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Anyone overcome ED before?

mrgoodstuff

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A guy on our site developed ED in a situation where he was being starved out and started to lose his sexual confidence. I had been preaching the solution for most men is to find a woman that turns you on that is seriously attracted to him! He found that babe that turns him on and can't get enough of him and his man parts rise to the occasion like magic.

In situations where you are fighting for your own masculine space, or where she is trying to wear the pants or wear she does wear the pants or where she devalues you is not good for your manhood and your erections will suffer as a result.
 

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The penis does not lie. Remember that.

What does it mean?

If you are with a woman who you are not totally into......bad energy whatever.....this will reflect in your penis.

If you are with a woman who is not totally into you.....bad energy whatever.....this will reflect in your penis.

The penis does not lie. It will shy away from toxic energy encounters and literally come to stand at salute when the energy is good.

When you are into her and she is into you, there is no ED.
It's true, it tells you whats going on energy wise.... A woman that your attracted to, ,that desires you strongly will result in strong boners. Listen to your c0ck.
 

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What did the trick?

Cardio exercise and diet usually can fix it. Sometimes it can be purely mental as well in which case the secret to it is dont be afraid if it. Kind of like insomnia. If you are afraid of something you will most definitely attract it in a bad way.

It is usually physical though. Exercise more and eat healthier. Swimming laps on a daily basis helps a lot i have noticed.
 

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During my 40s, while still in a marriage that had faded during my 30s, I lost interest in... well... everything really.
Piled on a ton of weight (topped out at around 290 pounds or so)
Then had a health scare - My sister, who is younger than me had a stroke, directly caused by high blood pressure - It runs in my family so I got checked, and my numbers were astronomically high - Doc said I was on the verge of a massive coronary.
I was eating TONS of sugary crap - Choccy bars, cake, biscuits, etc. and drinking full-sugar Coke/Pepsi/Fanta/etc... by the gallon.
So I went on a crash diet, and had a re-think of life in general, which prompted me to also get divorced.

At the time I was suffering from several of the effects that derby1 described above:
Not full-on ED, but had no desire to initiate sex - Rubbery when erect - Erection would deflate easily, and struggled to stay erect long enough to finish - Noticeably smaller than its usual size from years ago - Morning glories had stopped happening....

My diet was to cut out refined sugars as completely as I could - eat more fresh fruit - and drink only water, sugar-free, or fruit juice.
Lost around 95 pounds over the next 9-10 months... but the big revelation for me was finding out just how much lag effect that sugar had been having.
Not just the weight loss... Benefits also were better motivation, I started looking younger, even my original hair colour gradually came back - after going grey in my 40s (Even my Doc couldn't explain that one)
And best of all - the fella in my pants returned to his former self - Appetite for sex came back, Morning wood came back with a vengeance, Size and rigidity back to the levels I had in my 20s - And I no longer require any 'down-time' after climax (much to the surprise and pleasure, of women) It stays ready for as long as I want, or until I go to sleep.

The benefits of removing refined sugars from my diet, and replacing with fresh fruit/juice, have been immense - especially with regards to avoiding/fixing ED.
 

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Once i got 8 hours of sleep a night i never experienced ED again
 

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Phycological issue not a physical one despite it being marketed as one

porn and social media are 2 natural libido killers i mean i see HB8 + in underwear and bikinis every single day i'm used to it

50 years ago you would need to take yourself down to the dodgy video store buy the tapes and then hopefully find somewhere to watch them in peace and quiet

Now i can have a tug whilst sitting on the toilet in work if i wanted too

Girls post seductive pics to their socials and dating accounts because they want attention......but there's no mystery left

Again in a time before hyper connectivity and social media .....a girl would have to go out of her way too show you her assets and i can practically guarantee when she did you would be as hard as rock because it's so abnormal and exciting

now i actually believe we have over sexualised the female body .......it's a beautiful thing but we shouldn't be examining it 24 hours 7 days a week its not healthy

i am actually making conscious effort now not too watch anymore porn

i was getting into a bad habit of jacking off to squirting videos and then getting disappointed when that wasn't happening in reality
 
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