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Demon Wolf

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I see females in class that I want to approach, but since class is a bad time for an approach since I have to copy down the material I want to approach after class.

The problem is that I feel stalkerish if I know that I will have to follow her and don't approach as a result. Any advice?

I think that I should come to class later and wait and see where she sits down and go sit next to her and make an approach which I think is the better thing to do.
 

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Yeah....if you sit near her, it shouldn't be too hard.

Or, get there early and talk to her before class.
 

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Dude, say, "Hello". lol When you give a sh1t, they give a sh1t. Just say something. I always get people excited to talk to me because I talk about them. Once they realize I have no other intentions other than shooting the sh1t, they want to know more about me. I could care less if they like me or not because I'm not bringing anything out of it. I already know I'm wonderful, and I'm doing them a favor by letting them talk to me. You is da man. Stop making them so much better than you, dude. Stop the fear!
 

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Demon Wolf said:
I see females in class that I want to approach, but since class is a bad time for an approach since I have to copy down the material I want to approach after class.

The problem is that I feel stalkerish if I know that I will have to follow her and don't approach as a result. Any advice?

I think that I should come to class later and wait and see where she sits down and go sit next to her and make an approach which I think is the better thing to do.
I agree with what the other posters said. U should go try to sit next to her. If she doesn't seem that responsive(Girls tend to be shy now and then)...keep on talking...then she'll realize that ur just a friendly guy and open up. Also, if its after class..when she's on her way out, say "Stop for a second" with a smile. She'll be curious. I S HIT YOU NOT!!!! Then you can start talking and walking with her. :) Its worth a try.

Also you can be afraid, but u'll feel much better after u do it. By no means, def don't feel stalkerish if ur about to approach her. Good luck Demon Wolf.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
I agree with what the other posters said. U should go try to sit next to her. If she doesn't seem that responsive(Girls tend to be shy now and then)...keep on talking...then she'll realize that ur just a friendly guy and open up. Also, if its after class..when she's on her way out, say "Stop for a second" with a smile. She'll be curious. I S HIT YOU NOT!!!! Then you can start talking and walking with her. :) Its worth a try.

Also you can be afraid, but u'll feel much better after u do it. By no means, def don't feel stalkerish if ur about to approach her. Good luck Demon Wolf.
Haha I definitely gotta try that one :)
 

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Believe me man...u'll be shocked at how well it'll work ;-)
 

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I sat down next to a girl and talked to her for a few minutes. I made a few jokes about the AC being too cold and how messed up the auditorium was and she liked it. When I said goodbye I got sustained direct eye cotnact from her so I think I did good.
 

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yeah, not a bad start. Now just work on your grammar ;)

lol but seriously, make sure you follow up with her. Some C&F, make her laugh some more, initiate kino, and you're good to go.
 

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Demon Wolf said:
I sat down next to a girl and talked to her for a few minutes. I made a few jokes about the AC being too cold and how messed up the auditorium was and she liked it. When I said goodbye I got sustained direct eye cotnact from her so I think I did good.
Three Words: You Did right. :up:
 

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I'm like havin the same problem, just theres some chick thats hot, no one sits with her and hasn't all semester, and same with me. Do you guys think she'll thinks it weird if I sit by her one day and start talkin to her? Because I haven't yet, and it's not because I was scared too, it was just that I had a gf so I never thought much of it.
 

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stoner1129 said:
I'm like havin the same problem, just theres some chick thats hot, no one sits with her and hasn't all semester, and same with me. Do you guys think she'll thinks it weird if I sit by her one day and start talkin to her? Because I haven't yet, and it's not because I was scared too, it was just that I had a gf so I never thought much of it.
might be abit creepy.. why don't you ask her something after class then sit by her after she knows who you are.
 
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