Anyone ever bang a woman this hot?

[Naughty Ninja]

For me, this is about attraction, not ego or validation or impressing anyone with the women I get. I only started dating in 2009, and have dated/been on dates with some very pretty women, but women that I had no lust for whatsoever. Just looked too "goody goody" and while I liked them as people and they were cute/pretty enough to date, lusted after women like the one in the thread even if just for sex.

In fact, I'd probably say two of the highlights of my women related life involved lap dances with strippers because both were my type sexually and even having their bare bodies pressed against me with no touching allowed was more exciting than making out with/touching the breasts and a** of the women I dated/fingering/bjs etc. .

I'm a very visual guy. When I see a perfectly sculpted body (by my standards) it's one of the most beautiful things in the world.

I see a lot of women that other guys would do anything to do and because they're too thin by my standards or just don't do it for me, I wouldn't even go on a date with them or bang them if they were all over me.

This is about finding someone my type to do.

Women can be fun to hang around, but even the low maintenance/goody too shoes ones are full of drama in my experience, just not as much and different kind of drama, but still drama nonetheless.

I value being single and not loving any woman other than my mother. I just would like to have wild sex/fun times or even just a one night stand with the type of women I lust after.

So basically you need a 'perfectly' sculpted hot woman even if she's a stripper or a cvm dumpster just for a one night stand to 'validate' yourself. Congratulations on your goals for 2012.

Dr. Phil would say: And how's THAT workin out for ya?

 

[rhcp83]

To validate myself, no. Is it a goal, yes. And it isn't my only goal. (Several non women related ones including getting a specific type of body not for women but for myself. I was showing a lot of improvement body wise last year and stopped working out for a couple months and lost all of it. Also want to travel in the summer and get in a new band (a good band that gigs, not just a bunch of non talented hacks.) )

I don't think my goal of banging a chick with killer tits is any less mature than the goals of most men on this site. Don't fool yourself, some men are on here to talk with the guys and become an all around better person, but most have sexual goals that would make mine look disney like in comparison.

A lot of guys on here that are dating, if they had no lady luck, their lives would be empty. Their whole identity is based on it.

Big deal I want to bang a girl with a killer body. I'm a red blooded American male.

 

[ApolloCreed]

lol at the "she's a 4" response and the "she's 40 so she doesn't count" responses. who wouldn't want her for a wife compared to 99.9 percent of women her age?

also, it doesn't matter what YOU think of her rating, it matters what she thinks. i had a run in with this bartender that to most guys wouldn't rate any higher than a 7/7.5ish...cute sure but not wow hot by any guy's scale...but because she dresses fancy and gets hit on as a bartender and grew up in a small town where she looked better by comparison, she thinks she personally thinks she's a 10.

that's why the rating system, except for discussion, is kind of pointless. you got 5/6s (by most guy's standards) that think they're 10s because they dress up fancy and hang out with hotter women.

the bottom line is, if a guy were to approach her, even online (i'm good looking haven't got a response) she's probably going to want the musclehead/man in uniform/cop/DJ (disc jockey)/cowboy type of guy. she doesn't care how much "game" you have or that you've read david deangelo.

You kidding me? Lots of 40 year old women these days look way better than that.

I really can't see where you're coming from here. Cowboys? Huh?

 

[Zodiac]

also, it doesn't matter what YOU think of her rating, it matters what she thinks.

If that doesn't matter than why is she separated and is on POF instead of getting it from people offline?

 

[floydb25]

Do cowboys still exist? I see you mentioning them constantly in regards to what women want. Are we all in Texas or something? I see none of the guys you mention anywhere. Just a lot of regular guys and some pretty boy party types. There arent crowds of firemen and police officers bringing tons of women home. Do you actually leave the house, and see who's dating who? They all seem pretty normal to me. No one out of the ordinary; some just dress well, are social, and have decent faces. Not gangs of outlaw bikers getting all the women while the nice guys cry in the corner.

None of this stuff is reality. Hell, 90% of the dating stereotypes aren't. A lot of these so-called bad boys aren't bad at all. That's just probably how those who aren't successful view them - due to their own failures, insecurities, and jealousy issues. Everyone who isn't nice and unsuccessful like them must be a jerk, gang banger, or mass murderer. Of course, if you're chasing after women who are at the bottom of the barrel - that's probably who they're going to end up with. The question, then, is why do you bother with these trashy hoes and crazy *****es who seek after these kind of losers? Hmmm? You're just adding to the stereotypes. This is not the majority by any means. But it seems like the type guys on sites like these go for.

 

[vatoloco]

Don't confuse attractiveness with big t!ts!

Ha! This is the first thing that came to mind! QFT, +1

Over 25? -1. Over 30? -1. Over 40? -1. Kids? -1

Huge rack? +1

Score = 7

 

[zekko]

Do cowboys still exist? I see you mentioning them constantly in regards to what women want.

Good point. There are still cowboys in parts of the country, but when I hear women talking about the "cowboy type" I don't think they're literally talking about cowboys.

Where I live, the cowboy type would be a well muscled rugged country boy, who maybe owns a farm or a ranch, a lot of land, horses, drives a four wheel drive pickup, likes country music, wears cowboy boots, tight jeans and flannel shirts, outdoorsy, maybe says ma'am a lot. That's the kind of "cowboy type" women in my area fantasize over.

 

[floydb25]

Sounds like a douche, of a different variety. I know what you're talking about though. Don't know any girls like that, but I'm part of the social / popular crowd. Every group is different... Some girls like hicks, nerds, skaters... By no means is any one crowd the most sought after. We have no problems attracting women in ours, although they tend to be shallow and materialistic. The fake barbie party ho types. Think, porn chicks. All looks and no substance. Can only tolerate them for so long

I have been going outside our crowd to find the cute / nice / shy / homely women. That's the best way to go, if you're into relationships. Difficult, annoying, immature, and snobby isn't the way to go - unless you like drama, chaos, headaches, and instability.

 

[rhcp83]

Good point. There are still cowboys in parts of the country, but when I hear women talking about the "cowboy type" I don't think they're literally talking about cowboys.

Where I live, the cowboy type would be a well muscled rugged country boy, who maybe owns a farm or a ranch, a lot of land, horses, drives a four wheel drive pickup, likes country music, wears cowboy boots, tight jeans and flannel shirts, outdoorsy, maybe says ma'am a lot. That's the kind of "cowboy type" women in my area fantasize over.

That's what I mean. I don't even live down south but that kind of guy is HUGELY popular around here.

Anyway, I don't want these women for LTRs. I just want to sleep with a woman like that. I don't want a relationship period, just a good time.

If I wanted a relationship I'd find a low maintenance nerdy average girl next door looking type that doesn't care about the latest fashion but isn't totally butt ugly either.

But I'd like to bang a low quality hottie.

 

[floydb25]

Maybe its hugely popular because it doesn't exist, eh? More fairytale nonsense from women. Most guys with farms and cowboy boots are old, fat, bald, greasy, and broken. Not like there's a bunch of buff, rugged, pretty boys riding around on horses with their shirts off. Just old married men with no teeth. Ha ha. No young guy can make a living like that. It's all about the socializing, looking good, and partying these days. This isn't the old west, people.

If I wanted a relationship I'd find a low maintenance nerdy average girl next door looking type that doesn't care about the latest fashion but isn't totally butt ugly either.

Now that's what I'm talking about!

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Her pics are perfectly angled to put all the attention on her chest and away from her face. Looks like she's trying to use the camera flash to hide her face.

She's got a great body for her age. She easily outdoes 90% of the women in her age group. Tits are probably fake and paid for by ex-hubby. She looks like she spent too much time in the tanning salon in her younger years and now she's paying the price for it. I'd say the body of a 9 with the face of a 5. Face has got some serious mileage.

 

[floydb25]

Hey OP: I think you're living in a fantasy world, too. You're placing these women on a pedestal - thinking they only respond to a certain guy - based on your own delusions. This is the same problem with guys thinking all hot girls like bad boys. No... Hot girls like hot guys who just so happen to be bad boys (in the sense that they're arrogant, conceited, unfaithful, uncaring, etc - because they CAN be).

If you think these girls are unattainable without being a certain way - you're just adding to the problem, and keeping the stereotypes intact. Because you believe so strongly that they dont like you because you're not a cowboy with the special ability to fly - you're never gonna approach them. I suppose its easier to make up excuses and blame the women for your lack of success - without trying. That's what most nice guys tend to do - never approach anyone, and complain that women don't like them, and only like jerks. WTF?

Or, if they do try and get rejected - they claim its because they're not enough of *******s, or whatever - rather than accept that they aren't attractive, have no game, are flawed, etc, etc. Nah. It's something they can't control, which means its something they can't put the work into improving. They're not cowboys, police offers, or firemen... They will never land a hot girl. Weird, I have no problems, and am none of these things. Same goes for all my friends.

Time to come down to reality. You are only making things more difficult for yourself by placing women on a pedestal, and thinking they only respond to a certain type of guy. It is not this complicated. Women are not special. You don't have to be perfect. Just because YOU aren't successful - doesn't mean she only responds to Superman in cowboy boots and tight jeans.

 

[rhcp83]

I've dated hot girls floyd. First gf was "hot" just not that type. Same with the last girl I went out with two weeks ago that turned out to be psycho.

I was also told I'm good looking by guys on here (made a post with a bunch of my pics in the mature section)...just have never attracted "that kind of upper tier woman lookswise" and find myself drawn to them sexually and lookswise. Who knows, I could have sex with one and be done with it, but it's something I want to do (literally and figuratively.)

If I wanted a relationship like I said, I'd find me a low maintenance, average lifestyle cutie. They come with baggage too but are quality people for the most part and the baggage is different kind of baggage.

The thing I don't get is, while I understand that similar people attract similar people, if I'm cute/attractive enough to date to women that would easily rank at least a 7 to the average guy, what makes the "hotter" women or women that fancy themselves as really hot that much different and not into me at all?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Do cowboys still exist? I see you mentioning them constantly in regards to what women want. Are we all in Texas or something? I see none of the guys you mention anywhere. Just a lot of regular guys and some pretty boy party types. There arent crowds of firemen and police officers bringing tons of women home. Do you actually leave the house, and see who's dating who? They all seem pretty normal to me. No one out of the ordinary; some just dress well, are social, and have decent faces. Not gangs of outlaw bikers getting all the women while the nice guys cry in the corner.

Exactly. Some of these dudes are waaay to eager to point fingers as it's easier than using self-reflection and putting in the work required to better themselves. Sometimes I wonder if half these dudes really even talk to women or people in general or just sit portraying their fantasies of 'how it is' on the boards.

None of this stuff is reality. Hell, 90% of the dating stereotypes aren't. A lot of these so-called bad boys aren't bad at all. That's just probably how those who aren't successful view them - due to their own failures, insecurities, and jealousy issues. Everyone who isn't nice and unsuccessful like them must be a jerk, gang banger, or mass murderer. Of course, if you're chasing after women who are at the bottom of the barrel - that's probably who they're going to end up with. The question, then, is why do you bother with these trashy hoes and crazy *****es who seek after these kind of losers? Hmmm? You're just adding to the stereotypes. This is not the majority by any means. But it seems like the type guys on sites like these go for.

BINGO. Exact reason I took POF for what it was. Passing downtime and busting balls. Never wasted my time bothering to meet any of the chronic residents of that cesspool. I couldn't care less if everyone else on that site was banging each other left and right. Women on that site are useless except if you are looking for a diseased minded, unaccountable cvm dumpster. It's amazing how many dudes are on there and either have ZERO clue or are soo friggin desperate they will overlook the obvious just to 'get some'. Hilarious.

 

[Robert28]

her boobs look disproportionate with the rest of her body. someone chose the XXXL package when they went to the boob doctor. she may think it looks good, i think it looks weird. fake boobs are nice when they dont stand out as being OBVIOUSLY fake. i like the ones where you have to guess if they are or if they arent. i mean really, what girl wears a size 2 pants and a XL shirt to fit over her bad boob job? now, with that said, i'd probably bang her but she wouldnt make my top 10 list.

 

[backseatjuan]

Skin on her face looks like that of clint eastwood's. Problem is homosexuality is promoted in United States and that's why you find this ugly girl hot. Reminds me of that movie Up in Smoke, anything with tits looks hot, even if it's a dude with beard.

 

[floydb25]

People go after what they feel they can get. A top tier girl is going to go for a top tier guy, and not settle for less. A gorgeous girl will date a gorgeous guy. These girls have tons of options, and can be picky. They look down upon those they deem below their league - avoiding them completely. Even if its not that far away. If they know they can get the best - they will seek after the best, and avoid everyone else. Hence, having their nose up in the air.

If gorgeous women aren't approaching, complimenting, dating, or being into you - then you're not gorgeous. You might be good looking or attractive, and it won't matter if you're not gorgeous. These girls usually date pretty boys - because they can, and they know it. They feel its what they are compatible with. People always date those who are most similar to them - from looks onward.

I'm not sure what you feel like you're missing out on. I dated gorgeous women before, and they aren't worth anything. They're lazy, spoiled, selfish, stuck up, and useless - even in bed. They don't give, they expect you to work for everything... For what? There's nothing special about them. And they talk too much.

Edit: didn't mean to put the smiley on there. Not sure why it keeps doing that.

 

[Zarky]

She's a 5, but with the tits, she's a 6.

 

[rhcp83]

NaughtyNinja...I'm not pointing fingers. Like I said I work out (for myself not women) and have other hobbies. I'm taking responsbility if anything that I just don't have the qualities those women want.

Floyd...it's a visual thing. Looking at a woman that's sexy by my standards, is this great feeling. I know they sh1t like everyone else, and usually their personality probably svcks, but that doesn't matter for sex. I'm not looking to tie them down or have some deep connection with them. Just want one night.

Also, even the pretty/hot women I've dated could technically do better than me, find someone "cooler" or more attractive etc. (plenty of really hot men have unusual taste or date down etc.) so that holds true for any woman.

I remember skyping with this hot milf from pof, late 30s at the time. We were talking about what turned us on, were masturbating to each other etc. and were supposed to talk the next day (she must have just been horny and had regrets, an internet one night stand of sorts.) But my point is, that's what I'm after...lust.

If I wanted a gf at the moment, like I said, I'd find some cute nerdy girl. I have family and good friends I can talk to for that. I want to bang a woman I consider sexy.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

NaughtyNinja...I'm not pointing fingers. Like I said I work out (for myself not women) and have other hobbies. I'm taking responsbility if anything that I just don't have the qualities those women want.

Floyd...it's a visual thing. Looking at a woman that's sexy by my standards, is this great feeling. I know they sh1t like everyone else, and usually their personality probably svcks, but that doesn't matter for sex. I'm not looking to tie them down or have some deep connection with them. Just want one night.

Also, even the pretty/hot women I've dated could technically do better than me, find someone "cooler" or more attractive etc. (plenty of really hot men have unusual taste or date down etc.) so that holds true for any woman.

I remember skyping with this hot milf from pof, late 30s at the time. We were talking about what turned us on, were masturbating to each other etc. and were supposed to talk the next day (she must have just been horny and had regrets, an internet one night stand of sorts.) But my point is, that's what I'm after...lust.

If I wanted a gf at the moment, like I said, I'd find some cute nerdy girl. I have family and good friends I can talk to for that. I want to bang a woman I consider sexy.

She's pretty sexy IMO. Second pic she looks insane though. And from being on POF and seeing NUMEROUS amounts of women her age on there who look like nothing I'd even waste a copy and paste on she's definately waaay up there as far as her age bracket in looks for POF. She even blows out most younger ones. Fat, tat's all over themselves, beer guts etc.

If you haven't send her a message regarding the hairspray all over her mirror. Three quick back and forths then "Give me your number. I'm not on here much". She either gives it up and you go from there or forget about it.

I would GUARANTEE she's a whack job.