Anyway to still maintain frame here?

Mazer

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Went out on a first date with a woman two weeks ago. Great date and ended the night making out in the parking lot and her rubbing up on my ****, probably blew it by not banging her that night. Anyway, I always wait for women to contact me after the 1st date.

A woman who has high interest will 9 out of 10 times contact me first. This woman did not so I ended up reaching out to her three days later asking her if she wanted to get together in a few days, she said work was really busy this week, she is a doctor but told me that next week is open. I told her I was going to be out of town for a few days and would reach out to her when I return. I texted her when I got back to meet up this Sunday, no response for two days.

I then did something that I normally wouldnt do, I CALLED her out in a funny way. Surprise, surprise she immediately responded with "WHAT!!! sorry didnt realize I didnt text you back". This ***** actually had the nerve to tell me this. I go no contact, one hour later she sends me a text " Are you still up for Sunday!?

I knew I had lost frame when I decided to call her out and as much as I would love to bang her out I think its best I let this one go. Tell me I am making the right move? LOL
 

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She’s a doctor. Do you think she may have a busy schedule? Also parking lots are not prime isolation areas.…
 

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This has nothing to do with maintaining frame. All you did was seem a bit desperate. If I don't see immediate signs of high interest on the first date, I usually wait a week after the first date to ask her out again.

And you shouldn't be calling out on her. That's week and needy.
You still have a shot, just keep asking her out once a week and have fun.
 

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This has nothing to do with maintaining frame. All you did was seem a bit desperate. If I don't see immediate signs of high interest on the first date, I usually wait a week after the first date to ask her out again.

And you shouldn't be calling out on her. That's week and needy.
You still have a shot, just keep asking her out once a week and have fun.
Just this.. no need to overthink
 
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