Ok, so i have done wrong...
was down the casino, a needed to go meet this girl in a club... was a little late (maybe 30mins).
She said she was staying till 2am, when i got there about 11pm she said she had an argument with her friend and was leaving. now, i just paid £10 to get in this place and wanted to stay for a drink, she said no. luckily i saw a friend, and told her i will stay and she can go. she asked me to walk her home and i refused, because i wanted to stay.
at this point i thought she would change her mind and stay with me, but she didnt. i mouthed the work '*****' to my friend and she caught a glimpse out the corner of her eye (doh!!)
she left.
i got a little drunk and chatted to some people and left for home a short time after, i was to say the least very angry. i know its a ridiculous reason but she was totally unreasonable and ended up leaving spiteful message.
Something along the lines of "hello lauren, its joe... you must think i'm a mug to walk out like that, why would i drop everything just so you can get your own way? i know your friends a ****, but im not an outlet or a shouder to cry on... but i dont suppose that ****ing matters to you." *HANGS UP*
ok, so hands up, i done wrong. i also realise my reaction was totally AFC! i should have just said "ok safe journey home, ill stick to the plans and have some fun.. talk to you soon" anyway, i further apologised and blamed it on losing cash down casino and drinking heavily.
when i called she didnt answer (i dont blame her!) so i left an answerphone message... along the lines of "im sorry about my reaction last night, i overreacted, you didnt desearve that. anyway i hope we can get passed it, talk to you soon" she sent me a message back about 2 mins after, it read it was all fine, and she was sorry about ruining my night.
end of story, but what i want to know is where i went wrong, ive never apologised before die to a very stubborn nature. ha, yep... i know. but i knew i couldnt be her lapdog and leave when she says and walk her home when she clicks her fingers.. so i couldnt see any other way round it.
thanks guys, Joe.
was down the casino, a needed to go meet this girl in a club... was a little late (maybe 30mins).
She said she was staying till 2am, when i got there about 11pm she said she had an argument with her friend and was leaving. now, i just paid £10 to get in this place and wanted to stay for a drink, she said no. luckily i saw a friend, and told her i will stay and she can go. she asked me to walk her home and i refused, because i wanted to stay.
at this point i thought she would change her mind and stay with me, but she didnt. i mouthed the work '*****' to my friend and she caught a glimpse out the corner of her eye (doh!!)
she left.
i got a little drunk and chatted to some people and left for home a short time after, i was to say the least very angry. i know its a ridiculous reason but she was totally unreasonable and ended up leaving spiteful message.
Something along the lines of "hello lauren, its joe... you must think i'm a mug to walk out like that, why would i drop everything just so you can get your own way? i know your friends a ****, but im not an outlet or a shouder to cry on... but i dont suppose that ****ing matters to you." *HANGS UP*
ok, so hands up, i done wrong. i also realise my reaction was totally AFC! i should have just said "ok safe journey home, ill stick to the plans and have some fun.. talk to you soon" anyway, i further apologised and blamed it on losing cash down casino and drinking heavily.
when i called she didnt answer (i dont blame her!) so i left an answerphone message... along the lines of "im sorry about my reaction last night, i overreacted, you didnt desearve that. anyway i hope we can get passed it, talk to you soon" she sent me a message back about 2 mins after, it read it was all fine, and she was sorry about ruining my night.
end of story, but what i want to know is where i went wrong, ive never apologised before die to a very stubborn nature. ha, yep... i know. but i knew i couldnt be her lapdog and leave when she says and walk her home when she clicks her fingers.. so i couldnt see any other way round it.
thanks guys, Joe.