Would love to go to Colombia one day. I've been FWB's with 2 Colombian girls in my home UK town (2nd one was friends with the original girl. Got together after bumping into each other a couple of years after the 1st one fizzled out and she married another man). They were educated in Colombia and came over here to continue their studies. In addition to their seemingly high sex drive, both really interesting girls to spend time with, a lot of depth, opinions on all sorts of subjects, unlike a lot of UK clones I;ve met over here. Maybe thats due to them being educated, no doubt plenty of shallow girls living in Colombia.
DOne the odd 'passport' mode test to Colombian cities and the quality (lookswise) is another level. Under no illusion, the whole western 'status' thing plays a part though.
One day is not nearly enough unless you been pipelining well before coming. Even then, if she is high quality, the girl will most likely make you wait for the sex, regardless of how much she likes you.
The higher quality ones tend to make you wait ive noticed. Went out with a complete stunner last night even got her back up at my place but she kept her strict 10 pm curfew to home no sex first date policy intact.
Just ended up making out with her on my balcony high above the ocean here but couldnt get her in my bedroom. She doesn't drink though and is a bit shy actingo, so those ones are always tougher.
I would say you need a solid week here at least unless you go to one of the lesser touristy cities like Baranquilla or Cali.
Cartegena requires a lot of leg work. Bogota and Medellin prob a lot better too.
Got a second date coming up with another non drinker here in the next 2 hours or so. Absolutely gorgeous girl who recently got alpha widowed though. She has repeatedly expressed very high interest though and i think she can use me as the rebound guy and i can use her as a good sex/travel companion for the rest of my 3 weeks here.
Got one im chatting with in Cali right now from columbiancupid who wants me to fly her here to live with me for the entire next week. I said **** no lol. But if i ever get desperate enough its something to think about because she is hot and guaranteed sex is implied.
You will not find that level of easiness with a stunner here in Cartegena though unless you take home one drunk at the club maybe. I pulled a good one the other night. Most of the ones in clubs here are pros though. The really pretty non tatted up normal girls make you work for it more here. Too many gringos here looking for sex so i guess so they don't want to be pumped n dumped by a gringo.
So yeah if you do go, hit up Baranquilla or Cali. Online is ridiculously easy in those two cities from what i see. Probably day game as well.
Im having a great time here in Cartegena though. Besides the heat and humidity, it's a lovely city overall. Im fine with waiting 2 or 3 dates to lay the higher quality ones.
Am really just looking for one smoking hot stunner who is also cool to talk to and hangout with. The one im seeing again tonight fits that bill perfectly. The one from last night had the personality of a freakin doorknob but 9 out of 10 if not a perfect body and 8 out of 10 face. Dressed to the 9s as well. Just want to smash her one time and be done lol.
I will say this about the pro scene here.
It is very useful for when your dates don't end in sex. In fact lately on first dates i have been thinking when is this going to end so i can go sample the clubs tonight. I use it strictly as backup though. Its nice to have though because it makes first dates feel a lot more relaxing. As long as i can tell the the girl is high quality and into me it's cool i don't need the sex immediately. I'm a hard first date closer usually. But here am feeling a less sense of urgency. It's very nice actually.