Anyone else as bored as me?

kavi

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
 

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
I am around 50. Yes it is like that. You saw the matrix. I think you can go back to the matrix and feel good about it. Specillly when you get older you can make better priorities. That is why older people are generally more happier.
 

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We are pushing 40 bro. Maybe its some sort of mid life crisis.

Try new things. Settle down and have a kid (if its something you want)
 

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
Being a nerd helps. I'm interested in nerdy stuff (games, history, art, medicine, physics, chemistry, classical music). So, I'm rarely bored.
 

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You're probably bored because you don't have a sexual resource to tap.
 

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For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.
True

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
It's not abnormal to feel as you are feeling.

You're probably bored because you don't have a sexual resource to tap.
I agree with this.
 

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I think that what happened is that since the explosion of social media esp youtube, of google search engine, and instagram, there has been a decline in forums and blogs and online communities of special interests. It seems that things have become more 'centralized' and mainstream. In general there seems to have been a loss of interest communities. Like back in the day, even the PUAs, the had their own sites and blogs, and sites would link to other sites so there was more going on online. IRL it seems to be similar, with subcultures becoming either more mainstream or dying out.
 
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