Approaches report!!

Lock1

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Ok people
I started with my approaches some months ago, i wonder if any of you remember me? Well, if not I was a guy who couldn't approach one girl, but one day, I finally gained the courage so I did it.
I made a report of my first approaches and some of you guys gave me good advice, I was the guy who didn't do approaches at clubs cause i prefer the subway and street approaches.
I was the one who only said "are you single?" to girls
Well, some time have passed since then, and I have read a recently a little about Mystery, ****y & funny and other techniques, so I have changed my tactics. I have done I think 50 approaches maybe? but I couldn't get results only fake phones... and some e-mails, but that's boring... Here are some approaches i have done recently.

(at the subway) hot girl is giving me eye contact im at the door, there are few people so i decide to go speak to her:
Me: what? you would look at me but you aren't going to say hello or something?
Her: what?
Me: what's your name?
Her: xxxxx why?
Me: aha... well i gotta go, do you have e-mail?
Her: hey, I don't even know you!
Me: uhh... okay, nice to meet you.
Me: (give her my back) (preparing to get off)
Her: wait!
Me: what?
Her: uh... are you... (some guys name)
Me: (oh, man i could have said 1000 things but i said) No.
Her: uh...
Me: so, you changed your mind?
Her: no...
ME: Okay, bye bye!




(at the subway) (the girl seems very tired, with her eyes closed)
Me: hey, are you friendly?
Her: No... I'm sorry
Me: What? Really? I don't think so...

(at the subway again) (the girl is hot, huge boobs, some guys are eyeing her shameless but are old ones or don't have the courage to approach, i don't know)
Me: hey, are you friendly?
Her: why? (smiling)
Me: well, you have a nice smile, I really think so.
Her: I'm sorry, i want to read this.
Me: Oh, what... Ok. Nice to meet you
(could i have said something else? maybe... "but i will tell you, Im more interesting than your magazine" or something?)


(subway...again) (two girls are chatting i interrupt them)
Me: Hey can I ask you a quick question?
Her: What?
Me: Are you single?
Her: (says nothing, puts a funny face) (I know this isn't good but i insist)
Me: I would take that as a yes?
Her: I won't answer you
Me: Uh... Oookaaayy
Me: (To her friend) Oh, man, Is she always like this?
Her friend: Uh... uh...

(walking at the street, a group of girls coming from opposite (but this time finally decide to use some tactics)

I saw the first girl of the group, some college girls so i decide to stop her)
Me: hey, can i ask you a quick question?
Her: Yeah?
Me: You know, I'm lost and i don't know , if i continue this way ... well i want to go to xxxx place.
Her: Uh... well you can continue but is far from here...
Me: Really? how far? like 10 min?
Her: No, more like 30 min.
Me: oh, man..
Some friend of hers: Hey, but you better take the bus
Me: You think so? but... where?
Her friend: well you can come with us...if you want
Me: Ummm... okay
(we walk a bit, the girls start to chat without me i think oh man, i don't want to be a loser man, i have to do something)
Me: (to the girl who said come with us) Hey, so you started so early?
Her: Yes... heee.hee... but we started two weeks ago
Me: Oh, man, you didn't have vacations?
Her: we started xxxx but we did have vacations
Me: Well at least you probably got your vacations tooearly...
Her: No, ...(some **** i forgot)
Me: at the bus stop) Ok. thank you very much. you are cool, tell me, do you have e-mail?
Her: uhh... well, yes,
Me: write it here: (her friends go... so she is alone with me for a moment but i thibk she is going to catch them)
Her: (wrties it) Idon't check the e-mail often
Me: well... write your cell phone too...
Her: writes it
Me: and your name is...?
Her: xxxx and you?
Me: Okay, myname is Lock. nice to meet you
some funny moment, she gives me some funny looks i wonder what it was?

the problem: fake cell phone

(at the bus, girl in the seat in front of me)
Me: hey can i ask you a quick question?
Her: what?
Me: could you tell me if we are near xxxxplace?
Her: No, we are not near yet.
Me: what distance?
Her: xxxxxx distance.
Me: uh, ok... thanks you. Could you tell me when we are near?
her: ok
(Time later)
Her: hey, xxxplace is here
Me: thank you. I must go now i think?
Her: not yet. the bus goes over there you must wait until xxxxx
Me: ok.... well thank you! you are cool, what's your name?
Her: my name is xxxx
Me: well, xxx do you have e-mail?
Her: no, i don't have one.
Me: maybe cell phone?
Her: no...
Me: uh, okay. nice to meeet you! bye bye



at a club, well i did this one... I admit
i was with my friends and we come here and meet friends of my friends
there is a girl here, so i come and sit near her (my other AFC friends admired me for that, I think they don't know i can talk to girls and keep them interestd for a minute but my results are far from good ones)
Me: Hi.. you know, my friend wants to meet you..
Her: Oh, really?your friend?
Me: yeah... but he is a shy boy. well what's your name?
Her:xxxx and you?
Me: you know, some guy told me this thing earlier....
Me: Is a test want to try it?
Her: Okay.
Me: well think a number between 1 and 10... and that ****
Her: (guesses wrong, but is interested) (oh, and i bust her balls because she guessed wrong)
Her: hey, do it again! I will guess right!
Me: no... we will do a different thing... (so i proceed with the cube, I've learned recently.)
Her: blahblah
Me: First time someone said me that...
(some other ****)
Me: you are a strange girl...
Her: Really? why?
Me: are you from around here?
Her: no, I'm from....
Me: so, you are a xxxxxx girl? (some cold reads ala Tyler) (i don't remember what i said)
Her: no, really, I'm xxxxx
Me: (more cold reads) so what do you do xxxxgirl?
Her: (she tells me of herself)
Me: You are an interesting girl..
Me: do you have e-mail?
Her: yes...
Me: write it here:
Me: and your phone number
Her: okay....


I called her one time, with no response...
 

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I'm still a newb so I won't presume to advise you, but when someone posts a FR, they deserve recognition!

So, good job on approaching and good luck on your 50.
 

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I would skip the e-mail just ask for the number you dont want too much contact details seems abit desperate.
 

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Your approach suck... sorry bro...but you need to calibrate more...

Example.. Go into ****y, funny, rapport, funny, cokcy etc... or follow MM .

example, hope it helps

Assume shes standing at a subway, like you mention by the door go up to her and say

Open: A1

Me: " Do you always maintain strong eye contact " or " did you just give me a dirty look " or " Where is your manners, hasnt your mommy teach you not to check out a stranger " or " Let me ask you something (go into opinion opener)"

Hope that helps for opener.

A2: Male to Female.. In this , keep talking about stupid ****.

Me: do you always maintain strong eye contact
Her: No
Me: Well, I saw you and I was curious why you didnt flag me down and introduce your self
Her: my name is HBF
me: I cant tell you my name
Her: Why
Me: I dont know you well enough
Her: hehehe
Me: Let me ask you something... pick one
Me: Subway or Quiznos
Her: umm. Subway...
Me: What, your crazy...nothing beats good old toasty Quiznos.
Her: What you doing at subway.
Me: I am on atkins diet program
her... etc...

If she invest great ...keep talking etc.... key is isolation, and C1.

DUDE, IF you want to Bang a Chick...> ALL IN Comfort..

Dont do David D ****y Stuff All the time... or else you will come off fun and cool guy but no quick lays..


Use, ****y Funny in Opening and cut it, and neg and cut it and build rapport.


Hope it helps..

Oh bee in your own frame... Before you go out say this to your self and mean it.


" I am the ****, I love sex, and all girls want me for one thing, sex , sex, sex"
"I am going to have sex tonight only if she meets upto my requirement"
"If I dont get sex from a girl Ia m talking to , then I will go home and **** my wife" ( Just say, even if dont have one)...

"I can do whatever I want"
"If I get fear in my self, I will change it to how can I close"
"I will **** tonight"

" I DONT CARE WHAT SHE THINKS OF ME AND SHE WANTS ME SO BAD"


say that all the time, 3 times a day and watch your self change over night.

Hope that helps


Ben
 

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Hello there! It is good to see you are doing some moves to get better with women. The problem you seem to have is that you are either nervous or you don't have that much social skills. If you continue going this way you will need to make alot of approaches (hundreds) to learn how stuff works.

If I were you I'd try to widen your contact net a little more, take up some new things which you have wanted to do for a while and get to know people. See how people speak outside your group.

The stuff you say isn't worth **** that's why it's worthless to get premade scripts from people. It's WHO you are which matters. You need faith in yourself and the ablilites you have. When you talk the way you see yourself shine through. My convo isn't anywhere near the gurus here but I am sure in myself and women sense this so I can almost say anything and they will laugh at it.

I know you don't want to hear this but if you want success with women you need to put work into it. You need to know how you are or discover this, what you want in the girl you seek and most of all, be confident. Unless you know this you can say "am the ****, I love sex, and all girls want me for one thing, sex , sex, sex" all you want but you won't believe it.
 
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