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Anyone here have experiece in Columbia?

Bokanovsky

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My first escort ever was Colombian and she was a blast. She asked me for sex, but I refused to have sex with her. But she was naked and we danced together and her tits were against my chest while I bear-hugged her
You sure you’re not a homosexual??
 

corrector

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You sure you’re not a homosexual??
Its interesting you are not challenging my religious beliefs or convictions about sex. In short, we were not married, therefore, I don't have sex with someone I'm not married to because that would be fornication. If I was married and paid my wife for sex, like it was some sort of kinky arousal, then that would be fine. The fact I didn't cave-in and give into temptation means I've stood true to my religious convictions.
 

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Yeah, i want to try Medellin a lot actually. Columbian cupid and Bumble are easy work though in Cartegena so far. Am meeting a chick here in 30 mins and got new ones on Friday and Saturday lined up. It's supposed to be hard here in Cartegena for non pris supposedly according to all the lifers here. Bs. They are just lazy and rely on pros too much. Id imagine places like Medellin, Bogota and Cali would be gold mines based on what ive heard.

Im banned on Tinder btw. Which really sucks when overseas. Have started 3 accounts with new numbers and devices only to keep getting banned **** that snowflake hypocritical hook up app
just get a new sim card, theyre dirt cheap here
 

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just get a new sim card, theyre dirt cheap here

Yeah was thinking about that. My girls list is piling up fast here. My date went great last night am meeting again Saturday. After my date finished i pulled a smoking hot gurl in a club in the centro dustrict here...absolutely zero english spoken but she sang all night in Spanish to salsa music and i banged her on my balcony all early morning 32 floors over the ocean here....epic sex.

Still haven't gone to sleep because right after she left this morning a girl i've been talking to on bumble for the past 2 weeks but never met sent me a message saying she was surprising me and on her way to my place in a taxi. I had previously given her my address a week ago and asked her to come here for a walk on the beach together. She had went ghost until sending that random message today. **** is crazy here lol.

I was like wtf...you didn't give any notice....but if you are down with watching netflix with me it's fine. Watched 2 movies banged her twice....im sexually exhausted now lol.

Meeting a hot looking new bumble girl tomorrow then seeing the date gurl on saturday and another new columbiancupid girl on sunday. Got 3 others on standby wanting to meet up this weekend but im pushing them back to next week. This **** is becoming a full time job. Place is a ***** paradise.

Already got too many plates to handle. Going to just choose 2 main ones soon and ditch the others.
 

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Yeah was thinking about that. My girls list is piling up fast here. My date went great last night am meeting again Saturday. After my date finished i pulled a smoking hot gurl in a club in the centro dustrict here...absolutely zero english spoken but she sang all night in Spanish to salsa music and i banged her on my balcony all early morning 32 floors over the ocean here....epic sex.

Still haven't gone to sleep because right after she left this morning a girl i've been talking to on bumble for the past 2 weeks but never met sent me a message saying she was surprising me and on her way to my place in a taxi. I had previously given her my address a week ago and asked her to come here for a walk on the beach together. She had went ghost until sending that random message today. **** is crazy here lol.

I was like wtf...you didn't give any notice....but if you are down with watching netflix with me it's fine. Watched 2 movies banged her twice....im sexually exhausted now lol.

Meeting a hot looking new bumble girl tomorrow then seeing the date gurl on saturday and another new columbiancupid girl on sunday. Got 3 others on standby wanting to meet up this weekend but im pushing them back to next week. This **** is becoming a full time job. Place is a ***** paradise.

Already got too many plates to handle. Going to just choose 2 main ones soon and ditch the others.
I'm happy to hear you're doing great out here man, I also have a **** ton of plates lmfao. I have lots of matches waiting to be messages on tinder which makes it like less motivating for me to be a horny **** messaging all of them like when I first got here ahhaa...I have been thinking that I want to stop using dating apps and go out and daygame to give myself a bit of a thrill...I am not a fan of the amount of time I need to spend on my phone getting girls, but it works too damn well. I'm not sure if it's because I'm white or if it's like this for everyone out here. How old are you? I'm 20
 

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I'm happy to hear you're doing great out here man, I also have a **** ton of plates lmfao. I have lots of matches waiting to be messages on tinder which makes it like less motivating for me to be a horny **** messaging all of them like when I first got here ahhaa...I have been thinking that I want to stop using dating apps and go out and daygame to give myself a bit of a thrill...I am not a fan of the amount of time I need to spend on my phone getting girls, but it works too damn well. I'm not sure if it's because I'm white or if it's like this for everyone out here. How old are you? I'm 20

Im 40 but look 28 to 30. Every girl i meet tells me how handsome i am. But truthfully im old and fat compared to myself even 3 years ago lol.

Im pretty good at first dates though. Have been on so many of them and have a solid kino routine that i pushout like clockwork now through tonnes of trial and error that almost always leads to first date lays regardless of which country im in. Steadily physical escalation every date. It has basically become like muscle memory for me now. I dont really have to think about it and "nos" or brushoffs never phase me.

One thing bad about Columbian women i have noticed. They are extremely demanding of your time and energy. These girls want to text literally around the clock. It gets exhausting very quickly ....but like you said, the results are worth it.
 

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Would love to go to Colombia one day. I've been FWB's with 2 Colombian girls in my home UK town (2nd one was friends with the original girl. Got together after bumping into each other a couple of years after the 1st one fizzled out and she married another man). They were educated in Colombia and came over here to continue their studies. In addition to their seemingly high sex drive, both really interesting girls to spend time with, a lot of depth, opinions on all sorts of subjects, unlike a lot of UK clones I;ve met over here. Maybe thats due to them being educated, no doubt plenty of shallow girls living in Colombia.

DOne the odd 'passport' mode test to Colombian cities and the quality (lookswise) is another level. Under no illusion, the whole western 'status' thing plays a part though.
 

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Would love to go to Colombia one day. I've been FWB's with 2 Colombian girls in my home UK town (2nd one was friends with the original girl. Got together after bumping into each other a couple of years after the 1st one fizzled out and she married another man). They were educated in Colombia and came over here to continue their studies. In addition to their seemingly high sex drive, both really interesting girls to spend time with, a lot of depth, opinions on all sorts of subjects, unlike a lot of UK clones I;ve met over here. Maybe thats due to them being educated, no doubt plenty of shallow girls living in Colombia.

DOne the odd 'passport' mode test to Colombian cities and the quality (lookswise) is another level. Under no illusion, the whole western 'status' thing plays a part though.

One day is not nearly enough unless you been pipelining well before coming. Even then, if she is high quality, the girl will most likely make you wait for the sex, regardless of how much she likes you.

The higher quality ones tend to make you wait ive noticed. Went out with a complete stunner last night even got her back up at my place but she kept her strict 10 pm curfew to home no sex first date policy intact.

Just ended up making out with her on my balcony high above the ocean here but couldnt get her in my bedroom. She doesn't drink though and is a bit shy actingo, so those ones are always tougher.

I would say you need a solid week here at least unless you go to one of the lesser touristy cities like Baranquilla or Cali.

Cartegena requires a lot of leg work. Bogota and Medellin prob a lot better too.

Got a second date coming up with another non drinker here in the next 2 hours or so. Absolutely gorgeous girl who recently got alpha widowed though. She has repeatedly expressed very high interest though and i think she can use me as the rebound guy and i can use her as a good sex/travel companion for the rest of my 3 weeks here.

Got one im chatting with in Cali right now from columbiancupid who wants me to fly her here to live with me for the entire next week. I said **** no lol. But if i ever get desperate enough its something to think about because she is hot and guaranteed sex is implied.

You will not find that level of easiness with a stunner here in Cartegena though unless you take home one drunk at the club maybe. I pulled a good one the other night. Most of the ones in clubs here are pros though. The really pretty non tatted up normal girls make you work for it more here. Too many gringos here looking for sex so i guess so they don't want to be pumped n dumped by a gringo.

So yeah if you do go, hit up Baranquilla or Cali. Online is ridiculously easy in those two cities from what i see. Probably day game as well.

Im having a great time here in Cartegena though. Besides the heat and humidity, it's a lovely city overall. Im fine with waiting 2 or 3 dates to lay the higher quality ones.

Am really just looking for one smoking hot stunner who is also cool to talk to and hangout with. The one im seeing again tonight fits that bill perfectly. The one from last night had the personality of a freakin doorknob but 9 out of 10 if not a perfect body and 8 out of 10 face. Dressed to the 9s as well. Just want to smash her one time and be done lol.

I will say this about the pro scene here.

It is very useful for when your dates don't end in sex. In fact lately on first dates i have been thinking when is this going to end so i can go sample the clubs tonight. I use it strictly as backup though. Its nice to have though because it makes first dates feel a lot more relaxing. As long as i can tell the the girl is high quality and into me it's cool i don't need the sex immediately. I'm a hard first date closer usually. But here am feeling a less sense of urgency. It's very nice actually.
 
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