Anyone ever dated women much wealthier than you? What's the biggest free-money women have given men?

[NealIRC]

Anyone know of any cases where women gave men free money, like spoiled them around or whatever, other than mother-son and such.

Anyone ever relationship'd with a much wealthier woman?

 

[CornbreadFed]

I’d say that’s not uncommon in today’s world.

 

[SW15]

I haven't dated anyone much wealthier than I am. That doesn't mean that I don't have some experience with this.

In the late 2000s/early 2010s, I was a new graduate who was struggling. I had to take some below market job offers in order to be employed. There were a number of times when I went on dates with women with higher salaries than I had at that time. I never liked the idea that I had to pay for dates with women with higher annual salaries than I had. It's still possible for me to go on dates with women with higher salaries now.

With the male surplus being what it is in most cities, it does put pressure on men to pay for dates for women. If a man doesn't pay for dates for women, then women know that there are many other men who are willing to pay for dates. While I don't think that should mean that men need to spend a lot on dates, spending on dates is necessary.

There is immense female abundance. Men will experience female abundance the worst in tech-based dating situations.

 

[NealIRC]

I haven't dated anyone much wealthier than I am. That doesn't mean that I don't have some experience with this.

In the late 2000s/early 2010s, I was a new graduate who was struggling. I had to take some below market job offers in order to be employed. There were a number of times when I went on dates with women with higher salaries than I had at that time. I never liked the idea that I had to pay for dates with women with higher annual salaries than I had. It's still possible for me to go on dates with women with higher salaries now.

With the male surplus being what it is in most cities, it does put pressure on men to pay for dates for women. If a man doesn't pay for dates for women, then women know that there are many other men who are willing to pay for dates. While I don't think that should mean that men need to spend a lot on dates, spending on dates is necessary.

There is immense female abundance. Men will experience female abundance the worst in tech-based dating situations.

Why go on dates though?

 

[Mike32ct]

I dated a wealthy woman for a while way back in the early 2000s. I was making $50k at the time, and she was a millionaire. I was a Chadlite back then and somehow her type.

It was a lot of fun while it lasted.

 

[Solomon]

Anyone know of any cases where women gave men free money, like spoiled them around or whatever, other than mother-son and such.

Anyone ever relationship'd with a much wealthier woman?

In 2015 I wouldn't say wealthy, but she was making high 6 figures and was a Regional Manager for Hilton. She drove a nice BMW and had a nice house in the city it didn't last long, she would pay for fancy dinners and such.

I've had a couple of male buddies who are very good looking and women have paid their bills and also giving them thousands of dollars

 

[Bokanovsky]

Anyone know of any cases where women gave men free money, like spoiled them around or whatever, other than mother-son and such.

Anyone ever relationship'd with a much wealthier woman?

Yes, it happens but not often. Usually, the situation involves a young, good looking gigolo type and a significantly older divorced woman. @BeExcellent might have some insight.

 

[zekko]

Why go on dates though?

To have fun?

 

[The Duke]

A friend of mine doesn't have a dollar to his name, married a fat girl that has money. She pays for all of his expensive toys and hobby. His hobby probably costs $40,000 per year. He works for her. He brought the looks and she brought the money.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I've dated a couple women with masters degrees who easily made 2-3x than me. I've also dated women when I was unemployed.

Most of these women paid for everything at least 50% of the time for everything, probably close to 60-70%. It was nice. I would happily date a wealthy woman who pays for everything.

I never really told these women what my finances were and/or lied about my job, but given that I don't have a car and a very barebones apartment I think they could put two and two together. I don't think they cared. They care more about ambition/potential.

 

[Mike32ct]

I've dated a couple women with masters degrees who easily made 2-3x than me. I've also dated women when I was unemployed.

Most of these women paid for everything at least 50% of the time for everything, probably close to 60-70%. It was nice. I would happily date a wealthy woman who pays for everything.

I never really told these women what my finances were and/or lied about my job, but given that I don't have a car and a very barebones apartment I think they could put two and two together. I don't think they cared. They care more about ambition/potential.

Yeah I don’t think that you absolutely MUST earn more than her as RP suggests. I understand their point, but I don’t think it’s etched in stone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Anyone know of any cases where women gave men free money, like spoiled them around or whatever, other than mother-son and such.

Anyone ever relationship'd with a much wealthier woman?

I'd rather jump off the edge of the Grand Canyon with no parachute than be in woman's pocket for life.

Deplorable.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Yeah I don’t think that you absolutely MUST earn more than her as RP suggests. I understand their point, but I don’t think it’s etched in stone.

Women are at level 1, in the matrix, thinking that education and career success is all that matters meanwhile a lot of men are at level 12. There are more important things in life, if you're advanced enough, you can convince her you're above her even if you're flat broke.

I will say though, if we're talking about high quality 9s and 10s and locking them down for LTRs or marriage, you probably do need to be wealthy though. They have lifestyle and status demands you must meet.

 

[EyeBRollin]

A friend of mine doesn't have a dollar to his name, married a fat girl that has money. She pays for all of his expensive toys and hobby. His hobby probably costs $40,000 per year. He works for her. He brought the looks and she brought the money.

So he’s the wife and she’s the husband? Got it.

 

[MatureDJ]

I have a Normie (but 6' 2" ) friend of mine that when he was in his 30s, was open to dating fat chicks from wealthy families. After a few times around the track for that, he said that he just couldn't go through with it anymore. I remember one chick - that looked like a cube - whose father owned a steamship company.

 

[MatureDJ]

A friend of mine doesn't have a dollar to his name, married a fat girl that has money. She pays for all of his expensive toys and hobby. His hobby probably costs $40,000 per year. He works for her. He brought the looks and she brought the money.

I remember a friend of mine saying, "when you close your eyes, all pvssy feels the same".

 

[The Duke]

I remember a friend of mine saying, "when you close your eyes, all pvssy feels the same".

I'm glad it works for some. Lol

 

[The Duke]

So he’s the wife and she’s the husband? Got it.

Haha yep. He has some serious cluster B issues. At one point he talked her into an open marriage. It lasted for about a year until he had a second girlfriend and the two girlfriends got into it and brought his wife into it. Master manipulator and selfish. Almost child like. Had no father figure. It's like a sugar momma/sugar boy relationship. Both trying to con each other.

 

[NealIRC]

I'd rather jump off the edge of the Grand Canyon with no parachute than be in woman's pocket for life.

Deplorable.

No. You are the most important person in your life. You suicide, you become an instant loser in women's view.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No. You are the most important person in your life. You suicide, you become an instant loser in women's view.

It's a metaphor dude. The fact you took that literally perhaps should be an insight as to regarding why you are struggling with women.