Anyone having a problem staying interested in the girl you’re seeing.

T-Mack

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I’m still a newbie when it comes to dating and relationships. I’ll be seeing a girl that I’m interested in at first. This changes when she starts calling me or texting me a lot and being available all the time. My interest levels hit an all time low for this girl. At this point I don’t even care that she is around or not.

If she was some what descent looking like a HB6 and above I usually get interested in her again after she gives up and walks out on me. I never get her back though after that because it’s usually something like you had your chance type responses whenever I act interested again.

I lose interest faster when I am seeing chicks in the B4 or B5 range. Right now I am seeing a foreign exchange Japanese chick that is like a B4 in my eyes, but some of my friends think she is a HB6 only because they prefer Asian chicks and others think not so much. I want to seal the deal with this girl and lay her down and then at the same time I can’t bring myself to do it.

She still has a very high interest level for me at the moment. We have done sexual stuff so far, but obviously haven’t gone all the way yet. Is it possible I could turn her into a FB for the next few months that she is here? I think I may have already messed that up by holding hands with her when we go out though. Does anyone have any good suggestions on how they would handle this situation? Also if anyone has gone through the same situation with losing interest and found a solution that worked for them? I would love to hear it.
 

Rhoto

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In all seriousness, are you sure you're Heterosexual? (This question assumes you're past 20)

Cause it seems like you look for excuses not to like her or lose interest.
 
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j0n024

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How about you just do it? I dont see the problem I mean you guys are already going out arent you? I would take her out bowling or maybe the movies and feel her up and make out there and then take her home and plow her...it doesnt seem that hard in my eyes. I personally dont know how to make a girl a FB but since she is leaving in a little bit why dont you just get all the sex you can from her, I mean she is leaving right so it's not really going to be a LTR and if you do chump out and not fvck her before she leaves then your friends will probably make fun of you....good luck though.
 
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