approaching girls

[Fre@k N@sty]

I've never had a problem approaching and hooking up with girls (even hot ones) when they're alone, but if that girl is with a group of girls (3 or more) I dont know how to approach her, anyone have any tips?????? I am unable to speak to her alone and feel strange with all these girls around us,etc.

 

[Sax God]

The best tip you will find on this site: READ THE BIBLE.

 

[Eternal]

Get a wingman (or a few.) Or just walk up to the group, introduce yourself, take the girl you want to talk to by the hand, and say "may I borrow her for a second?"

 

[Fre@k N@sty]

my problem is that my "wingmen" are too scared to approach girls,lol

 

[Sax God]

Get new wingmen. If you're with a group of guys who are too scared to approach girls, then you're going to have a problem approaching the group.

 

[Eternal]

That or show them the board.

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by crazykid
That or show them the board.

True. That would help the other guys out, too.

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

NO NO NO NO. Never, ever use wingmen. That is the biggest turnoff for women/girls/chicks/whatever . They don't want to date some loser with his friends out to hit on chicks, it's too obvious and will automatically be a shoot down (unless you all happen to look like brad pitt). Women get approached by these types of people all day long. The last thing you want to do is appear that you are attracted to them. It must always be casual. They want a man that is genuine and doesn't rely on his "possie" to gain confidence. You should focus on your own personal confidence and D.J. skills before you make some major wounds in your self esteem.

 

[Eternal]

No, you don't have 6 of you just walk up to a group, there's an art to using wingmen...do a search and you shall see.

 

[drixsa]

Do you know why they call em wingmen?

becuse they come in from the side!

YOU start conversation then they come over to join the conversation

 

[oreo_renegade]

yeah, dont approach chicks with other guys, its just all messy.

I would jsut approach by myself.


One time, I approached this group of HB, like 8+'s, bithc shields and everything.

So i make some suave eye contact, and smile, walk over there and am just about to open my mouth with a "Hey, My name is..."

I have my hand starting to reach out, when my friend just like BLURTS out

"Do you have change for a five!"

and with such a bad toneality, and from like 10ft away(well maybe about 7)

they all shift their gaze at him, like "whats he doing?"

so then im like "****!" (in my head of course)

and he starts turnign around!!!! we are like ****ing 5feet away from the group, hes already turning around and they havent even responded to him!

Im like "what the FVCK ARE YOU DOING!?" screaming at him in my head!

bah!

so then he turns BACK around, all the while im like about 2ft away from them, and they glance at me, glance at him, like "are you with him?"

and so THEN, i do a small chuckle laugh like "geez orry for my friend"

but hell no, its too late now, they have their ***** shields full force!

and THEN, they ALL start mumbeling ****, my firend is about to faint :\

and im sitting here in the middle of this!

the tad bits i hear: "what just cuz im so hot im rich?"
"is this some kind of new pick-up line?"
"who hte hell are you?"
"no, goodbye"

so im like *dammnit it* and am about to smack the sh1t out of my friend. but I just keep walking and glance at them like "who the hell are you talking to? me?" and walk past them

lol


So that was SCREWED.


lesson: dont approach with friends, unless they know what the hell they are doing, and arent going to freak out at the last second!

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by downfallofdisbelief
NO NO NO NO. Never, ever use wingmen. That is the biggest turnoff for women/girls/chicks/whatever . They don't want to date some loser with his friends out to hit on chicks, it's too obvious and will automatically be a shoot down (unless you all happen to look like brad pitt). Women get approached by these types of people all day long. The last thing you want to do is appear that you are attracted to them. It must always be casual. They want a man that is genuine and doesn't rely on his "possie" to gain confidence. You should focus on your own personal confidence and D.J. skills before you make some major wounds in your self esteem.

Wrong. It's quite alright to use wingmen as long as you know how to use them properly and they know what their doing. The one that's really interested in a chick goes in alone. Then, the wingmen come up and "block" for the guy. That is to say, the wingmen keep the other friends of the girl from causing her to leave or be a biatch to the guy. If a wingman is able to get a girl out of it, then that's great, but their primary objective is to keep the path clear for you. It's almost like a divide and conquer technique.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Sax God
Get new wingmen. If you're with a group of guys who are too scared to approach girls, then you're going to have a problem approaching the group.

Just get them to go along with you. Tell them that youll do all the talking. Or just do it yourself then when you come back brag about to so theyll wanna do it sometime.

 

[runna4]

oreo ...

oreo_renegade dude that was a funny ass story. haha

 

[bcdefxyz2000]

a group of girls is just as easy as a girl by herself. All you have to do is go up to them and say hi.. thats easy!..I think it is easier to aproach more of the group of girls than a single person in the group. once you start to get aquainted the nyou can zero on the girl you want.

As for the wingmen... i say no way in hell. that is for me. most of the guys i know would just try to make me look bad. but going by yourself makes you look so much more confident and it also builds your confidence even higher.

 

[Alchemyst]

Wingmen are kinda like cars, you might wanna get test drive before putting them to work. 95% of my friends are AFC'S, (because i'm too smart to tell them about this site) and yeah, most of them will make me look stupid either intentionally or otherwise but this isn't always the case. Don't take this the wrong way, but the guys must have chemistry and be able to work as a team and settle problems on the fly in a suave manner. If you seem to not be able to put a group together like this, then you probably don't need wingmen. Just remember, test-drive first

 

[Sax God]

Often, if I'm out with a group of guys, the will funtion as wingmen and not even know it. I go over an start talking with a group of girls, and it never fails, one by one, the rest of the group starts coming over. I don't usually like to have wingmen, but sometimes, they can help. Just do what you need to do. If a flying ace's wingmen aren't doing their jobs, often the ace ends up flying solo.