year LTR with someone from there, and an awesome chick she is! Treats him and all of us well (the type that makes sandwiches, and breakfast when the buddies stay over).

She only had an account for a week and received hundreds of messages and begs anyone never to go on there.

My friend got in there very early and got the date. She came back to him later on as he was "genuine".

 

[HumbleNinja]

Keys to "success" with the majority of women on POF. As in you are "funny", a "real man", and aren't the player they "don't want" as well as all the good qualities these chicks fantasize based off of how photogenic and "manly" you appear in pictures. (Obvious is obvious. And I have tested personally just to prove to myself what I figured a long time ago.)

Forget your profile. Forget a good introduction. See below:

1)Be at least 6ft or taller. (To tower over some chick who is adding her height up to yours in her tallest pair of heels when she decides if she'd meet you. Trust me they're using Math on the height.) Oh and make sure if you lie on your height and post pictures of yourself next to friends or other chicks you are pretty much taller than them or all the dudes look tall. (Chicks do all photo tricks so they know what to look for as they're all frauding on there to begin with.)

2)Have tattoos. The more the better. (Doesn't matter if they're in places that guarantee you no productive employment in society, or you could be a lunatic. Hey most POF chicks like art. LMAO.) Not hating on dudes with Tatts it just is a redeeming quality to possess on a POF "real man".

3) Work out/Juice to the gills. The bigger the better.(as in cut up not just bloated) Show your abs...to the same chicks who claim they don't want to see shirtless dudes with a six pack. It's who they reply to!

4) Be in the best age range of 25-35. After that they think 40 which is almost useless for you approaching that age..so LIE about it. (Even though most chicks post out of date pictures with the time date stamped on it! As well as lie about their age. Hahaha)

5) Have a full head of hair or be prepared to have pictures rocking a baldy that looks good and not makes you look like a cancer patient. (Don't worry even if you have a full head of hair you'll lose it all if you end up with one of those chicks and or a possible STD, other baggage to go with it.)



Now being as we all know the deal on there. Why would any man worth his salt want to take any woman on that site seriously? It's free. A free for all online shopping spree where women sit back, pick the best looking in pictures to reply to/ meet for "fun" and all others need not apply. Like they were released in a department store for a free shopping spree. They'd all stampede to the high end sections of everything.


If you possess the five qualities I've listed above. And look damn good in the pictures you use. You can have a field day on there with the best looking chicks on POF in your area. (There are several in the Tri State area. I know two personally. BOTH are the WORST type of chick anyone could get stuck with. No joke.)

Only thing is in possessing what it takes for "success" on POF...The rest of the dudes who look just as good with those qualities POF women seek are hitting and quitting/ getting n00dz, sexting etc. with the same chick you've hit as well. No wifeys. All pump and dump nutcases on there. Forget reading profiles. Spam off which chick looks the best in her pictures. No joke.

All else is a complete waste of your time.