anyone else have better success with women older than them?

[cola]

Me and girls my age just don't click for somereason most of my plates are 4 to 5 years older than me.. I'm 19.. I don't relate to women my age.. I don't care about aeropostle or holister or the ray jay show they annoy me.. anyone else have a similar problem?

 

[War Against Betaism]

I've dated like two women that were way older than me, I didn't like it though, it was just a totally different game. What I liked though is that older women knew what they want, whereas women my age (19) are so damn undecisive.

 

[nismo-4]

I can keep a older woman interested in me for 2 days and a younger woman interested in me for 2 hours. What's that saying to you guys?

 

[search1ng]

^ no idea.

I prefer older women though. Unless i just want a play-toy. Woman my age (20) just feel..so empty.

 

[nismo-4]

^ The point is that they seem to wait a while before rejecting me. Either way, I guess I'm not meant to get a girlfriend. Thankfully, I'm used to the ridicule and I've heard all the insults.

 

[goodfoot]

This has been happening with me too. I'm 22 but I can't a girl to give me a chance unless she is at least 26.

 

[K.Pez]

the only interesting girls - one's that i'd consider dating exclusively - i've met who are my age (19) were the really driven ones (they know what they want) who are hilarious. all the other girls want to do is get drunk so they have an excuse for why they make bad decisions. they never want to make a decision if they don't have a type of "crutch" like alcohol. i've never dated older women, but i'd be willing to if i got the chance.

 

[PerfectCircle]

^ The point is that they seem to wait a while before rejecting me. Either way, I guess I'm not meant to get a girlfriend. Thankfully, I'm used to the ridicule and I've heard all the insults.

Hey ol boy. this is nothing to be thankful for.

Those who face ridicule and insults have two options. Accept it, grow used to it, become uneffected by it. as you, "thankfully have". The other option is to Not Accept it, Use it to fuel the fire of self improvement, build a better you, move forward.

Seek inspiration. build determination. believe in yourself.

or believe that everything i just said was "gh3Y" and get no where.

 

[Bible_Belt]

When I was 19, I lived with a 26 y/o. She wanted to get married, but I was smart enough not to.

At your age, older women still have novelty. When you reach your late 20's or so, you start seeing the effects of age in most women who are older than you. Then the novelty will wear off.

 

[cola]

Girls my age and me don't click because I have different worries in life than them. I'm not silver spoon fed and my relatives genuinely do nothing for me ( a 20 dollar loan here and there and a room to sleep in) I'm concerned with paying bills and stuff when these chicks my age seem to not have these issues.. which Is why I relate to women who are somewhat older than me.. I guess we have the same struggle.. and then even though I'm 19 I could easily pass for 24-25.. that doesn't help eithr..

 

[Darth]

Well, good to see some others like me. I was beginning to think it was just me. I even posted about this problem a while back...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157467

 

[nismo-4]

Hey ol boy. this is nothing to be thankful for.

Those who face ridicule and insults have two options. Accept it, grow used to it, become uneffected by it. as you, "thankfully have". The other option is to Not Accept it, Use it to fuel the fire of self improvement, build a better you, move forward.

Seek inspiration. build determination. believe in yourself.

or believe that everything i just said was "gh3Y" and get no where.

You may be new to this stuff, but I musta threw in the towel. Honestly, I barely go out these days, but under no circumstances should defeat be accepted.