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Approach women is a topic that guys generally don't like talking about, because they think it "every men should know how to do it", and so that shouldn't be discussed.
But actually, to most guys, approaching women isn't that easy and natural: they face fear of approach, approach anxiety and fear of rejection.
Having studied and learned myself how to be successful on that, Ill show you some interesting approach women tips:
First of all: Approaching women is normal. Period. You aren't molesting them or doing anything bad. It's just what guys should do. It's estimated that beautiful women get approached like 10 times each day. 300 times a month!
So it's time for you to face it and assume you're talking to them for a reason. There's no need to feel embarrassed. Everybody does it.
Another common problem is that guys fear rejection. Let me tell you this: in all my years of testing pickup stuff, I NEVER received words meaner than "no" or "I have a boyfriend". They won't go and say "Get out of here you ****ing loser" or things like that. And people around you aren't going to laugh at you. Remember: It's normal, everybody does it. You just have to have this mentality: No response that this woman gives me is gonna change who I am.
You are now probably thinking: Alright, everybody does it, but how, exactly, do I approach women successfully? Well… You should really try to stand out of the crowd and be more creative than every other guy who approached her that day. How do you do it? ****y funny, taught by David Deangelo, is my favorite technique. It basically comunicates that you are secure of yourself and that you are used to approaching women, so you are not like all the other losers who came of with lines like "sup hottie".
Some example of ****y+funny style:
You: Tonight is your lucky night
Her: Oh really? Why is that?
You: Because you finally got to go out with me
Her: Sure! <if you said it right, she's going to be smiling by now!>
You: But no touching - *I* do all the touching!
Maybe you are thinking: Cmon, with real women that would never work, she would probably slap you. Actually, its the opposite: Women love to be teased, and that's what it communicates: You are a confident man who is very comfortable with yourself and can make her laugh.
Discuss!
But actually, to most guys, approaching women isn't that easy and natural: they face fear of approach, approach anxiety and fear of rejection.
Having studied and learned myself how to be successful on that, Ill show you some interesting approach women tips:
First of all: Approaching women is normal. Period. You aren't molesting them or doing anything bad. It's just what guys should do. It's estimated that beautiful women get approached like 10 times each day. 300 times a month!
So it's time for you to face it and assume you're talking to them for a reason. There's no need to feel embarrassed. Everybody does it.
Another common problem is that guys fear rejection. Let me tell you this: in all my years of testing pickup stuff, I NEVER received words meaner than "no" or "I have a boyfriend". They won't go and say "Get out of here you ****ing loser" or things like that. And people around you aren't going to laugh at you. Remember: It's normal, everybody does it. You just have to have this mentality: No response that this woman gives me is gonna change who I am.
You are now probably thinking: Alright, everybody does it, but how, exactly, do I approach women successfully? Well… You should really try to stand out of the crowd and be more creative than every other guy who approached her that day. How do you do it? ****y funny, taught by David Deangelo, is my favorite technique. It basically comunicates that you are secure of yourself and that you are used to approaching women, so you are not like all the other losers who came of with lines like "sup hottie".
Some example of ****y+funny style:
You: Tonight is your lucky night
Her: Oh really? Why is that?
You: Because you finally got to go out with me
Her: Sure! <if you said it right, she's going to be smiling by now!>
You: But no touching - *I* do all the touching!
Maybe you are thinking: Cmon, with real women that would never work, she would probably slap you. Actually, its the opposite: Women love to be teased, and that's what it communicates: You are a confident man who is very comfortable with yourself and can make her laugh.
Discuss!
