Anyone else struggle with premature ejaculation?

[Sofomore]

Since this is an anonymous board I dont mind posting here. I am 21, I have been having terrible bout of PE lately, it really is killing my confidence in the bedroom.

Last night I had a girl over, we are making out etc. for about 20 minutes. She starts rubbing her body on my d!ck, getting me really horny. Literally 20 seconds after she puts her mouth on my d!ck I feel the inevitable happening. Terrible experience. She lifts up and I literally came onto myself and my bed.

I have never had premature ejaculation this bad before. Looking online I cant find any good articles on how to treat it naturally (no drugs). It seems like its 100% psychological, and it is making me depressed.

 

[5string]

If you get off really quick, let it happen. Then get right back in the saddle again and tear it up! She won't mind.

 

[Sofomore]

I try to go for round 2 but it takes forever for me to get hard again, like 30 minutes. This is really getting me down since I'm normally a very confident person.

 

[5string]

So find some other way to please her for 30 minutes. She won't mind that either.

 

[Htienvu]

Fk man, I've been going too long and it annoys the hell out of me. Sometimes I just want a quick shoot out and get some sleep.

 

[the third eye]

seems like something a little more game would help. when you get with a girl and come quick just be like, "finally! ive been waiting for that all day." then proceed to eat her out. believe me she wont mind. you just gotta be alpha if the situation comes. and once you successfully aplha the situation i bet your PE problem will go away

 

[marmel75]

Try thinking of something else like baseball, football or anything...I have the opposite issue...there are times I go for so long I just don't even want to keep going and don't end up shoiting a load...

 

[cola]

Start masterbating on days you think your gonna get laid...

 

[Equilibrium]

Make sure you are not ever watching porn. That turns you into a "minuteman" because it turns you on a lot and makes ejaculating fast real easy. Also, don't masturbate habitually, as one of the goals of masturbation is to wank one out as soon as possible. When you do masturbate, set a limit of 15 minutes or longer. Don't let yourself ejaculate until the 15 minutes are up. Take note of how long it takes your body to calm down enough to keep spankin' the monkey against without sploogin. When you are with a girl, go fairly slow. Sex isn't supposed to be really fast at first anyway. Since much of the problem is psychological, don't let your mind focus too much on the fantasy aspect of things and occasionally think of other things if you need to. One last thing - using 2 condoms helps. If I want to last a long time, I use a numbing condom on the bottom, then something like a ribbed one over it. Using these techniques I can go forever and stay real hard, and if I want to orgasm I can do it within a minute or two of deciding to.

 

[Equilibrium]

I also kind of disagree with cola, because if your masturbate on the days you think you're going to get laid, you're not going to try as hard to get laid. You'll become more lethargic. You'll deplete your testosterone and you need it to drive you to the end. Orgasming more than once is fine too. Sometimes I like to have her give me a BJ til I come, then I'll do other things to her for a while til I'm ready again (like 5-10 minutes, but 30 isn't bad. In fact try to make 30 minutes or longer your goal for foreplay. So basically have her "do you," then go into foreplay mode, and she'll be really turned on for when you're ready and you can use the condom technique and whatnot too).

 

[Bible_Belt]

When you feel yourself getting close...think about your mom.

You could also try taking half a viagra. It will decrease sensitivity so you might last longer, as well as make round 2 happen a lot more quickly if you don't. I know you said 'no drugs,' but viagra is a pretty minor drug.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You should have loaded it in her mouth. Act like you don't give a f!ck. Wait 30 minutes and go again... this time for hours.

 

[garruk]

Fk man, I've been going too long and it annoys the hell out of me. Sometimes I just want a quick shoot out and get some sleep.

LOL same boat. I htought I was the only one.

 

[Young Stallion]

Cure for PE:
1. Quarter Dose of Zoloft per week, its an antidepressent but in small doses it is known to prevent you from ejaculating.
2. One Cialis Pill per week to make you be able to stay hard for as long as Zoloft keeps you going.
3. Kegel excercises daily to make you strong down there
4. Running 3 Kilometers a day because the more physical stamina and strength you have the better you are in bed alot of the time, I really find I am alot better while training.

This my friends is the cure for PE. I once bedded 2 different girls on 2 consecutive nights and litterally went 1 minute after I got into the sack........I was sorta worried by the fact that I did this so I made an appointment right away with a walk in clinic doctor and he hooked me up! I flat out told him what was wrong and he really took it well and told me it was unacceptable and he was going to help me right away!

Two weeks later I banged another girl.....for 5 HOURS before going. She said I had stamina like she had never seen.

-YS

 

[shizz702]

Not to brag or anything but I struggle with NOT being able to ejaculate sometimes. Literally I will go for a good hour where I'm like fml it's time to just stop. I have to really focus and concentrate and get in the zone to build up to an orgasm. The ladies love it as it pleases them, but it sucks for me as sometimes I just end up faking it.

 

[runner83]

Start masterbating on days you think your gonna get laid...

Terrible advice, will kill all your drive and energy.

If you have to, do it at least 2 days before, but preferably not at all.

Not to brag or anything but I struggle with NOT being able to ejaculate sometimes. Literally I will go for a good hour where I'm like fml it's time to just stop. I have to really focus and concentrate and get in the zone to build up to an orgasm. The ladies love it as it pleases them, but it sucks for me as sometimes I just end up faking it.

Likewise for me sometimes apart from the last part, especially if wearing a condom. If going in without and she is dripping wet, normally don't last as long, but still a decent period.

Never end up faking it though, get her to finish me off with her mouth.

 

[cola]

I also kind of disagree with cola, because if your masturbate on the days you think you're going to get laid, you're not going to try as hard to get laid. You'll become more lethargic. You'll deplete your testosterone and you need it to drive you to the end. Orgasming more than once is fine too. Sometimes I like to have her give me a BJ til I come, then I'll do other things to her for a while til I'm ready again (like 5-10 minutes, but 30 isn't bad. In fact try to make 30 minutes or longer your goal for foreplay. So basically have her "do you," then go into foreplay mode, and she'll be really turned on for when you're ready and you can use the condom technique and whatnot too).

Whatever the masterbating thing works for me.

 

[shizz702]

Terrible advice, will kill all your drive and energy.

If you have to, do it at least 2 days before, but preferably not at all.




Likewise for me sometimes apart from the last part, especially if wearing a condom. If going in without and she is dripping wet, normally don't last as long, but still a decent period.

Never end up faking it though, get her to finish me off with her mouth.

This mainly is a problem for me with chicks for the first time, or ones I'm not too comfortable with yet. Once fb rapport is built up I'm usually good.

I like them to finish me off too, but bjs are really just good warm ups for me, I can't get off to them. Sometimes what I will do is jerk it off in their mouth like a boss :rockon:

Always love having them swallow it.

 

[Leopold]

My opinion.. dont take me so seriously obviously I'm still the fvcking Virgin Mario.

Dont act weird or unconfortable about it... it'll just make her get those vibes. If i were you I would be like.. "OHH BABY!! You turn me on so good" Give her a good compliment to reward as an exchange for her patience while you try to get ready to go again. Why not buy time with foreplay and all the other stuff... I dont know, be creative!!!

Best of luck mate ROCK HER HARD!!!

 

[Demonicale]

I've had this happen like 3 times with 3 diffrent women in like a 5 week period.I know exactly what you mean and the last one almost put me off women for life.

I was that down and pissed at it that i was just going to masturbate to porn rather than get ***** and get the awkward PE.

I think the next time i'm going to pleasure her for awhile, then do my thing .. if i PE or not it wont be as bad as she'd be pleasured already.