Anyone else find blondes and redheads easier?

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I feel like I match a lot with blondes and redheads and even when I used to go out to clubs a lot, I would have way more fun times with them. Now I am white myself but have dark hair, lookalike I get is Eminem from 8 mile, like actually in the movie itself. Blonde girls are the biggest culprits of going for me, especially if they are the midwestern girl. For some reason, I have always done well with women in Chicago, Minneapolis, and midwestern cities and they were always blondes. Natural blondes too, those have been the easiest for me to sleep with and I've even had them call me hot. Same with redheads, they are also the same way, just not enough of them around.

Brunettes are a wild card but I find that if they are really pale with freckles, especially the kind that probably has sisters who are naturally blondes, I can still do well. The kinds of brunettes I absolutely crash with and do horrendous with are the ones who are tanned with darker eyes, think Emily Ratajkowski type of a look or an Olivia Culpo kind of look. I never do well with those kinds of women at nightclubs, rarely match them on dating apps, and cannot even recall if I have been with a hot girl who had that kind of a look.
 

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This brings me back to year 2007-ish, cuz I knew a guy from sosuave, I think he was from Britain, but I could be mistaken. I smoked weed back then, and man, the way he made it sound, he thought in a way, in many different ways actually on one single idea, he appeared to be God. We talked about blondes and redheads, and brunettes.

Blondes have more testosterone in them, that's why they are slvttier.
Red heads are sensitive for some hormonal reason, and I forgot why.
Can't remember anything about brunettes.

The point is, conversation went like so, if you want to approach women, there are different tactics based on whether the girl is blonde or brunette or redhead.
 
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This brings me back to year 2007-ish, cuz I knew a guy from sosuave, I think he was from Britain, but I could be mistaken. I smoked weed back then, and man, the way he made it sound, he thought in a way, in many different ways actually on one single idea, he appeared to be God. We talked about blondes and redheads, and brunettes.

Blondes have more testosterone in them, that's why they are slvttier.
Red heads are sensitive for some hormonal reason, and I forgot why.
Can't remember anything about brunettes.

The point is, conversation went like so, if you want to approach women, there are different tactics based on whether the girl is blonde or brunette or redhead.
Makes no sense, brunettes should have more test since darker usually means more test and lighter means more estrogen.
 

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Mpre estrogen means bigger breasts and feminine voice plus rounded features, so imagine an asian girl who is slim with big tits
 

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I can kind of see some truth to this.. I am naturally more attracted to brunettes, but I some how end up with blondes a lot more. My daughter has blonde hair and blue eyes, while I have brown hair and brown eyes.

I think everyone might have a certain type that is attracted to them. For some reason, A LOT of Hispanic/Latina women flirt with me as well. I'm not sure if they like me because I'm a white boy, or whatever.. but I've noticed this all the way since high school.

It's also pretty well known that bigger women are attracted to the skinny frail guys. I was skinny most of my life before I started lifting weights, and can agree with this 100%.

It may be your look or something else about you that attracts a certain type.. for someone else, they may attract a completely different type of woman.
 

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Blondes do seem to take life on a lighter note ( more carefree ), Redheads seem to be a pain, and Brunettes are even more of a pain lol...
But I give them all a chance anyway.

I think blonde puzzy taste better too haha
 

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I don't agree at all

I find non-whites to be the easiest. Especially if you are a white guy
 
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It makes perfect sense. Blondes are known to be slvtty. Why is that? Because they have more testosterone.
I think it might be more cultural too, blondes are more secure and at peace given their high status in society. Due to that, they just love cool guys and don't play games. Meanwhile, say an Italian looking brunette might feel very very insecure about her social standing and might pass up a cool guy over a guy who raises her social status which works differently in her own world. I always found that 6s and 7s are more bitter and rude than 9s and 10s.
 
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I don't agree at all

I find non-whites to be the easiest. Especially if you are a white guy
I think it is overplayed and exaggerated from what I notice. Yeah you'll alway have a select group of Asian women and Latinas that hate their men and want white guys but I very rarely find those women good looking. The hot ones might still go for white guys but not some run of the mill loser, more higher status white guy that even hot white girls want.

Black women can be on the fence and I have not seen Arab and brown women that are hot break for white guys in the same way either.

What I have noticed is that when ethnic women go for a white guy, he is usually blond or white looking as heck. A stereotypically Italian looking or swarthy guy is laughed off at. Even had an Italian wing with a thing for Latinas who had his ego crushed because the Latinas wanted my brother (a tall blond kid) more than him. Last I checked, dude is Alt Right Trump supporter now lol.

Darker featured white guys only pull paler white women, ethnic women seem to despise them.
 
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I can kind of see some truth to this.. I am naturally more attracted to brunettes, but I some how end up with blondes a lot more. My daughter has blonde hair and blue eyes, while I have brown hair and brown eyes.

I think everyone might have a certain type that is attracted to them. For some reason, A LOT of Hispanic/Latina women flirt with me as well. I'm not sure if they like me because I'm a white boy, or whatever.. but I've noticed this all the way since high school.

It's also pretty well known that bigger women are attracted to the skinny frail guys. I was skinny most of my life before I started lifting weights, and can agree with this 100%.

It may be your look or something else about you that attracts a certain type.. for someone else, they may attract a completely different type of woman.
Yeah I mean I wonder if I struggle with brunettes because I have dark hair myself. What I have noticed is that if the brunette is more Nordic or Irish background (think pale skin, freckles, and color eyes), I can do well. I can hit it out of the ballpark with her if she has a naturally blonde sister too. Where I struggle is if she is swarthy herself, that is where my worst experiences have come from. Let's just say that like my boy @Who Dares Win there is a reason I would never want to live in Spain or Italy lol.
 

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Yeah I mean I wonder if I struggle with brunettes because I have dark hair myself. What I have noticed is that if the brunette is more Nordic or Irish background (think pale skin, freckles, and color eyes), I can do well. I can hit it out of the ballpark with her if she has a naturally blonde sister too. Where I struggle is if she is swarthy herself, that is where my worst experiences have come from. Let's just say that like my boy @Who Dares Win there is a reason I would never want to live in Spain or Italy lol.
You only have to try tinder in those places too see what you are dealing with, look level much lower than eastern europe while attitude is much higher.

How can you measure attitude? well empty bios and wannabe diva pictures...I kid you not there are girls with 5 or 6 pictures and none of them is a simple one, alwats artistic bull**** or stylish crap.

"I dont like when guys just write hello" but has empty bio as if we are coming from the foresee academy.
 

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"I dont like when guys just write hello" but has empty bio as if we are coming from the foresee academy.
I hate this so much. When I actually find a girl I want to start a conversation with, and there is literally NOTHING in her bio go off of.. lol
 

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I hate this so much. When I actually find a girl I want to start a conversation with, and there is literally NOTHING in her bio go off of.. lol
Apparently they find 2 hours to paint their body full of tattoos but cant find 2 minutes to fill their bio.
 
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Apparently they find 2 hours to paint their body full of tattoos but cant find 2 minutes to fill their bio.
Culture determines everything in a woman and how she views the world, dating, and men. Wise men such as @Who Dares Win and others have remarked about the awful women you run into in places like Spain and Italy. At the very fabric though, despite having among the richest histories on the planet, both nationalities have little substance in today’s world

I have been around a good number of Spaniards and especially a lot of Italians, they don’t value the same things that Anglos and westerners value. In those societies, image isn’t everything, it is the only thing. Looking good, appearances, how others perceive you, and social standing fuels the very core of what the people in those places value. Now that makes its way down to the women, as the saying goes in the business world, **** flows downstream!

Now with Italians, add in the fact that the Machiavellian school of thought was invented by them and you get social mind games and the constant need to social ladder climb.

It is no mystery why most men have a bad experience with Italian women whether it is straight out of Italy or Italian American. Unless you are the stereotypically desirable guy, your life has no value. It’s pure Machiavellian (prolly botching up the spelling a good bit here) mentality at play here, if it doesn’t help me move up or gain social leverage, it’s disregarded.

Women of other cultures like say Scandinavian women or Eastern Europe tend to live more for experiences and excitement, they already know they are top of the ladder so there is no need to really have their spot challenged. Same with Jewish women as I have found, they value education more and have a stronger culture at its core which leads them to being more of a joy to be around compared to Italian women.

So the whole issue that guys have with Mediterranean women is due to the fact that at its core, their culture is very plastic and surface level. It’s Machiaveillian attitudes expressed to their greatest extent, don’t bother unless you are state of the art.
 

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I think it is overplayed and exaggerated from what I notice. Yeah you'll alway have a select group of Asian women and Latinas that hate their men and want white guys but I very rarely find those women good looking. The hot ones might still go for white guys but not some run of the mill loser, more higher status white guy that even hot white girls want.

Black women can be on the fence and I have not seen Arab and brown women that are hot break for white guys in the same way either.

What I have noticed is that when ethnic women go for a white guy, he is usually blond or white looking as heck. A stereotypically Italian looking or swarthy guy is laughed off at. Even had an Italian wing with a thing for Latinas who had his ego crushed because the Latinas wanted my brother (a tall blond kid) more than him. Last I checked, dude is Alt Right Trump supporter now lol.

Darker featured white guys only pull paler white women, ethnic women seem to despise them.
Kind of agree, however I've done well w/Latinas and I'm not so tall, and a Dark-haired guy. The Latinas also appreciate my personality. And it has pizzed off my dude friends a couple of times haha. Latinas can be a lot of fun, but may not age well...
 

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Culture determines everything in a woman and how she views the world, dating, and men. Wise men such as @Who Dares Win and others have remarked about the awful women you run into in places like Spain and Italy. At the very fabric though, despite having among the richest histories on the planet, both nationalities have little substance in today’s world

I have been around a good number of Spaniards and especially a lot of Italians, they don’t value the same things that Anglos and westerners value. In those societies, image isn’t everything, it is the only thing. Looking good, appearances, how others perceive you, and social standing fuels the very core of what the people in those places value. Now that makes its way down to the women, as the saying goes in the business world, **** flows downstream!

Now with Italians, add in the fact that the Machiavellian school of thought was invented by them and you get social mind games and the constant need to social ladder climb.

It is no mystery why most men have a bad experience with Italian women whether it is straight out of Italy or Italian American. Unless you are the stereotypically desirable guy, your life has no value. It’s pure Machiavellian (prolly botching up the spelling a good bit here) mentality at play here, if it doesn’t help me move up or gain social leverage, it’s disregarded.

Women of other cultures like say Scandinavian women or Eastern Europe tend to live more for experiences and excitement, they already know they are top of the ladder so there is no need to really have their spot challenged. Same with Jewish women as I have found, they value education more and have a stronger culture at its core which leads them to being more of a joy to be around compared to Italian women.

So the whole issue that guys have with Mediterranean women is due to the fact that at its core, their culture is very plastic and surface level. It’s Machiaveillian attitudes expressed to their greatest extent, don’t bother unless you are state of the art.
I agree with basically everything but what you dont understand is that this same cultural cancer is getting widespread anywhere due to social media, instagram and facebook are turning people (women) everywhere into the same trash.

I kid you not, polish girls from early 00s and current ones seem to come from two different countries while italians and spanish keep being the way they were just more openly.
 
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I agree with basically everything but what you dont understand is that this same cultural cancer is getting widespread anywhere due to social media, instagram and facebook are turning people (women) everywhere into the same trash.

I kid you not, polish girls from early 00s and current ones seem to come from two different countries while italians and spanish keep being the way they were just more openly.
I do not think it is that bad really. I mean at their core, I think EE girls will stay who they are, fun loving and chill girls who love macho guys. Meanwhile, I think Med girls will remain who they are even if social media was not a thing. Eventually, some balancing act might exist lol.
 

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I always attract busty girls with a flat a$$. It's gotten to the point where if a girl has a bubble butt and no tìts I don't even bother with her. They all reject me automatically.
 
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