Approach competition - who can do the most approaches?

[Luke Skywalker]

In the spirit of competition I would like to challenge Jayer and GamePlan to see who can do the most approaches by the end of September.

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An approach shall be defined as actually meeting a hb6 or higher anywhere - whether or not it goes somewhere. (Thus you dont need to have a successful number/name close or date - you just have to go up to someone and talk with them to put an entry)

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I challenge everyone on here who wants to be part of this competition to see who can make the most approaches - update your approach journals on this thread.

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As of May 29/07

Luke Skywalker Jayer Gameplan




Each day this post's score-board will be edited as I read the approach journals and see who has made appoaches from May 29th onwards to the end of September. (I'm updating this thread weekly)

 

[Ll Principe]

Mate, Id love to join in on this "competition" for confidence purposes only. However, I dont live in USA so it would be difficult to track my field progress and therefore impossible for me to join in.

One thing though from a neutral point of view, lets say I were living in USA , classify an HB 6... an HB 6 to me may NOT be an HB 6 to you

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Mate, Id love to join in on this "competition" for confidence purposes only. However, I dont live in USA so it would be difficult to track my field progress and therefore impossible for me to join in.

One thing though from a neutral point of view, lets say I were living in USA , classify an HB 6... an HB 6 to me may NOT be an HB 6 to you

Heck, join in the competition anyway - it's open to everyone. I'm not living in the USA either, I'm Canadian.

An HB6+ is personal. Generally, any girl that gets your adreneline going is an HB9+ to you. Any girl that you say, oh yeah baby, is an hb7+. Any girl that you say - now this is a pretty girl I'd like to talk to - although may not look sexy is an HB6+ -- just joking - seriously - it's whatever you make of it.

If you are not attracted to the girl - then it's less than an hb6 - hows that - approach whoever you are attracted to.

 

[Ll Principe]

No no, but you setting rules that it has to HB 6 and above, so what if 5 people think she is HB 6 and 5 people think HB3 , than what? How do I know if Im playing fair or not?

This competition is very skewed, I think you should adjust it and think of a strategically viable competition that wont result in issues such as these... Or maybe Im just over-contemplating? How serious you taking this? Cos' if you are, surely you'd want it to be DONE PROPERLY hence, I may think an overweight girl is an HB6 to me, but to you she could be a 3... Do you get my drift?

How about changing the competition to approaching anyone that YOU see fit as HB6 and state that if you want to cheat, go ahead, you only cheating yourself...

 

[Luke Skywalker]

How about changing the competition to approaching anyone that YOU see fit as HB6 and state that if you want to cheat, go ahead, you only cheating yourself...

That's what I said, maybe you misunderstood my original post. In terms of cheating - yeah, people are cheating themselves if they aren't honest - the point of this is to motivate people to make real approaches and not care about it.

Anyway, I update my thread and this one here on a weekly basis. I'm looking at all the approach journals and lets see if this inspires people, including myself, to really see who can win this race.

 

[lebRambo]

This thread is dumb. If you are approaching just for the sake of some harebrained competition you are already a chump.

Approach because YOU want to. Not because some dude named Luke Skywalker is egging you on.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

This thread is dumb. If you are approaching just for the sake of some harebrained competition you are already a chump.

Approach because YOU want to. Not because some dude named Luke Skywalker is egging you on.

You are crying sour grapes that you didn't think of the idea first.

Competition drives the testosterone - heck, after making this thread, I did an approach today in my car after struggling the whole day to make one single approach. Now, I'm really going to make some hot approaches. That's right -- I stopped a girl and asked her for directions and then sped off.

That's ONE APPROACH for me. And if felt fantastic. There is nothing like a good approach to boost up that confidence - it's a confidence booster when you approach a hot sexy chick on the road and she comes towards the window of your car. You want to do more approaches, which is exactly what I'm going to do.

Now, there are other more riskier approaches on the road, such as stopping a girl for directions when you have to go across the street to make a left turn - I didn't do it - but if I did - heck that would have really pumped the testosterone and adrelenine together --- I tell you approaching is an adventure --- you look for that chick, and you tag her, and you approach her and then jet.....fant-fvcking-tastic!!!

There were a bunch of girls to the left -- I should have waved at them, but were too shy to do so, like three girls sitting on the steps of a roman catholic church --- darn!!! have to try again next time.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Dude, Luke, I will challenge you! You and maybe Jayer. You were both on my ignore list until now, just for being pathetic. No offense though, I'm sure I'm on plenty of ignore lists myself. I just have been going downhill with no hope of going up any time soon.

I think I have hit rock bottom, and you are the only person I think who is as low as myself, so I would like to challenge you to an approach duel.

Approaches IN your car don't count. But anyway, I'm going to kick your ass. I like some competition. I haven't done 1 approach since I don't even remember when. But I think this is a good step in the right direction in helping me do some.

 

[COD]

OK.......who really cares how many chics you approach. It's quality not quantity. After 50 approaches they all start to blend into one continual chic..........its like whats your first name......PFFT LIKE IT MATTERS.

Burning through your approaches with no tangible results is practice at best. You are not perfecting your technique, you are just wasting time. PERFECT PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT........anyone can approach a 1000 chics.

The same goes for accumulating a million phone numbers..........wow U got a bazillion numbers.......how many of them actually panned out for a second date. Save your time.......pick up a phone book start calling numbers at random...........odds are a women will answer 50-70% of the time. So now you got everyones phone number..........does that equate a success,,,,,,,HELL NO. Get em naked, take their picture....then move on. Some chics take a little more work to seduce than others.......burning through a 1000 chics is not be all and end all. When is practice done.......you need to move beyond this approch level and instruct, teach, write a book, find a GF/WIFE, make a million bucks, etc.

 

[~attrACTION~]

OK.......who really cares how many chics you approach. It's quality not quantity. After 50 approaches they all start to blend into one continual chic..........its like whats your first name......PFFT LIKE IT MATTERS.

Burning through your approaches with no tangible results is practice at best. You are not perfecting your technique, you are just wasting time. PERFECT PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT........anyone can approach a 1000 chics.

The same goes for accumulating a million phone numbers..........wow U got a bazillion numbers.......how many of them actually panned out for a second date. Save your time.......pick up a phone book start calling numbers at random...........odds are a women will answer 50-70% of the time. So now you got everyones phone number..........does that equate a success,,,,,,,HELL NO. Get em naked, take their picture....then move on. Some chics take a little more work to seduce than others.......burning through a 1000 chics is not be all and end all. When is practice done.......you need to move beyond this approch level and instruct, teach, write a book, find a GF/WIFE, make a million bucks, etc.

Yeah, that makes sense when you're not hesitant or afraid to approach. I'm just scared sh*tless about approaching lately. For me it's about getting over my fear - and I really need to remind myself that.

Anyway, I went to the bookstore today and I know this isn't an approach but I talked to the cashier by just asking her a question about the mugs behind the counter. I know, wow, I'm that pathetic that something that miniscule is progress. I'm going to copy this into the thread I made a while ago.

 

[afc_2_dj]

An approach shall be defined as actually meeting a hb6 or higher anywhere - whether or not it goes somewhere. .... .... That's right -- I stopped a girl and asked her for directions and then sped off.

The problem with this in terms of your competition is that what stops me from visiting 50 coffee shops and ordering a coffee from a semi-attractive waitress to count as approachs.

Maybe a better competition, especially in light of that it is meant to drive guys to approach more, is to rather say "approach with intent a women you find attractive and if successful would take home and bang"

I say this becuase interacting with women in normal course of life is not typically difficult, but as soon as one is attracted to a women and wants to approach with an intent for a date its a completely different thing.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

OK.......who really cares how many chics you approach. It's quality not quantity. After 50 approaches they all start to blend into one continual chic..........its like whats your first name......PFFT LIKE IT MATTERS.

It really burns when you see that one special girl that you want to approach and just dont end up doing it. Enough said on here about that. Of course, if you make enough approaches, as you said, then when you meet that one special girl you want to approach, she may just blend into that one continual chick and maby at that point you will not see it as a big deal - which is exactly the point of this.

This should be something as second nature and if you can see one continual chick then that would certainly help.

Burning through your approaches with no tangible results is practice at best. You are not perfecting your technique, you are just wasting time. PERFECT PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT........anyone can approach a 1000 chics.

You cant have a technique if there are impediments such as fears, worrying about approaching and all that. These really have to be dealt with first and buried. Once it's second nature to approach, then techniques can become 1000 times effective to go where you want. If it's still a problem approaching, then the best techiques in the world wont make much of a difference (unless it helps overcome the fundamental issue of approaching).

As far as anyone approaching 1000 chicks - have you approached that many chicks? You think that's easy? Look at Jayer's thread - he wanted to approach 100 girls, and in 2 years he's only approached 18. Read other approach journals on here - such as GamePlan and those of other posters, and you can see that it's not an 'anyone can approach 1000 chicks' that's too simple.

Hey, post a link on here of anyone who has successfully made 1000 approaches and wrote about it.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

The problem with this in terms of your competition is that what stops me from visiting 50 coffee shops and ordering a coffee from a semi-attractive waitress to count as approachs.

Ordering a coffee is not an approach. Talking to the girl while ordering and making some remark to convey interest or even a lame attempt to start a convo about the weather is more like an approach since you are trying to communicating interest.

 

[flows101]

I am a REAL Don Juan

HAHAHA i already see the K.J's staying FARRRRRRRR AWAY from this thread HAHA.

Luke Skywalker.... am goner participate in this competition because i KNOW am goner WIN how..... becuse 95% of the guys on this forum dont actually PLAY THE "REAL" GAME.

Will post up my approachs everyday till this competition ends.

P.S. PLEASE dont let this thread turn into a massive flame war just to please the K.J's on this forum.

 

[Scought]

I am a competitor by nature, but c'mon, do you really think people are going to be honest in this?

Last night I approached 23 women.

I'm pretty good, huh?

 

[Charm]

Competition starts now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May the best approacher win!

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I am a competitor by nature, but c'mon, do you really think people are going to be honest in this?

Last night I approached 23 women.

I'm pretty good, huh?

Not good enough - need a field report on each approach and what happened. Dont think people post fictional field reports on here.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Will post up my approachs everyday till this competition ends.

Good idea. So will I.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

3 APPROACHES OCCURRED TODAY SO FAR AS FOLLOWS:

1) Flirting with my secretary at my office - I told her she had a nice dress on.
Her: She said it's not a dress, it's a skirt, a gypsy skirt.
Me: A what? I've never heard of a gypsy skirt before. Did you make up that name?
Her: Yes. Where I come from people wear these types of skirts.
Me: Oh really, in Portugal you mean?
Her: Yes.
Me: Did you get it from here?
Her: I got it when I was camping.
Me: Where did you camp?
Her?: In Silvio.
Me: Where is Silvio?
Her: Near Wasage beach.

Very nervous, made false ejects about twice fearing I was bothering her - I was saying -- "Ok, got to go and deal with some clients, see you later", but she would not reply back.

I later asked her how she was progressing with the boxes, and she told me about how other secretaries are too lazy to do this work and she was doing. Before leaving, I asked if she was finished, and she said almost. I said I'm going to go to see clients, and just left afterwards.

APPROACH # 2:

My Broker invited me for a free ride with an attractive hot girl down the elevator who was a new agent.
Broker: Luke, Meet xyz,
Me: Hi, Shook her hand. She shook it back.
She: Hi.
Broker: Talked to me if I was working today - I said yes, sure I'm going off to meet clients (but it was a lie, I slacked off all day watching Doctor Who on You-Tube and went to the office later to do a patch up job and the clients I was seeing was concerning termination of a listing).


APPROACH #3:

After leaving a home, I saw a girl walking and said 'HI' to her as she passed by, she said "hi" back.

Saw some hot sexy girls that I was thinking of stopping to ask for bogus directions -- but someone objected to those counting as approaches - and I'm not sure how I'm going to close someone if I'm in my car, unless I'm inviting them inside for a life - but it's seems risky to ask a girl if she wants a ride.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

This is a cool thread. I have one suggestion.

Instead of who can do the most approaches why not who can do the most CLOSES?

I think it would reap more benefits. Do NOT eject yourself until you have closed.

~Shazam~

Too advanced....just going on first gear for now, which is approaches and getting comfortable with them to those who are having anxiety issues approaching girls.

This is for people who are just too shy to approach a sexy stranger on the street, or even flirt and make basic flirtatious comments or convey sexual interest.