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Master Don Juan
Week 3, a look back
Ok,
so I've only really completed weeks 1-3 and I've been repeating the same things for a while now. But I'd like to take a look back to see where I came from.
When I joined this board I was a heart-broken chump, recovering from being dumped after 11 months, from a girl who had many things I was looking for in a woman, and sometimes it didn't feel like looking elsewhere made any sense.
Anyway, shy, flighty in eye contact, I definitely had some work to do. Saying hellos was hard at first, now I'm fairly comfortable with them as long as I am forcing myself to continue saying them to everyone. I learned how to begin and keep conversations going. I've built up the confidence to ask for phone numbers and I've broken a lot of social phobias - namely I'm starting to truly not give a fig what people think. Tonight, I had my first cold approach number close and it felt great. When I came to this board I had no dreams and few ambitions - I had no perspective and I had no idea how to find purpose in life. Now I have plans and vision and it's like an aura around me that everyone can feel.
It hasn't been all success. In fact it all began with failure, and I need to keep taking risks. So many things still to learn and so many things to improve, but women can't wait long enough for me to become perfect, they're going to have to love me as is :- )
Looking back after 3 weeks, BC has been great. I'm excited to prove to myself that I can ask strangers what their number is without introduction - or with it if I'm feeling frisky. Later,
Izza
Ok,
so I've only really completed weeks 1-3 and I've been repeating the same things for a while now. But I'd like to take a look back to see where I came from.
When I joined this board I was a heart-broken chump, recovering from being dumped after 11 months, from a girl who had many things I was looking for in a woman, and sometimes it didn't feel like looking elsewhere made any sense.
Anyway, shy, flighty in eye contact, I definitely had some work to do. Saying hellos was hard at first, now I'm fairly comfortable with them as long as I am forcing myself to continue saying them to everyone. I learned how to begin and keep conversations going. I've built up the confidence to ask for phone numbers and I've broken a lot of social phobias - namely I'm starting to truly not give a fig what people think. Tonight, I had my first cold approach number close and it felt great. When I came to this board I had no dreams and few ambitions - I had no perspective and I had no idea how to find purpose in life. Now I have plans and vision and it's like an aura around me that everyone can feel.
It hasn't been all success. In fact it all began with failure, and I need to keep taking risks. So many things still to learn and so many things to improve, but women can't wait long enough for me to become perfect, they're going to have to love me as is :- )
Looking back after 3 weeks, BC has been great. I'm excited to prove to myself that I can ask strangers what their number is without introduction - or with it if I'm feeling frisky. Later,
Izza