Well it just dawned on me that he is finding less quality women...Perhaps thats why he had more dates because he is willing to settle more then I am..Like I said in my original post, Although it would be nice, Im not expecting Salma Hayek, I am expecting someone I find attractive though..I spent a number of years with a women I was less attracted to, Although she was a great person, I still felt dissatisfied, alone and unhappy..Im not making that mistake again...
I have a friend, age 55. He is alone, doesnt like it, doesnt get any action at the moment, but cant lower his entry level for a woman.
He is looking for "the woman that fascinates him" and didnt find THE ONE over the last 10 years. The ones he finds fascinating (in his imagination?) are not availlable to him.
I mean, i get it...... if we had the choice we all would rather have Salma Hayek.
Though for me, i have to say id rather settle with the pleasent 6 then with the annoying 10.
I told my friend to make a list what he REALLY wants/needs from a woman.
Coach RedPill made the point once that men need women only for 3 reasons:
*kids
*sex
*domestic comfort
I tend to agree with that list, for the rest a man has friends, pets, kids that do a way better job then women.
According to your reply to my posting you have your shiat more or less together. Depending on the area you live the drivers license might not be a problem and we all know women have a weakness for "badboys".
What i suspect is that you are looking for the famous "oneitis" (THE ONE "fascinating" woman, for the "serious" relationship).
One thing i learned is that the sniper-mentality wasnt getting me the results i wanted. Be a machine gunner, enjoy the fruits and after a while you might hit something really good.