Anyone know what the deal is here?

[dk1990S111]

First off I know swipe apps are trash, only used as a supplement lol

matched with a chick on tinder last night. Few messages back and forth and around 10 she goes to bed. Nurse so crazy hours. Wakes up at 6 and messaged back this morning. I’m getting ready for my day so don’t respond right away but about 10 minutes later check and she’s already either unmatched (unlikely with how good the convo was) or just deleted her profile all together.

Not the first time I’ve noticed this. Wondering if they get overwhelmed and delete the profile or just get oneitis that fast or something.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have never used Tinder but from what I hear it is garbage.

Why are swipe apps garbage? What percentage of women that you would meet in real life do you think also AREN'T on those apps? 1%? 2% maybe? Guys are only deluding themselves if they think just because they met a woman out somewhere that it means they are so different than woman on an app. The only real difference is you met her there versus on the app because she likely is on the app.

I would recommend Hinge or Bumble.

 

[dk1990S111]

Ya I use those as well, saw that you or someone else here was saying most single women will be on there at least for a little trying it out. Makes sense.

Just curious with this situation. Why she would respond and then be gone 10 min later lol

 

[Nordic_identity]

Imagine for a second how many other men she was simultaneously talking with at the same time as you. Doesn't matter if your conversation went well, you can never know how her other prospects are hashing out.

Honestly she probably was just feeling it out, had a better option whether that be online or IRL and then deleted it forgetting about y'alls special conversation.

 

[Lookatu]

Imagine for a second how many other men she was simultaneously talking with at the same time as you. Doesn't matter if your conversation went well, you can never know how her other prospects are hashing out.

This.

Also what you experienced is pretty normal for Tinder or any other apps for that matter. Women are soooooo used to desperate and thirsty guys conforming to their schedules and what's convenient for them and caving into everyone of her wishes. It's become a one way street where a lot of these b1tches have become too spoiled and entitled and expect that from all guys.

It's sad that women can ban together for feminism and remain strong, yet we have tons of weak guys out there that can't/won't put down their foot for these b1tches and this why we're at where we are today.

#quitfeedingbitches

 

[dk1990S111]

Imagine for a second how many other men she was simultaneously talking with at the same time as you. Doesn't matter if your conversation went well, you can never know how her other prospects are hashing out.

Honestly she probably was just feeling it out, had a better option whether that be online or IRL and then deleted it forgetting about y'alls special conversation.

ya I get all that lol special conversation

just weird to respond and then unmatch or delete the app 10 min later at 6 AM

 

[RangerMIke]

Low interest nothing more. Why low interest? No idea, and you shouldn't care just flaky @ss chick behavior.

 

[death_wish. .]

#donotfeedtheanimals

 

[Nordic_identity]

ya I get all that lol special conversation

just weird to respond and then unmatch or delete the app 10 min later at 6 AM

Would it have been any more or less weird had it been at another time? You said she's a nurse, they have pretty erratic schedules. My sister use to work the ICU from 7 pm to 7 am. I am sure she probably unmatched a few dudes at all times of the night/morning.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

First off I know swipe apps are trash, only used as a supplement lol

matched with a chick on tinder last night. Few messages back and forth and around 10 she goes to bed. Nurse so crazy hours. Wakes up at 6 and messaged back this morning. I’m getting ready for my day so don’t respond right away but about 10 minutes later check and she’s already either unmatched (unlikely with how good the convo was) or just deleted her profile all together.

Not the first time I’ve noticed this. Wondering if they get overwhelmed and delete the profile or just get oneitis that fast or something.

Kevin Samuel's has a vlog of women who are not date material. Nurses are on the list. Absurd kill count. Needs therapy but doesn't go. High promiscuity. Disgusting divorce stats and infidelity.

At the cost of sounding like rollo beating hypergamy to death like a dead horse; nothing caters to women more than apps. Aaron Clarey did a few videos and said that they were all low hanging fruit. Many are bots or escorts. Several sugar babies or skanks trying to get followers.

Its the times. Use it but definitely approach and pickup IRL. Chyna virus is no excuse. The mask is weird and a woman can hide messed up teeth or face with a mask. Still, run game. Utilise both. As simple as possible, do three approaches. I typically do more than that but game is sales and it can be a full time job. The ROI irl is night and day difference from apps. I have a 99% success rate for choosing signals, IOIs, women eye ****ing. As in, its a lay-up pickup. Utilise both. Be reliant on irl game.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Would it have been any more or less weird had it been at another time? You said she's a nurse, they have pretty erratic schedules. My sister use to work the ICU from 7 pm to 7 am. I am sure she probably unmatched a few dudes at all times of the night/morning.

In between getting ran through by cops, firemen, paramedics, and doctors. Hotdog down a hallway. Many look beat up and aged by mid 20s. I have to agree with Kevin Samuel's on this one.

Not saying don't smash. I am saying, double wrap it. Strap up fellas.

 

[flowtheory]

Honestly, like RangerMike said: Low Interest.

Any time women suddenly disappear, flake, are too busy, make excuses, are too tired, break up, etc the answer is always: low interest or you don’t have value in their eyes anymore.
Harsh reality. This is why if they’re not chasing you, it’s no good.

 

[Nordic_identity]

My sis

In between getting ran through by cops, firemen, paramedics, and doctors. Hotdog down a hallway. Many look beat up and aged by mid 20s. I have to agree with Kevin Samuel's on this one.

Not saying don't smash. I am saying, double wrap it. Strap up fellas.

My sister is 33 and has nearly gone completely gray. I'd stay far away from nurses beyond anything but a quick lay which you're right, most EMTs, doctors, and firefighters get. But even of a few of them get trapped into the marriage.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

My sis


My sister is 33 and has nearly gone completely gray. I'd stay far away from nurses beyond anything but a quick lay which you're right, most EMTs, doctors, and firefighters get. But even of a few of them get trapped into the marriage.

She does the work required but the amount of trauma and disassociation from life is ****ed. My mates work in law enforcement and the divorce rate is similar.

As for grey, i am excited about hitting my Clooney years. No just for men. No homosexuality. I always thought that salt and pepper look waa a good thing. Not on women. It doesn't scream fertility and sexuality.

 

[bat soup]

First off I know swipe apps are trash, only used as a supplement lol

matched with a chick on tinder last night. Few messages back and forth and around 10 she goes to bed. Nurse so crazy hours. Wakes up at 6 and messaged back this morning. I’m getting ready for my day so don’t respond right away but about 10 minutes later check and she’s already either unmatched (unlikely with how good the convo was) or just deleted her profile all together.

Not the first time I’ve noticed this. Wondering if they get overwhelmed and delete the profile or just get oneitis that fast or something.

This is normal for these garbage attention whoaring apps.

Women are on there to play around and get attention from random guys. Rarely will they actually meet anyone from there. There are plenty of guys around them in real life already.

Also, having "great conversation" with a woman generally means you're in the friend zone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is normal for these garbage attention whoaring apps.

Women are on there to play around and get attention from random guys. Rarely will they actually meet anyone from there. There are plenty of guys around them in real life already.

Also, having "great conversation" with a woman generally means you're in the friend zone.

Really? I find it funny because the last 2 GFs I had were from the dating apps. Dated one for a year and the other almost 2 years. 2 of the best relationships I have ever had. I fvcked up ultimately, not them.

I think guys are simply basing their opinions on what other people say rather than their own experiences because most of what is said on dating apps on this forum does not match my personal experiences.

Sure there are garbage women on these apps but there are garbage women in real life too so what is the difference?

 

[flowtheory]

This is normal for these garbage attention whoaring apps.

Women are on there to play around and get attention from random guys. Rarely will they actually meet anyone from there. There are plenty of guys around them in real life already.

Also, having "great conversation" with a woman generally means you're in the friend zone.

I feel like most people meet on dating apps nowadays. rarely is it cold approach. Some may be social circle, but even that is questionable. But where I live? if you ask two people how they met, 80% will say dating apps.

As far as great conversation, I think that’s a necessity for any type of relationship.

And with any endeavour in life, at least 50% of the people will be there for the wrong reasons. In the case of swipe apps this definitely holds true - many people in relationships using it to explore new options who aren’t that serious, attention wh0res, and using it as ego inflation.
the only way not to get caught up in the BS is suggest the date super quick and hold on to your time. But wasting time will generally be apart of any new endeavour until you just get a sharper read on how people act.

online apps are merely just a small tool to be mutinied for more exposure than you would otherwise get in everyday life

 

[Georgepithyou]

She was probably just looking for someone to strike while the iron is hot and not a chat buddy, u should use tinder to get them onto another app like whatsapp to start texting asap.

Don't waste time texting them on tinder

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My experience on Tinder is one has to go in full bore once the girl is texting/ messaging with you. Girls get scores, if not hundreds of guys messaging them. So if she is focusing on you, it’s your chance. Take it. You likely wont get another. And? Tinder girls are (were?) awesome. Got two relationships out of it.

 

[flowtheory]

My experience on Tinder is one has to go in full bore once the girl is texting/ messaging with you. Girls get scores, if not hundreds of guys messaging them. So if she is focusing on you, it’s your chance. Take it. You likely wont get another. And? Tinder girls are (were?) awesome. Got two relationships out of it.

I can agree with this. You have to be bold, witty, funny. And set the date up quickly. It’s always best to be on the far sides of the spectrum with dating apps.

Far side meaning more risky comments, than the typical “hey how’s your week been?” Because 8/10 will use some from of the latter example.