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Today after school I went over to the chick I k-closed in school the other day(for those following the journal,you'll remember her),and we were kissing and stuff in her bathroom.(her friend and dad was in the house)
I was undressing her when her dad came in,but he didn't see me.I got out and went home.Will defnitley be going to her house again! ;)
 

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Dear diary,
Yesterday was a chill day, but why does LMR exist??(Need to learn a few LMR routines!!)

I went to the gym with my buddy,and was doing pulling movements.Really feel it today.(Bulking.I'm eating six times a day.(in which 3 are big meals),and I'm on creatine and protein shake,only on training days)
After that I shot the chick from my previous post a text and she said she's home alone.We went over and we started getting into it,(my friend keeping watch somewhere for her dad lol)I was kissing her neck,nipples,and she didn't want me to take off her pants or put my hand in them.(FVCK!!)I eventually just pulled off my pants and said she should just handjob or BJ me,in which she replied gross.(Fvcking virgins!) I just stood up pulled up my pants,put on her bra and left.After that she texts me she'll fvck me.(Too late now *****!)
Went back to my friends home and we are also home alone.Dude next door has my MJ pipe,so I go and fetch it,and he gives me a bit of weed.Quickly smoke and go back to my friend.We finish up and go and fetch 2 chicks at a park nearby.One chicky was *****y and said something about me being gay.I laughed it off and replied "well,if I wasn't gay,You'd be soooo mine!". Hilarious lol.She looked me straight in the eyes and smiled. The other chick was my friend's "crush".She's a party gal and he has no game at all.Back at his house he barely said a thing,while I was working both of them.I was ****y/funny. They were laughing the whole time, and crazy eye contact with both! :)
I went home while they were still there,but I could read their interest levels.I was doing good,but they were practice,they aren't really my type.
Later my friend texts me they said I was weird..Now diary,what do I make of this??

Overall a chill day,and I'm quitting the bootcamp as personal family reasons has gotten in the way.(Norwegian,sign me out pls,Sorry)
Happy with my game:)

Apoco
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
Man, make moves.

LMR is easy man. Just show her your abs and scream compliments at her.
I'll still be doing cold approaches and practicing my game, but I don't have the time for a 8 week bootcamp,period. I'm looking at stylelife's 30 day challenge.;)

And I was telling her everything she would have wanted to know, thinking back now,I should just have taken out my phone and started FB'ing or something.Mystery method style.

And I just wanted to let you guys know that my style of game is basicly MM nowadays. I'm learning SS now to incorperate the two.Loving it :)

And why is everyone so into HPRJ or whatever journal?
 

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It's just BPH that is reading it at the moment on my recommendation. It's a good blueprint for college game.

You should've done a freeze out and stayed in the house, instead of leaving, like you did. I don't get girls in that sense either. Fvcking weird.
 

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Just had a text convo with HB-walk.

Me:HBwalk,I'm not gonna ask you to come and visit again.I have asked you too much.If you don't wanna tell me.
Her:Listen,I'm busy this whole day with netball and my music lessons.So don't come and **** me out.
Me:I'm saying, I'm going away this weekend and I wanna c u before I go.
Her:Sorry I didn't mean that.I'm in a bad mood,and took it out on you,Sorry.You probably hate me now...
Me:I don't hate anyone,I'm not that type of person.Either I have feelings for someone,or I don't.Choose what catagory you wanna be in.Let me know if you want to come over.
Me(later):Okay cool,see you one day.

WTF? Anybody make sense of this chick?
 

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apocolipto said:
I'll still be doing cold approaches and practicing my game, but I don't have the time for a 8 week bootcamp,period. I'm looking at stylelife's 30 day challenge.;)

And I was telling her everything she would have wanted to know, thinking back now,I should just have taken out my phone and started FB'ing or something.Mystery method style.

And I just wanted to let you guys know that my style of game is basicly MM nowadays. I'm learning SS now to incorperate the two.Loving it :)

And why is everyone so into HPRJ or whatever journal?
MM is gay and sucks major donkey anus. SS is just as bad.
 

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DanZy said:
MM is gay and sucks major donkey anus. SS is just as bad.
I'm glad. That's why all the approaches I do with MM are successful? And all the chicks I'm "busy" with,that I used MM to meet, I'm also enjoying a nice success rate? Sorry, but MM isn't so bad as you say.
Thing is, don't just rely on that.I use MM to approach and get interest, close etc. When I meet them again,I'm only "me",and direct,and naturally ****y/funny.I don't rely on one "system" and alot of the time I'm just naturaly me,but my game is based mainly on it.
SS I can't comment on...YET.Gonna go over some patterning,and try it out this vacation.Will let you in on what happened there.

PS: this is my opinions, not saying anybody else is wrong.But this is my belief.

Apoco
 

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Okay,I see that you could have a point, but "other stuff"...Like?
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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apocolipto said:
She's a party gal and he has no game at all.Back at his house he barely said a thing,while I was working both of them.I was ****y/funny. They were laughing the whole time, and crazy eye contact with both! :)
I went home while they were still there,but I could read their interest levels.I was doing good,but they were practice,they aren't really my type.
Later my friend texts me they said I was weird..
Sounds like you're trying very hard to impress. Even if you're doing everything right, if you're trying harder than everyone else, you appear to have lower value. Relax and let people qualify themselves to YOU.
 

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@NDJ, all the chicks in this journal was basicly met using MM basics.The chick with LMR, HBwalk, the two gals which learning quoted etc.How can that not be any chicks?

@Learning, thanks. But,those gals were for pure enjoyment and fun actually.(A 6 and 7) But good tip.
 

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Hi guys, sorry for not posting this whole time, but I was away and no internet access. I was on a farm for a week,farming.No chance at gaming. Then to JHB,where our car broke down and mostly sat at home for the rest of the vacation. Though, I did do 5 direct approaches during the time(I know it sucks,but it's better than none.And I couldn't help the situation.)Where one girl didn't hook.(She was working and kept trying to sell me a massage.And I did cold reading on her,but missed.My intuition will improve.) The rest went great, and I'm satisfied.

Tomorrow I'm starting a real bulk, and I'll be consuming roughly 3500 calories this month, and next month about 4500 cals. By then I'll see how I progressed,and start cutting.(Gained 3 kilo's this vacation.and I look great!)

Tomorrow I'm starting a "bootcamp" of sorts I set up for myself, which will last 4-6 weeks.Approaching and opening sets isn't a problem, and I can see when to be direct or not.(Her body language,actions etc. help me determine this.) Now I'm going mainly for the "social hook point", and attraction.My goal isn't focused on getting a gf/****buddy anymore.But creating a lifestyle where I have alot of high quality chicks and dudes around me.I want to have a harem of chicks that's attracted to me.I've always dreamed of that.

On a side note:I haven't been smoking anything for the past 4 weeks more or less, and I feel like a new person.Thanks for the motivation NDJ. :)

I'll keep you guys informed.
Also,Wish me luck on my bulk guys,hah.

Apoco
 

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Hi guys! Well update time.Things haven't gone as planned,the "bootcamp" didn't commence as I'm basicly going into a LTR. I'm using my skills to get her and tomorrow I'm going for the k-close,and going exclusive.The skills I've picked up has really helped me.And she's awesome,so I'm happy,for now.

Bodybuilding wise,I've really increased in strength.I also gained 4 kilos since starting my bulk(4 weeks more or less,and dirty bulking).I may get a cycle of anabols(steroids) to really bulk up,as I have a contact now.My goal is to compete in lightweight division in the future.

I'm focusing more on my bodybuilding and studies at the moment,rather than going out for approaching a ****load.

Apoco
 

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Hey guys.
Well my bulk has been going superb.As far as I know I'm now on 77kg.. Three kilo's from my 80kg goal! Though since I've reached that I'm reaching for 85.(in a months time,seems possible.I seem to add weight like it's nothing!)

There's this new chick in my class.About the third day she was there, I got a chance to really talk with her.(I'm not into her social circle,and chances are she is already picked up by a rugby player...Anyway)She was very receptive and keeps EC.Will see where it goes.And the possible LTR I was talking 'bout.I don't know if it's what I want.(Only way to get in her pants)

Other than that,I'm still following MM's M3 model.Just not with canned material.Using principles of each phase,and creating own material.I guess that makes it natural.

Have an AWESOME day DJ's :)

Apoco
 
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One of these days is my 16th guys.I need some ideas of what I can do for my 16th,which must obviously be fun so I can attract chicks,and no booze as my dad is helping set-up(Bummer). And I'll be throwing a party at my house(bring and braai.Roasting meat on a braai.Lol hope u guys know what a braai is??)
So I need a few song suggestions to put up a nice playlist.Help guys.

Other than that the "bootcamp" I'm setting up for myself is commencing today.It's to get more ppl in my social circle.Can't wait for the challenge.(Yes it's challenging approaching a group of girls =/)

BB wise,I'm on 77kg.Need to bulk up fast, but don't have money.So I might get a job(waiting for answer from owner),but ideas how to make money? I have tried mowing the lawns but it's boring.

Apoco
 

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Well guys, still getting stronger by the day,,Getting my anabolic cycle soon, and then working harder.Going to compete(bodybuilding) soon, but first have to bulk(With the cycle) and then cut.

Got a few sweet chicks coming to my 16th,so awesome!

Then,I did something I have wanted to do for a while. I created my own rugby team.Still drafting players but seems like a good team,and got a coach. And,yes,I'll most likely be voted as captain :) (Playing at lock)

Cheers guys.
 

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Dude don't go on a cycle of roids, you're only going to **** yourself up. You're really being stupid here. Do you really think steroids in this country are going to be of any decent quality? I thought you couldn't afford to bulk up, how can you afford roids? You're doing a dirty bulk? I'm sure so much of the mass you've put on is muscle, if you're going to eat like **** your results will be ****.
 
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